[Lockhubbybywife] Lockedhubby's Journey

[Lockhubbybywife]

December 7, 2018
Well I guess good bye Tumblr. One last post. We are progressing in our FLR and she is taking to ordering me around more. She especially likes to do it around her family. She has me locked currently for 3 weeks today. The other day while servicing her she was telling me that it was turning her on that I was humpping the bed and that I had no chance on cumming. So the whole cage idea has grown on her unless she just was saying something she thought I wanted to hear. We are working on a weight loss motivational contract, if I lose 5 lbs in a week I get to have sex and she will make me clean her out. I think this may happen, even though she called me a pervert this morning. The whole cuckolding is still a turn on for me but I don’t think it will ever happen, not because of her but me, the risk of losing her is too much. Plus my research is telling me we need to have a very open communication relationship and even though I share everything, she shares very little. I purchased her a gold key and heart earrings for Christmas, I am curious what her reaction will be. She refuses to wear the key and lately I have been pointing out some ladies with key necklaces/ actually jewelry and telling her that their husband is probably caged. I made a profile on bdsmfl.com and will attempt to transfer my shit over to it.

December 12, 2018
Ok one more last post. Last night after I serviced her, I asked why she doesn’t like for me to put my tongue in her hole. She said “your penis doesn’t do anything for me, what makes you think your tongue does.” I strained in my cage more than I did servicing her. 4 weeks locked on Friday, and I mean four weeks. No taking it off for anything.

December 13, 2018
Ok one more. I feel guilty today because I was able to jerk off with my cage on. The last time I needed a vibrator to get me off caged. This time just needed tumblr to help with a cuckolding video.

December 27, 2018
Looks like I am going to stick around a little longer. I requested to be unlocked on Sunday, due to a fishing trip with the boys, she granted my request. Monday she had to work and she didn’t request I had to recaged. Well empty house and I had all day to masturbate. First I had a cock sleeve extension I wanted to try on. I got my 5.5” cock nice and hard and put the extension on. Wow what a feeling to have that monster thick 8” cock on me. I started to stroke it and thinking about fucking my wife with my huge cock and her screaming that it hurt and it wasn’t long and I blew my load in it. The second time was reading cuckold stories and the thought of me locked forever, her taking all the men she wanted I being 100% submissive to her and then with my preforming cleanup duties afterwards was all it took. I held my spunk in my hand for a moment, but I couldn’t raise my hand a slurp it all up. So Christmas arrives and all was good. I was a good boy, help with brunch with the family and did the majority of the cleanup, kissed all the family goodbye, which I never did in the past, cleanup some more and sat down. She went to the bedroom to take a nap and I said I was going to redbox to rent some movies and asked if she needed anything. I watched 2 movies and thought I would check up on her and even possibly get laid. She was laying on the bed dozing and I decided to jump in the shower and there it was, my cage. This was the sign to put it on, I step out of the bathroom and said “but” and she quickly said “you were misbehaving”. I started to rebut, and she gave me a look and I showered and put my cage back on. I got out and jumped in bed putting covers over me and she said what you think you are doing, get down there. After I brought her to an orgasm and thanked her for allowing me to service her, I said you are really getting accustomed to being the queen . She just said “ya I guess so” and rolled over and went to sleep.

[Lockhubbybywife]

January 22,2019
Well it appears people jump off of tumblr before it was officially gone. Nothing new to report other than the wife is definitely getting more dominant and taking everything the pace she wants to. Nothing kinky has gone on. I was flying out in the early am and I needed to ask her if she would like the cage in her drawer or mine, her response was why would you even ask that question. “Well it is only 1 day gone and only a week locked. “You don’t make those decisions. I cuddled up thinking I was getting some and she said she was sleepy. I know tonight it will be late when I return and that won’t happen. So I will most likely be jacking off to porn. I already told the office I will be late in the morning.

January 28, 2019
It rained all weekend, so we went bar hopping on Sunday and we were getting lose and discussing everything and she brought up that she saw my porn one night when I was passed out on the couch, which I can only assume was my tumblr. She also mentioned that she thought it was dangerous to give her permission to have sex with someone else. She doesn’t like the texts that I send when I let her know I will be home late and to have her boyfriend out by that time. She loves me and only me. So when she is saying it is “dangerous”, do you think she would actually do it, but beware I may fall in love with him and leave you and your small dick?

