"Hello world" thread

[regular_john]

Hi all!

I'm a mid-20s fella in a loving and committed relationship with my girlfriend of over two years. We started discussing kinks etc. no more than a few months into our relationship and she's been very accepting and enthusiastic about my desires (chastity, denial, pegging etc.), which I'm sure I share with many of you.

We've been practising orgasm control for over a year now and as I'm only a couple of days away from receiving a chastity device I thought I'd join some forums and get some advice!

I look forward to learning from the experience of others.

[ViagraJoe]

Am new to chastity. Wanted to stop excessive masturbation. Ordered a CB 3000 and should receive the device in a couple of days. Cannot wait to be locked in. Want my former girl friend to be the key holder. Am afraid she may think that I am weird. Any ideas on how to approach her? How should I prepare before locking in?

[andychaste]

Greetings - I'm new here and have just started playing with my cb6000s, mangaged to enroll the wife too! So far we've just played with it for tease on the bed but i want to get her to lock me up longer and would love to get some tips on how to broach this without sounding like a wierdo!

[Atone]

So far we've just played with it for tease on the bed but i want to get her to lock me up longer and would love to get some tips on how to broach this without sounding like a wierdo!

welcome to the forum.

"Dear, I would really like you to lock me up for a longer period of time, would you do that for me?" and then offer to do something to get her needs met. Just remember, her needs might not be sexual so be prepared to do something for her that might not really be what you want to do.

[Breed36]

Hi all
I'm a 40 year old porn addict. I'm trying to introduce chastity to my GF of seven years. I don't think I can quit masturbating without some sort of control. Chastity may just be a chance to let my system reset if you will.

I enjoy the stories and experiences I have read here so hopefully I can use them to help me control this addiction.
Thanks for reading.

[finallyhappy]

That is why I started. Taking care of myself really had a negative impact on my performance and therefore my relationships. So I decided that in the best interest of my new relationship (year and a half now) that this is what I needed to do.

Good luck and welcome.

[TwistedMister]

Hate to break it to you, but I doubt it will do anything to 'control' a porn 'addiction'. I look at more porn now than before, it's like that urge to keep wiggling a loose tooth even though it hurts like hell. Used to be if I got a little horny and looked at a little porn, I'd just rub one out real quick and be done, move on to something else...can't do that now...

[Breed36]

Thanks for the advice Twisted

I'm a little different. If I look at porn I'm going to masturbate. It's just that simple. Knowing I cannot masturbate has kept me from looking at porn (so far) because I know I can't do what I really want to do. If chastity can help with that then I'm all for it. So far it has.

We will see

[deepj15]

Hi - I am new to this site and to dom/sub lifestyle and we are just looking into chastity for my hubby, we have been married for 18 years and I am hoping to get information on chastity and the lifestyle in general.

Looks like I have some reading to do on the forums to get my feet wet.

[Linus]

Dear deepj15, Welcome to chastity lifestyle! You have reached the most informative & comprehensive forum. Ever since my wife has locked me in jailhouse chastity cage, our sexual relationship has become far more exiting! Do survey various devices & read experiences of chaste husbands before finalizing a device. In case of any doubts, members from this forum will be more than happy to provide true advice. All the best!
By the way, are you from India?