[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[KHEmmi]

A sensible question and you are right, we have given it thought.

The reality is that we both know that it requires two 'Yes' votes to continue.

The point about increasing the intensity is also valid, and one that has been given less consideration but would get discussed if it needed to be.
I think that until we get into the review, having exchanged and read both essays. we won't really know what future directions might be raised. We will soon find out.
Incredible that the year is almost over already!

[KnownAsHerbert]

The reality is that we both know that it requires two 'Yes' votes to continue.

Sounds fair.
As long as Miss Vikki isn't entitled to vote as well...

[ARK]

WHAT

Miss Vikki is a member of the forum.

Gentlemen we need to straighten up.

Having Miss Emmi, Miss Vikki, Miss C, Miss Red, Miss Michele as active members of the forum is wonderful but also troublesome for the lock ones.

Gentlemen we are in big trouble is Miss R and Miss G join the forum.

(Herbie, I remembered to use Miss so that fellow members do not get the ouchy stick)

[KnownAsHerbert]

Miss Vikki is a member of the forum.

I know she reads my journal and Miss Emmie's at least, but as a guest. As far as I know, she hasn't joined as a member.
But I could be wrong on that.

[Tongue+groove]

. Gentlemen we are in big trouble is Miss R and Miss G join the forum.

(Herbie, I remembered to use Miss so that fellow members do not get the ouchy stick)

Never let Mrs. G see you use any other title except Mrs. She will give you the ass chewing of a life time. One time work gave her a name plate Ms. G. She ripped it off the door and threw it on her new employers desk and informed him that she was a married woman and expected to be treated like a married woman. That old supervisor became a great friend to our family.

That event still brings out a few laughs. She still has the name plate 25 years later.

Life with Mrs. G is good.

[denied_one]

The reality is that we both know that it requires two 'Yes' votes to continue.

Sounds fair.
As long as Miss Vikki isn't entitled to vote as well...

See? I wouldn't even have said that. Cos my Wife would absolutely then do it.

So that begs the question....do you REALLY deep down want Miss Vicki to HAVE A VOTE?!

[ARK]

Correction:

Mrs. G

I do not want anyone’s ass whopped because of my mistake.

[KHEmmi]

The year is up.
The review is complete.
The decision is confirmed. We will continue.

Wow, what a year!
The review was a relaxed discussion. We had bother already given it a lot of thought as we prepared our individual essays and having read each other's already, we knew what we were going to be talking about.

It really was a review, where we started, key points along the way, benefits and drawbacks, high points and lows. The thing that jumped out at us was how much there was to talk about from the early days, the first few months, and how little from the most recent weeks and months.
Our conclusion was that chastity is now such a normal, taken for granted part of our lives that there are no issues or points that need discussion. Just high points and benefits.

We think it took four months to 'get used to' chastity, get used to the cages, the disturbed nights, and find ways around any niggling issues.
Once those were solved and a proper routine established everything fell into place.
Herbi agrees.
He said he never thinks "Oh, I'm caged. Isn't that weird?" but just takes it as part of his life.

It's probably been like that for 8 or 9 months in reality.
He is relaxed with being caged. Walks around doing his morning routine, shower etc. without trying to hide the cage that he's wearing. Just gets on with it.

It was a good discussion and the essays were worth the effort.
There was plenty of emphasis on the benefits and the fun.
With recognition of the unavoidable inconveniences.

We both voted secretly and independently on whether to continue. Two pieces of paper, folded, and only opened at the end of the talk. Both had 'Continue' ticked. Unanimous then.

Into year two.
The average will be less than 1 this year.
He's proved it's possible and I know it's worth it.

[Rufusstone]

Good to hear you’re both in agreement!
Just to clarify, that’s an average of less than one per month, not just once in the year? Just kidding!
Well done.
Presumably, as KH, you have ideas as to what other achievements you wish to make with Herbi and perhaps Herbi will enlighten us (or not) but as I mentioned before, are you also agreed about the intensity? But maybe you don’t want to give to much away…

[Tongue+groove]

Good for the two of you. It sounds like you had a real down to earth heart to heart conversation without any outside influences.

I’m sure herbi was still locked during the conversation, but, how would it have gone if the cage and key were on the table between the two of you. Plainly visible to you both.

Maybe it wouldn’t have mattered. Just curious.