[Lockhubbybywife]

February 4, 2019
My good friend lost106, is telling me that he was caged 80% of the time in 2018. Well that got my curiosity going and looking back at my chastity calendar,

January 2018 5 days unlocked

February 2018 4 days unlocked

March 2018 11 days unlocked

April 2018 1 days unlocked

May 2018 7 days unlocked

June 2018 3 days unlocked

July 2018 0 days unlocked

August 2018 4 days unlocked

September 2018 12 days unlocked

October 2018 3 days unlocked

November 2018 5 days unlocked

December 2018 1 days unlocked

Total in 2018 56 days / 15% unlocked

So far in 2019 5 days unlocked.

Being unlocked is Mostly due to traveling and not being able to wear a steel cage through TSA.

February 19, 2019
25 days locked and the last time I had sex with my princess was January 25, 2019. Nothing to report, we are still at the same place we were on my last post. She has no problems with me being locked and no problems with me doing most of the chores and no problems with me licking her to orgasm and no problems with her rolling over to go to sleep and me laying there completely frustrated. Which by the way is what I love about chastity, the constant hornieness. The let down after you cum is huge. I think if I went to her and asked to make it permanent, she would freak. She said she saw some of my porn on night while I was sleeping on the coach and on a Saturday night out cocktailing, she said that it wouldn’t be a good idea to give her permission to fuck other guys. I said yes I don’t know if I could handle it either, but the thought turn me on.

February 26, 2019
Well I went 29 days and she unlocked me on Saturday evening before we headed out. We grabbed a “quckie” and pounded her good. The issue is I had to hit it hard to feel anything on my little dick. The next couple of days she mentioned that I made her pussy sore. I said “my little dick destroyed your pussy?” Her femdom hasn’t increased at all, if anything it has come down some. The last couple of times she has unlocked me it has been only for a couple of days. She put the cage on the shower half wall so I am locked again today. Masturbated twice, Sunday and this morning. I am going to request to break the record of 80 days locked . I was just getting to the point of her consuming my ever thought.

February 27, 2019
Just a quick update; well yesterday I was locked again and we met for a light dinner out and I noticed she had on her lock and key earrings, which she hasn’t wore since I have mentioned to her if she noticed that they were a lock and key . She said at that time “dear I get it, you don’t need to spell it out.” This may sound trivial but, huge step in her showing the world She controls her man and he is in chastity, in the most subtle way.

[Lockhubbybywife]

March 7, 2019
My wife was upset with me this morning because I said that she hasn’t allowed me to service her. I told her it has been a week or so, and she got angry with me. She said I will give you the keys and you can masturbate all you want. I responded with “what ever you want”. She berated me some more and all I said was “yes ma’am” and she said “isn’t that what you want” and all I could say was “yes ma’am”. While I was getting stiff in my cage “Good that’s what I wanted to hear”, “this is about me and what I want and not about you, so don’t make about you”. “When I want it, you will know”. So I am still locked. But she hasn’t been paying attention to me lately. I have only serviced her 2 times in two weeks. I am getting a lot of denial and no tease.

March 12, 2019
Depression has really hit me hard the the last couple of days. I am not liking my work environment anymore and on top of that I live with a church lady. She is so vanilla, she is transparent. She yell at me the other day about looking at porn and coming up with completely stupid ideas that “normal” people don’t do. I feel like running away from it all.

March 22, 2019
Not to much to check in about. I have been locked for 25 days straight and hopefully she will keep me locked for a very long time. She isn’t being very sexual for the past couple of weeks. However she has increased her ability to boss me around, which I am very thankful for. We have a weight loss reward program and if I lose 5 lbs in a week, I have requested that if she decides to release me and we have sex, she would make me clean her afterwards. She thought that was gross and why would I want that. This week I had a great start and I thought I was going to make it, but I ended up only losing 1lbs. With that said, I was going to asked for a new reward, being that I don’t want to be unlocked for the remainder of the year, I thought about asking for that. I know she would say “what about me?”, my response would be along the lines of “we have a strap on and I could take care of your needs that way”. She undoubtedly would say “ you know I don’t like fake penises”. Then my response would be, “well we would need to find you a one night stand. “And that is were I don’t know what would be said next.

