Hi @Boilerbator87
Please.make sure you read the room. And also this thread :
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"Hello world" thread
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Hi. I'm in my 50s now and I've always had a very high sex drive and it doesn't seem to have diminished over the years at all. My partner and I have played with chastity on and off which has been great fun, but recently the female led sex life has taken a turn towards a lifestyle choice for us both, at least that's my perception.
At the time of writing this I've probably not been in chastity for more than a couple of weeks at a time, but after we had watched a few of Ava Aaronson's videos, I do spend pretty much all my time when I'm not chastised in an Oxballs Unit-x Stretch harness, which we both like a lot.
My orgasms have been under my partner's control for many months now (I'm not good at measuring the passing of time unfortunately), and the only orgasms I get are ones administered or allowed by her.
Last night though, I crossed a line and have been put into chastity and I know that she's ordered a more severe cage which comes in a few days. I understand that I'll be transferred to that as soon as it arrives. I don't know for how long yet. That's her call and I love it
At the time of writing this I've probably not been in chastity for more than a couple of weeks at a time, but after we had watched a few of Ava Aaronson's videos, I do spend pretty much all my time when I'm not chastised in an Oxballs Unit-x Stretch harness, which we both like a lot.
My orgasms have been under my partner's control for many months now (I'm not good at measuring the passing of time unfortunately), and the only orgasms I get are ones administered or allowed by her.
Last night though, I crossed a line and have been put into chastity and I know that she's ordered a more severe cage which comes in a few days. I understand that I'll be transferred to that as soon as it arrives. I don't know for how long yet. That's her call and I love it

My Goddess has transferred me to a 'Mistress's Constant Steel Cage' for greater control and i'm using the 45mm ring as it appears to be inescapable. I'm so grateful to Her.
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Welcome @Bream . Sounds like you're most of the way there and having lots of fun already.
Nice one.
Nice one.
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Hi,
newbie from South Africa looking to explore chastity a bit as a playtime thing/maybe a bit more long term. I'm mid 40s, happily married but enjoy when my wife has a chance to be more dominant. She's still figuring our how comfortable she is so it's not something that happens often, and to be honest I enjoy taking the lead much of the time as well. I picked up a HT knockoff and have tried out wearing for the day here and there - interesting sensation and moderately comfortable but I'm keen to try something that would be easier to keep clean for longer term us. Not sure when or how I'll introduce chastity with my wife but have been enjoying lurking here.
newbie from South Africa looking to explore chastity a bit as a playtime thing/maybe a bit more long term. I'm mid 40s, happily married but enjoy when my wife has a chance to be more dominant. She's still figuring our how comfortable she is so it's not something that happens often, and to be honest I enjoy taking the lead much of the time as well. I picked up a HT knockoff and have tried out wearing for the day here and there - interesting sensation and moderately comfortable but I'm keen to try something that would be easier to keep clean for longer term us. Not sure when or how I'll introduce chastity with my wife but have been enjoying lurking here.
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..as for my user name, I figure everyone likes a good Rocky Horror reference now and then
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Welcome to our forums!
We live in central NC, USA. We plan to visit Cape Town around the end of the year: do the safari thing, take some other tours; dine at some of the top restaurants. I realize that SA is not a small country, that you most likely don't live in Cape Town, and might never have even been there, but just in case you are familiar with CT, and have any thoughts about things we shouldn't miss, please PM me.
I hope that you are as successful with chastity as Herbi and Miss Emmi, and not as unsuccessful as me.
Welcome to our forums!
We live in central NC, USA. We plan to visit Cape Town around the end of the year: do the safari thing, take some other tours; dine at some of the top restaurants. I realize that SA is not a small country, that you most likely don't live in Cape Town, and might never have even been there, but just in case you are familiar with CT, and have any thoughts about things we shouldn't miss, please PM me.
I hope that you are as successful with chastity as Herbi and Miss Emmi, and not as unsuccessful as me.
Past Devices: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired; then broke beyond repair. I threw the dreaded Spiked Chamber away.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
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Thank you @MrPickle, it's good to be here.
I have no real idea where 'there' is, but I'm enjoying our journey regardless : )
I hope that yours is a fulfilling one as well
I have no real idea where 'there' is, but I'm enjoying our journey regardless : )
I hope that yours is a fulfilling one as well
My Goddess has transferred me to a 'Mistress's Constant Steel Cage' for greater control and i'm using the 45mm ring as it appears to be inescapable. I'm so grateful to Her.
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Been busy and not been here much lately. So many new members. Happy to have you on board. Enjoy the ride.
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So, here is my "Hello World" post.
I'll keep this short as I would like to tell more in the Journey section.
I've been lurking for a bit and I'm excited, in more than one way, to be a part of this forum and hope to be able to contribute things that are meaningful and worthwhile.
Looking forward to posting more!
I'll keep this short as I would like to tell more in the Journey section.
I've been lurking for a bit and I'm excited, in more than one way, to be a part of this forum and hope to be able to contribute things that are meaningful and worthwhile.
Looking forward to posting more!
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40 something guy from Switzerland currently preparing for Locktober. Locked in a Holytrainer Nano V5 at the moment. Would like to explore chastity a bit more than just for playing around. Also using Cobra cages
Looking forward to contributing to this great forum!
Looking forward to contributing to this great forum!