Health Issues
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LockedLaura
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Sorry yes Thumper, I mean taking everything off and cleaning all surfaces thoroughly. Normally twice a day showers and tending it in there works but in this case lack of visual feedback complicates. -L
Re: Health Issues
Jimi123 wrote:I don't disagree that it is better to be healthy in general but if we can stay specific. Prostate problems are chronic...I would like to avoid that....And again, I'm very curious about my question....
As far as I'm concerned, male chastity doesn't need to be about anything. It's a fun thing to do, it can improve a sexual relationship, it can improve energy levels, etc. It's certainly not about making a particular commitment to lifestyle you don't actually want on the basis that it can only be done that way, and and risking prostate cancer into the bargain.
I have seen plenty of guys online saying they come about once a week in this kind of lifestyle. I normally do - sometimes I have gone for up to about 40 days but that is unusual. The regular long-termers are just guys who enjoy taking it a bit further, or guys whose partners have fun with long term denial. I don't see that as an athletic competition. They're just prepared to take that risk.
I have explained to my wife the possible risks of long term denial and she has told me she will keep that in mind when deciding my denial times. Most of the time, it's short term, with some long term stuff and some bouts of coming regularly to make sure there's a chance to exercise and clear things out.
There's really not a lot else you can do.
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That's a whole lot of taking it off and tending to it. If I had to futz with mine that much I think I would have given up by now. If it is working for you I am glad though. That is what is important.LockedLaura wrote:Sorry yes Thumper, I mean taking everything off and cleaning all surfaces thoroughly. Normally twice a day showers and tending it in there works but in this case lack of visual feedback complicates. -L
For me, right now, the mental aspect of being 'locked up' and denied access not just to an orgasm but to any touch or arousal is part of what makes this interesting day after day. The feeling of longing for an erection, or even some touch is out of this world.
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LockedLaura
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Re: Health Issues
Ach well, there are complications about taking it off given that my KH was not pleased with the value of the purchase and as I mentioned is ensuring I get my money's worth.
-L
On further reflection I should have aimed at a JB methinks
-L
On further reflection I should have aimed at a JB methinks
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One last word on prostate cancer and male orgasm. I think its of value to note how rare it is that any study suggests anything. I think the number of lawyers and such involved in the worlds of doctors and studies makes it difficult to state conclusions of any kind. And when they are stated it (seems) like its always to promote a new drug or whatever....
Healthwise I "think" it makes sense that frequency use of the prostate is healthy just as frequent use of the muscles, etc are. Kegels btw ARE (From my experience) a good thing. I had some surgery and that was suggested and wow... Guys (And girls) do your Kegels regularly for a variety of health reasons.
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Thanks for the reply Thumper. I think your explaining it in a way that I'm (at last) getting. The goal clearly can be different and while you crave denial (As do some others John, etc) it doesn't have to be the focus it can just be part of the trip. Ok on it being (At the core) about the making an improved relationship.
I see some blogs, etc that focus on that and this is what seemed to me (us) to be the part of this that was interesting. Happier women, better husbands, better relationships and an exciting / good sex life. My wife maybe more then I see's the erotic part of this. Her interest? While a surprise to me, is a plus. A big part of this seems to be to open the women up to exploring in the sexual side of things. I'm just curious where she will (or can go) and think that will be a good thing. *Not a be careful what you wished for but?!? Who can say? So yea! for more female sex. Even tho that seems to dial down some of the male orgasm in many cases. In my head I'm thinking that this is logical because women have far more capacity for sex then men do (Plumbing limited)
Anyway, wish us luck.
Healthwise I "think" it makes sense that frequency use of the prostate is healthy just as frequent use of the muscles, etc are. Kegels btw ARE (From my experience) a good thing. I had some surgery and that was suggested and wow... Guys (And girls) do your Kegels regularly for a variety of health reasons.
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Thanks for the reply Thumper. I think your explaining it in a way that I'm (at last) getting. The goal clearly can be different and while you crave denial (As do some others John, etc) it doesn't have to be the focus it can just be part of the trip. Ok on it being (At the core) about the making an improved relationship.
I see some blogs, etc that focus on that and this is what seemed to me (us) to be the part of this that was interesting. Happier women, better husbands, better relationships and an exciting / good sex life. My wife maybe more then I see's the erotic part of this. Her interest? While a surprise to me, is a plus. A big part of this seems to be to open the women up to exploring in the sexual side of things. I'm just curious where she will (or can go) and think that will be a good thing. *Not a be careful what you wished for but?!? Who can say? So yea! for more female sex. Even tho that seems to dial down some of the male orgasm in many cases. In my head I'm thinking that this is logical because women have far more capacity for sex then men do (Plumbing limited)
Anyway, wish us luck.
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The questions whether there might be any risks by wearing a chastity-belt has no meaning in my case: I was ALWAYS masturbating, so I NEED the prescription of a doctor for a masturbation-safe chastity-belt or chastity-overall. Do you understand this situation? Do you agree? I need your answer, especially if you should be a doctor. Can you help me?
