And a small further update:
I'm headed back out for 7-10 days. We talked a bit about trying some t&d and edging before I left, with the plan to have some kinky time when I come back that would result in release. Life happened and the t&d didn't, but what did happen was more communication. She said she was cool with giving it a try, but that it would be pretty hard for her because she just loves to make me cum. Hahaha! I should be happy to be so lucky, right?
Anyway, I'm going to edge myself while I'm gone, and save it up for her. It's going to be tough, but I think I can manage. I'm looking forward to the playtime already!
So, a question for you kind folks...
Have you any T&D resources or pages you like? We might need to try more of that before we try locking up. I don't want to put the cart before the horse. Both of us have habits we might need to train against. Here's to adventures!