"Hello world" thread
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Hi, just joined after lurking for a bit to check out the type of forum this is, as looking for real people not fantasies. Been playing around for about five years with my wonderful wife who's getting more and more into the spirit. Currently locked on her instruction, no idea how long for, the longest so far was 30 days, but she threatens 6 months and I have no idea if or when she'll do that.
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carla young386
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New here and trying to learn I am a married male with PIED and Porn addiction trying to break the cycle. currently have 3 cages and trying to get to 24/7 so as to control masturbation and hoping to get my wife onboard. I have found ever since I started I am more thoughtful of her and pleasing and doing for her. We have for various reasons not been sexually active with each other for years. We are committed to each other and NOT interested in sex with others, it's just that facet of our relationship has passed in great part to my ED which I am sure is PORN INDUCED and her going through the change.
I have been following this and one other forum, trying to be vanilla and fix myself I have been self locking as my wife is NOT interested and thinks the entire idea is extreme and weird.
I have been following this and one other forum, trying to be vanilla and fix myself I have been self locking as my wife is NOT interested and thinks the entire idea is extreme and weird.
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Hi all,
so I need to introduce myself, that is a little bit harder for me because I am German speaking.
My wife is very young and beautiful Asian woman and from the beginning on enjoyed my full attention to her in the bed. in our focus is always her pleasure and not mine. During some harder years I had to confess that I am submissive and became a masturbation champion. So we decided that I have to stop porn and I have to ask permission before I get off (also due to my premature ejaculations). This did not work very well, because I needed to confess far too often. As a consequence I got her permission to soft lock her property. In my diary I want to explain how this works in a day to day routine.
so I need to introduce myself, that is a little bit harder for me because I am German speaking.
My wife is very young and beautiful Asian woman and from the beginning on enjoyed my full attention to her in the bed. in our focus is always her pleasure and not mine. During some harder years I had to confess that I am submissive and became a masturbation champion. So we decided that I have to stop porn and I have to ask permission before I get off (also due to my premature ejaculations). This did not work very well, because I needed to confess far too often. As a consequence I got her permission to soft lock her property. In my diary I want to explain how this works in a day to day routine.
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Hello everyone,
I am very new to chastity. I am married and am the Dom in a D/s marriage. Through a series of medical conditions I had lost all ability to feel passion and desire and then 2 years ago ended up getting TRT therapy. This led to a sudden re-emergence of intense feelings that unfortunately, rather than pointing at my wife/sub turned in to a porn and masturbation addiction. This itself began to draw me away from my submissive and my focus often fell on Just masturbation. Because of some travel, I went several days with no masturbation and realized that my desire for my wife had suddenly spiked. With some extreme frustration I was then able to go several days again and continued to notice a huge difference. I know that many people connect chastity with submissiveness, but I feel it could benefit me greatly in my Dominance as well. I am just here looking for advice and to connect with others attempting control. In a way, this is self enforced chastity for me though I have sought others to help hold myself accountable.
I am very new to chastity. I am married and am the Dom in a D/s marriage. Through a series of medical conditions I had lost all ability to feel passion and desire and then 2 years ago ended up getting TRT therapy. This led to a sudden re-emergence of intense feelings that unfortunately, rather than pointing at my wife/sub turned in to a porn and masturbation addiction. This itself began to draw me away from my submissive and my focus often fell on Just masturbation. Because of some travel, I went several days with no masturbation and realized that my desire for my wife had suddenly spiked. With some extreme frustration I was then able to go several days again and continued to notice a huge difference. I know that many people connect chastity with submissiveness, but I feel it could benefit me greatly in my Dominance as well. I am just here looking for advice and to connect with others attempting control. In a way, this is self enforced chastity for me though I have sought others to help hold myself accountable.
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saratoga988
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hi, I'm 41, I'm here because I'm very curious about the topic. I've had youth experiences and i'd like to repeat with my new partner. she is 36 years old and has a very dominating nature. i am particularly interested in chastity cage and e-stim devices
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New here but not so much to chastity, just new to cages. I'm 33 male, still trying to work that out but biologically male for the moment, will see where it goes. I honestly didn't know there was a forum for this until I was looking for a cage and it was in the search results on google.
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TwistedMister
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Welcome to the forum. Yes, the 'internet' can be a wonderful place***, with a little something for everyone no matter how 'unusual'.reikano wrote: ↑Sat Oct 30, 2021 11:09 am New here but not so much to chastity, just new to cages. I'm 33 male, still trying to work that out but biologically male for the moment, will see where it goes. I honestly didn't know there was a forum for this until I was looking for a cage and it was in the search results on google.
***(It can also be a rubbish-heap, if you get down the wrong rabbit-hole by mistake.)
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
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Hi all. My Goddess now has me in a permanent cage sold on DHgate. I love it! It’s like many others with a base ring and a cage with a lock. But this lock is different, it’s a clip that goes flush.
So I pointed it out that it looked different and with a word “yes” and cold chills up my back and butterflies in my stomach, I ordered it.
But alas, work sent me traveling before the new cage arrived, my Goddess was not pleased that I was traveling uncaged. The thought of a permanent cage was exciting for her and it please me to see her smile and speak about it. It is a little strange to think of not having control of myself, not touching it. So once I was set in my new hotel, to stay for 118 days, the cage arrived.
So I pointed it out that it looked different and with a word “yes” and cold chills up my back and butterflies in my stomach, I ordered it.
But alas, work sent me traveling before the new cage arrived, my Goddess was not pleased that I was traveling uncaged. The thought of a permanent cage was exciting for her and it please me to see her smile and speak about it. It is a little strange to think of not having control of myself, not touching it. So once I was set in my new hotel, to stay for 118 days, the cage arrived.
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Hey all,
I'm 23, and gay. Found out about chastity a few years back, and was immediately drawn to it. I put it on from time to time, but lack the self control to go longer than a couple of hours. Never knew about this forum. Hoping to learn some things for my self control, and others story's.
I'm 23, and gay. Found out about chastity a few years back, and was immediately drawn to it. I put it on from time to time, but lack the self control to go longer than a couple of hours. Never knew about this forum. Hoping to learn some things for my self control, and others story's.
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LuckyEddie
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Greetings one and all!
I am an older gent (surprise, right?) and am just starting this journey. I am on my 3rd cage (only been at this about 4 months), and finally found one I truly like, now if I could just find an odd sized ring (48mm). I have tried plastic, it broke quickly and was a total waste of time and money. Went to steel for the second device, but it had an integrated lock and required 3 hands to close and lock. Surprisingly, I dont have 3 hands. I got my newest cage last week, padlock, and love the heck out of it. Now if I can just find a 48mm ring life will be great! 45 is just a tad to tight, causing some chafing on the left and right of my penis. Still searching, might have to go to 50mm if I cant find a 48mm. I saw one once a few months back but didnt save the web site. (Sigh) Oh Well. Have a good weekend.
Eddie
I am an older gent (surprise, right?) and am just starting this journey. I am on my 3rd cage (only been at this about 4 months), and finally found one I truly like, now if I could just find an odd sized ring (48mm). I have tried plastic, it broke quickly and was a total waste of time and money. Went to steel for the second device, but it had an integrated lock and required 3 hands to close and lock. Surprisingly, I dont have 3 hands. I got my newest cage last week, padlock, and love the heck out of it. Now if I can just find a 48mm ring life will be great! 45 is just a tad to tight, causing some chafing on the left and right of my penis. Still searching, might have to go to 50mm if I cant find a 48mm. I saw one once a few months back but didnt save the web site. (Sigh) Oh Well. Have a good weekend.
Eddie