[Lockhubbybywife]

April 16, 2019
Well we got home from dinner and drinks on Friday and she got undressed and said “lick my pussy” I dove in immediately and started my duties. I was humping the bed some and she started a little dirty talk, “ does it hurt in your little cage, turns me on”, “come on baby cum in your cage for me” and so on. I was a little drunk as well and it wasn’t happening and I was getting a little frustrated too. So I begged her to let me out and she made me beg more and it was turning her on. 46 days straight and then she, as I knew she would let me out. What I was not prepared for was her not letting me enter her, NO! You can cum on the sheets while licking me to orgasm. I tried and she o’ed and I didn’t. So I just masturbated. The next day we were out with friends on the boat having plenty of cocktails and one her more slutty friends, which is nothing wrong with that, made the hand jester of jacking off a cock and giving her self a facial. Well I stupidly enough said “you need to show my wife that move” and my wife replied “that if you had enough to jack off maybe I would “. Well what an insult in front of a bunch of people and I had to sit because I got immediately hard. I haven’t said anything to her yet, but I will. We had sex last night and I was hoping for some cream pie, but yet again I can’t do it afterwards. I need her help and she says it is gross. Now Tuesday and I am locked again.

April 16, 2019
I think I am going to ask if I can stay locked until her birthday, which would not quite double my all time long of 69 days.

[Lockhubbybywife]

May 1, 2019
Well it has been almost 2 years of chastity. It has been a while since my wife and I have argued about chastity and sex. Well all good things must come to an end. My wife was going out of town last weekend so I was ready for a perverse weekend. I purchased a head of time a prosate vibrator. Well this morning my wife pulls it out and asks what is this? And I replied that it was a prostate / g spot vibrator. Her response was, you stick this up your ass?! Yes I said. Well I don’t need it out for everyone to see. I will put it away. I thought she said goodbye my oversexed husband and I replied I love you my undersexed wife. She started to cry and said you are an asshole. I said you called me an oversexed husband. She said no, I called you my latent homosexual husband. And I said well that is worse! I am not gay! She came back with Jeffrey Domer started kill toads as a young kid and he progressed to a serial killer. You stick things up your butt and cage your penis so you virtually don’t have one and you want to eat cum from my pussy. Dear I am not gay! What homosexual would like to eat pussy as much as I do? A suppressed homosexual. I am not gay! And she left for work. I sat and stewed for a while thinking this was the end of our relationship. Crazy things going through my head, getting in the car and just driving away forever, to hell life sucks, I will buy a gun and end it. Well she called and apologized and said I don’t want you to........ she stop ...... I don’t know what. Tonight will be interesting.

May 21, 2019
Well, it has been 2 years since we have started chastity. I have been locked for 38days straight without any type of release. For my birthday, I was thinking of asking to stayed locked until her birthday or more, which would add 60 days making it more than 100 days. We went away for a night last week and she allowed me to service her every day for four days straight. But since then it has been almost nothing.

[Lockhubbybywife]

June 13, 2019
Well it has been 60 days of continuous lockup. Without any type of release, not even a cleaning. She said she was going to unlock me for my birthday and I asked if it would be possible to stay locked until her birthday. She said amazingly enough “sure I can do that “. I wasn’t completely sure if she was going to still unlocked me or not. But birthday and anniversary has past and I am still locked. I have had a wonderful run with servicing her about 3 -4 days a week. If I stay locked, I would be 116 days of continuous lockup. At this very moment I am wondering if I could do a year?

July 29 2019
I don’t have much to report other than I only made it to 70 days locked. I had a short weekend unlocked and then back in the cage. I am currently at 22 days locked and I think I might be in for a while. If I get any chance of getting out, it will be next week when we go away for her birthday. We were verbally playing the other day and I did something that didn’t make her happy and I replied that maybe she should flush the keys down the toilet and she responded with “what makes you think that I haven’t already”. That made me instantly straining in my cage and I let her know and she gave me a knowingly smile.

August 13, 2019
Well made it through the birthday weekend away without the mention of being in unlocked. 38 days and counting. She was very flirtatious this weekend mentioning sexual innuendos with other men on several occasions to her girlfriends that spent the weekend with us. I have been dropping little hint here and there that I would be okay with her flirting and maybe more with other men.

