"Hello world" thread

[KittensBoyToy]

@Shaboo, @bohogoddess, and @IveGotTheKey Wow, three more ladies joining in. Great to have you! Maybe the activity in the keyholders forum will pick up. That could spell trouble for those of us that don't know what the gals discuss in there.

[mayatrap]

Hi all!
I've been into chastity for the last 5 years but just as kink from time to time. Nothing serious or with a partner.
I've come across this forum a couple of times and finally decided to join.
I'm also a developer working on some chastity related games which I'd like to share here if the moderators approve.

Cheers,
Maya

[Michele]

Hi Maya

Welcome!

[midmichigansub]

I am a 69 year old submissive from Michigan , USA ...my new Lady friend has suggested I join this site to learn more about chastity & orgasm control

[Tom Allen]

Hmm, it's unusual for a woman to tell her male partner to check out the chastity related stuff; usually we see it the other way round.

Feel free to ask away.

[KittensBoyToy]

Welcome, Maya and midmichigansub!

[K F B 65]

My wife and I have been married for 15 years, my third and her second. Life with two families extra makes life more interesting but so far manageable. I talked my lady into the deal with chastity only about 4 months ago....so the story will continue on I hope. So far she likes it more than me, we have agreed that we each can call it quits any time for any reason, so we continue on. I tell her I must be weird a pervert for being so interested in denial and carrying on as I do....she says no, "its all right".

[locked4her55]

So far she likes it more than me

Well you are off to a good start. It took many of us time to get our KH's to warm up to this.

Welcome

[KittensBoyToy]

So far she likes it more than me, we have agreed that we each can call it quits any time for any reason, so we continue on.

She can but you would need the key she holds! Welcome to our world....

[mr_faithful]

Hello everyone.

I've been lurking for awhile, and decided to register so that I could ask some questions. I am new to chastity.

I've been married to my wonderful wife for 23 years. We have definitely had our troubles in our sex life together, but nothing you haven't heard before. This road to chastity started when I told my wife I didn't want her to use birth control anymore. She protested, because she is pre-menopause and she doesn't want to track her fertility cycles because the thought of it overwhelms her a little bit. We have children together already, and the last pregnancy and delivery were quite difficult. I don't blame her for how she feels, but I don't like the birth control idea either.

As I struggled to find a way to solve the issue for both of us, abstinence seemed like the only idea. We have a healthy sex life, about 3 times in a typical week, so this is a big change. To be honest, I actually suffer alot of anxiety about going monk-mode for the next several years until she is in menopause. It gets better when I pray, but it is daunting to think about. Still, I don't see a different way.

But the idea of the chastity kink is appealing as a solution. It's kind of strange, because I see alot of BDSM and Femdom in it, and I'm really not into either of those things and my wife isn't either. I will grab her hair and smack her ass, squeeze her tits hard and go to poundtown, but that's about the extent of it. She and I like it that way. So, I don't know if this will really work or not, but it is intriguing for both of us. I'm don't really understand why we get aroused thinking about it, but we do. Also, this way she can track her fertility cycles if she wants to, and keep me guessing, but if she messes up, oops! Got to wait until the next cycle...maybe, lol. That's kind of the idea. We are still talking through it.

I didn't mean to write a book, but I did. I want to thank everyone who has been so open on this forum because I have found alot of great answers to questions, and without having to sift through a bunch of kinky stuff that doesn't sound real. It definitely feels real when I read alot of the posts here. So thanks everybody, and I look forward to posting soon.