I can't take it anymore...but I have to

[locknload]

SOLD!

[TwistedMister]

My wife initially had...serious concerns regarding...male chastity...That she'd be deprived of the pleasures of very frequent intercourse, which she enjoys immensely....and while she very much enjoys oral stimulation, doesn't find it a totally adequate substitute for PIV.

I'm not sure I'd say that sharing your wife with other men is necessarily a logical extension of MC, but for a woman like my wife, it became the only acceptable outcome...this arrangement now meets both our needs.

This is similar for Mrs. Twisted- she enjoys the oral, but she really likes getting fucked (and I put it this way intentionally, because she has some sub tendencies and enjoys being 'taken', even in spite of resistance she may put up). The conundrum is that she also greatly enjoys the benefits she derives from keeping me locked, deprived of orgasms and constantly horny, but even the most realistic dildo is no substitute for a real, throbbing, pumping cock filling her, and filling her with cum...and being eaten *afterwards* tops her list of oral delights, but she cannot get that at all under 'normal' conditions and only infrequently when keeping me locked.

To my mind, her having the freedom to enjoy the real thing from other men would be only 'fair' even if she were keeping me locked just to pander to my own fantasy/desire/need. The fact that the idea of her forcing me to watch her with others turns me on, and [as she has been discovering], turns *her* on as well is the icing on the cake.

The ideal situation that would cater to both of our needs/desires would be if she were able to find someone (or better, several someones) who could be slightly dominant with her, who would be accepting of her dominance with me and my presence/participation. Her inhibitions have so far prevented her from seeking such, but they seem to be lessening as her realization/acceptance of how much she enjoys this increases.

[catkar]

Yes! My Goddess feels that way, and although she is VERY strict and Domme with me, she has a completely different relationship with her bull, and gives herself in rather a submissive way to him. She loves experiencing intimacy both ways, and loves that she has two men to satisfy these different sides of her desires. Once we started into this, we both decided to go full steam. When I see people waffling on choosing into this, taking half-measures and being afraid all the time, it feels to me that they may be interfering in their own process, and sabotaging what they could be enjoying. Everyone is different, though, and I get to remember that and stay out of judgment... I can only really speak for my own results and experiences.

[Cucklocked]

Catkar: that is exactly how it is working with me. I was scared of my cuckold fantasies to a degree but so far it has been a fabulous journey for me and even better than anything I had ever imagined.
Yes, it would be easy to be threatened (then why go there in the fist place), especially as my partner's most frequent lover is known to me only as 'monster', a nickname he completely deserves based on the size of his member. This just isn't how it works though. For us the chastity play had only just started and then the cuckoldry came in, now the chastity is stepping up and so is the pleasure for both of us.
I think you're right- I'm pretty sure if we ever fall out or split up it won't be about cuckoldry or chastity, neither of us can believe how good they both are!

[romulsdefroz]

I hear you—what you’re describing is a wild mix of pleasure and frustration, and I think a lot of people in your situation can relate. That push-and-pull between craving release and embracing the tease can be intense, especially when it loops in your mind. The good news? Over time, many find they adjust and even learn to channel that energy in creative ways—whether through deeper emotional connection, physical activities, or simply refining their patience.

[romulsdefroz]

oh my god