August 14, 2019
Quick note. My wife went out with the girlfriends last night and had a couple of beers. When she got home around 10pm, she said to me you won’t be getting anything tonight. I was in disbelief, here I was locked and caged for the past 38 days solid without any orgasm what so ever and all I was hoping to do was lick her to orgasm. Yes I wasn’t going to cum at all, just her. I think it is kinda funny that it has come to her not even considering me, I am just a sexual toy for her to use when she wants.

August 17, 2019
Quick note: this morning I reach over to touch her, which means I want to lick her pussy and the first time she pushed my hand away, second time she said” do you want me to get the keys?” I didn’t know what she said or wasn’t processing what she said. I got up to take the dog out and feed the animals. When I got back to the bedroom, I asked “so, when I made a pass at you, you threatened to unlock me?” She replied “yes”. I went on to say, “isn’t that the opposite of what you are supposed to do?” She said “not with you, there is a point where you get Obnoxious”. That was the extent of our talk. I am still processing this, not sure what I feel or how I want to react. She is obviously only doing this to please me? I mean me doing all the chores, she is control of our day to day living.

I forgot to add that yesterday evening she came out to the naked and said “I didn’t know if you wanted an Appetizer before dinner?” Then during me servicing her I started to gyrating my hips and she told me to stop, it not about your pleasure. “ she told me afterwards that she enjoyed that. Plus I noticed and may mention that she has been more dominant lately and she said “I know.”

so this morning is even more confusing.

October 31, 2019
Well it has been a long time since I have checked in. The wife has been through some very scary medical issues, I think that has past us by, at least the scary stuff. With that said, it wasn’t too hard to make it through Locktober. As a matter of fact today is 116 days locked up without any type of release whatsoever. We are flying tomorrow for a short getaway and I just assume I will be unlocked tonight or tomorrow. I was allowed to service her last night and after her orgasm, I asked for some dirty talk and all she said was go to bed, I am finished and you are too. In the 116 days she hasn’t even hinted in letting me out. As a matter of fact, sometime ago, we were in a discussion and she said should I go get the keys? I sat a minute and responded, isn’t supposed to be the other way? Don’t unlock me if I am bad? She said not with you. Punishment for you is being unlocked. I guess I have been a good boy for the last 4 month.

November 13, 2019
216 days in chastity and I not “able” to cum via intercourse. I need to masturbate to finish. Did I ruin my penis by having it locked up that long?


November 25, 2019
7 days on my new lock up period. I asked my wife why she was locking me up?, in the past she said I would pout and walk around like an asshole if I wasn’t locked up and I continued and said I thought I was pretty good boy during this unlocked period. She just said you seem happier locked and I want to make you happy.

The other night while I was serving her, she was getting impatient with the lack of effort I was putting into servicing her, she said if I can’t get it done, she will need to find someone that can. I grunted, saying that was hot, she said it wasn’t supposed to be, you need to do better. That is the first mention of her cuckolding me in a manner that she would consider it.

I ordered a new caged and was hoping to be able to lock up with it . But, maybe next time

December 10,2019
Short update

last night she requested to be serviced, ok fine more than happy too my lovely queen. But afterwards,I was really horny and start to beg for more, anything, I wanted more. I persisted through the “NOs” and usually she will let in, but last night was shut up and go to sleep. Tonight was that she was annoyed with it, and I responded that I am allowed to beg and she responded with I am allowed to tell you “NO”, isn’t that what you want? Shit just got real

Btw 23 days locked; off of a 116 day lock up.

[Lockhubbybywife]

March 25, 2020
It has been a while and there is not much to report. About a month ago she told me that I would not be unlocked unless I was going to the doctors or going through TSA. I was a little taken back, she hasn’t really said anything like that before. She has also, gotten a little more dominant in our daily life, which I love and I think she is enjoying it as well. My birthday is coming and it is a pretty big milestone and I want to do something to show her that I belong to her. So with that, I was going to ask her to decide what I should do to prove it, I am thinking in the lines of a tattoo or piercing. Anyone have any suggestions?

May 20 2020
Well the wife and I have reached the 3 year mark for our chastity lifestyle. I can sincerely say it has been the best choice of my life. She has become accustomed to being the queen. However, with that said, I would like her to be more dominant in our life. The other night was really fun, she bound me in shrink wrap from my neck down with a pair of used panties in my mouth and I slept like that all night. I really enjoyed the feeling of being bound and totally under her control. I started to fantasize about her binding me up and the get ready to go out with her girlfriends all dressed up in an outfit that I really like to see her in. Then telling me to bad you want to be all bound up, I think I will go and find someone that really enjoys how I look. Then coming home with some soiled panties, sticking them in my mouth and telling me she had a great time out while she masterbated and then finally rolling over and going to bed leaving me for the morning. Stiff in my cage writing it. I also toyed with the idea of purchasing this permanent custom chastity cage sold on Etsy. I am still hoping she picks some way of “marking “ me as hers for my birthday next week. Feels great being submissive to my wife.

July 20, 2020
Nothing really to report, her threat of keeping me locked up unless I was going to the doctors or through TSA was not something she was going to hold to. I have been unlocked for 38 days of the 202 days so far in the year. I don’t even think I was unlocked that many days last year. I asked if we could break my previous record of a 116 days and she said “will see”. My request of getting pierced or a tattoo showing my devotion has been denied as well. I said, so if I came home with a ring in the tip of my dick, you would be upset? Hell yes was her response back to me.

October 29, 2020
121 days locked, the last time I cam was July 28. Not sure how long I will be locked, but she hinted I would not make Locktober. With 2 days to go, I am pretty sure I will make Locktober. I think for Christmas, I am going to ask her to lock me up for 2021.

November 22, 2020
Well we broken our record, I was locked for 126 days straight. I have been out since November 4, 2020. After 3 plus years of chastity, I never thought it would be harmful in anyway, but after I was unlock, we of course had sex and it was somewhat painful. I look at my penis afterwards and I made it erect again and noticed the it had a slight hook to the right and there was a bit of pain. I looked up on WebMD and this is what I found “ In Peyronie's disease, hardened plaques of tissue form in the shaft of the penis. The plaques are benign; they are not cancerous and won't lead to serious illness. But over time, these plaques can cause the penis to bend abnormally or to become shortened when erect. Intercourse may become painful or impossible. In a small percentage of men, the symptoms may go away over time. In others, they may get worse.” If I tell her the chastity game is over. I am thinking the solution is to permanently lock me for ever. Maybe we can go to a cuckold relationship, so she can still get her needs met. Anyone have any solutions? Anyone run into this?

[Lockhubbybywife]

January 10,2021

I was locked back up after thanksgiving and it is now 47 days locked. I am much hornier this time for some reason. I need to go was was just summoned by my queen by my shock collar around my balls. Ok I am back, she wanted more coffee. She is definitely getting more dominant in our every day life. I was verbally punished for me questioning her, I gave her a hug and told her I will do better. The next day I did it again and she told me to go get the sock collar and she sapped me on 15 (typically it’s on 4). Early yesterday she had on these loop earrings with little locks on them except with out the locks. I asked if those were the lock earrings I purchased for her, she said yes, but the locks were too heavy and took them off. So last night she wanted to go out for dinner she put on a cute outfit and I asked if she could wear the locks and she said sure. That got me stiff in the cage, this was going to be the first time she was doing anything remotely public concerning chastity. So we went to one of our favorite restaurants and afterwards she wanted to drop by another favorite places and have an after dinner drink. After being there for a few minutes, one of the bartenders said “ so, I need to ask about your S&M earrings”. My wife said there symbolize she has my heart locked. She responded that was great, I knew you guys were kinky. The other bartender said, “where are her keys?” I responded that she won’t wear them. Well I guess it is out there.

January 17,2021
Short twisted funny story. My wife lost the keys. We never kept a “emergency key”, so they are both gone. She said that I was taking it pretty good, I told her it was a deep fantasy of mine to be permanently locked. She responded with well you got it. The night prior, after servicing her, I asked to be unlocked so she could blow me. Of course I was denied, but this afternoon she told me I was never to ask that again. I responded that it would be impossible now that she lost the keys.

January 20, 2021
Just checked and I was unlocked 56 days of 2020 and 20 days of that was in November. 2021 started with my Queen losing the keys, I will need to drill out the lock. Don’t welcome the idea of power tools near my little penis.

February 23, 2021
I don't know where to begin, I was locked for 80 days straight and it wasn't looking like she was going to release me anytime soon. We went out for dinner and cocktails and in usual fashion we were over served. When we arrived home she wanted some oral sex, after a while trying to pleasure my wife, it wasn't going to happen, she just had too much to drink. I begged to be unlocked and after some teasing she said ok. I tried to fuck her, but again, I had too much to drink and if you read earlier post you know that I have an issue with my penis that has a bent tip and it is a little painful when I have a full erection. Not sure what caused it, but it is bent. So, I tried to get some toys out and she started to yell at me and about all my hang-ups, chastity, SPH and many others. I don't remember how it came up, but she said, she had no desire to be in an open relationship. I mentioned that I wasn't either, I would remain locked and the openness would only be one-sided. She then all of a sudden became horney again, and we mutually masturbated as she said who she would want to fuck. That was a whole dynamic, that I never thought would come from her. this a definitely a new part of our relationship, "bedroom talk about her fucking someone other than her husband of 28 years." A few days later we were in bed and she wanted to fool around and she started to rub my uncaged cock, and she noticed immediately that it was bent. To much of my surprised she hasn't freaked out, but more that she broke me in the cage and she giggles about it. I see a doctor this week to see what this is all about and I report back sometime afterwards.

February 28, 2021
I was correct I have Peyronie's disease, which is a hardening of plaques of tissue form in the shaft of the penis. The plaques are benign; they are not cancerous and won't lead to serious illness. But over time, these plaques can cause the penis to bend abnormally or to become shortened when erect. Intercourse may become painful or impossible. In a small percentage of men, the symptoms may go away over time. In others, they may get worse. I am waiting to hear if I am eligible to receive treatment. from what they are telling me that it is very expensive. The treatment is 2 shots in the penis 6 times every other day. It should be a week or so until I know if insurance will pay for it. We had more bedroom talk on cuckolding, not sure where it is goin, she is a little disturbed about the whole thing and that I would want to eat her cream pie.

April 19, 2021
I still haven't received news if my insurance company will for for treatment of my Peyronie's disease. After 41 days of being unlocked, I begged her to lock me back up. She was mad at me because that wasn't a decision that I get to make and she will lock me when she locks me. I told her I was having a horrible time trying to control my Masturbation. Today will be 26 days back in. We went away this weekend to an old friend of ours and I don't remember how the conversation came up but she didn't bring the keys. She is really starting to come into her own dominant lady.
my cherry keeper with the headlock came in, but the ring was too tight, ordered a new ring , but I fucked up the order and got the wrong one and they dont take returns. So I hemmed and hawed and My correct ring will be in this week. If everything fits and I am able to wear long term, I will let her know that she has the ability to lock me forever with the permalocker. If my insurance won't pay for treatment, and I have pain while having sex with my wife, I don't see any reason not to lock me forever.

[Lockhubbybywife]

July 22, 2021
current time.
I am in a lockup of 80days and 35 days spent in my new Cheery keeper short with extra large headlock with a G2 40x46mm base ring. I think my penis has found it's permanent home! The headlock feature keeps the penis head "trapped" therefor no pulling out, no turtling and the head is kept stationary, so peeing is a lot less messy. I always wanted this kind of security. I thought about getting a PA in the past, but it wasn't the pain the kept me from doing it, it was the thought of pee going everywhere and the constant cleanup and the fact my wife would be really upset if I came home with a pierced dick. No reason to do it now. I also purchase the permalock, which is a resin piece that is twisted in the keyhole and once it clicks it isn't coming out without destroying the cage. She hasn't asked yet what those pieces are for, I am waiting for a good time to let her know. I am tired of constantly bugging my urologist and the insurance company to do something about my Peyronie's disease, so I came to the conclusion that I will have this forever and together with my wife not caring about my broken penis, I may as well stayed locked.
She is upset with me, she caught me looking at porn again on the computer. I truly think she doesn't realize how many guys surf for porn. It isn't like I am masturbating anymore, I basically surf to do my own teasing. The only teasing I get from her is when she allows me to eat her pussy.