Hello,
I am in 20s and living in Toronto, in relationship. I am always fascinated by the idea of cuckold and Chasity. But now taking it serious. I never wore any chasity device but looking forward it
"Hello world" thread
"Hello world" thread
I am 62 years old and have been a cuckold for over 40 years. Over the past few years, we have moved to edging and orgasm denial.
We both would like to keep me in a chastity device but have been unable to find a device that will work on me. My testicles are so small, they slip out, even with a CB6000s using the smallest ring with the shortest locking pin.
I found the forum while looking for a solution other than having something custom made of metal or getting a piercing (prince albert)
We both would like to keep me in a chastity device but have been unable to find a device that will work on me. My testicles are so small, they slip out, even with a CB6000s using the smallest ring with the shortest locking pin.
I found the forum while looking for a solution other than having something custom made of metal or getting a piercing (prince albert)
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TwistedMister
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Welcome, gentlemen.
Nervous Newb:
Seriously, though...don't be too worried, in fact, many guys would be jealous that you have a wife who is interested in exploring this without having to go to extreme lengths to convince her, some even have to 'hide' what they are doing because the Mrs. is dead-set against it.
That your Mrs. is willing to explore with you is a good sign. I take the view that "male chastity" is a form of "Power Exchange" play, related to BDSM or D/s if you prefer. Many (most?) people involved in PE play typically set limits on how far the play will go, and establish 'safewords' to signal that the 'game' needs to stop because a 'limit' is about to be reached or exceeded, or because one is experiencing a [possibly unanticipated] reaction (emotion/stress/etc.) that requires the play to be stopped in order to resolve the issue. There are 'hard limits' which are agreed upon boundaries that *must not* be crossed, and 'soft limits' which are agreed boundaries where the 'D' player may push the 's' player in the attempt to go beyond it.
Just how far you go is completely up to you and your wife. Establish limits/guidelines before the beginning of a 'play session', which may be as long or short as desired. Establish 'time out' periods, either called by 'safeword' and/or set periods where you both take a break from 'play' to have a realistic discussion of any concerns, reactions, emotional considerations and an opportunity to expand or contract one or more areas where limits have been (or need to be) set.
Despite the fantasy fodder you may have read (or will read in the future), negotiation as to limits/boundaries/expectations often occur, even with experienced D/s players. From what little you have [so far] written, it would appear that your wife is considerate and willing to explore with you, and likely would be on board with the establishment of limits and guidelines.
Limits may be re-negotiated after review, this is not uncommon. As you explore/expand your horizons you may find a need or desire to change the way you play, in fact, it is almost certain that this will be so. Enjoy your exploration and cross each bridge as you come to it...or don't cross it. If things are going in a direction that you don't like or don't desire to go, you can stop, or alter your course.
Fear not, there are experienced and wise folks here who can answer questions and offer good advice.
Nervous Newb:
If it turns out that you "love it", where's the problem?Here's the crazy part: her husband loves it. Then not only is the long-term lock happening (day and night ever day) but she reduces the orgasms he's allowed to have, even if he gets to be uncaged for awhile. AND...HUBBY LOVES IT?!?! Guys really go weeks, months, even a year or more without an orgasm?!?! I wanted to order this thing for something to spice up a sexual experience, now I'm worried that by this time next year I'll be wearing it 24/7, being denied orgasms, and loving it. Since we ordered it and I started reading blogs and this forum, my masturbation has quadrupled. Partly because I'm realizing that my fantasy is about to come true in a few days and that makes me horny as hell, but partly because something inside my brain is saying "better get your O now while you can." The issue is, I LOVE having orgasms, I LOVE having sex, and I LOVE getting erections if the wind so much as changes speed. I've got a fear that I'm going to LOVE not having those things even more, and I can't imagine the possibility that that could be real for any male. But, it seems to be real for a growing number of guys/husbands.
Seriously, though...don't be too worried, in fact, many guys would be jealous that you have a wife who is interested in exploring this without having to go to extreme lengths to convince her, some even have to 'hide' what they are doing because the Mrs. is dead-set against it.
That your Mrs. is willing to explore with you is a good sign. I take the view that "male chastity" is a form of "Power Exchange" play, related to BDSM or D/s if you prefer. Many (most?) people involved in PE play typically set limits on how far the play will go, and establish 'safewords' to signal that the 'game' needs to stop because a 'limit' is about to be reached or exceeded, or because one is experiencing a [possibly unanticipated] reaction (emotion/stress/etc.) that requires the play to be stopped in order to resolve the issue. There are 'hard limits' which are agreed upon boundaries that *must not* be crossed, and 'soft limits' which are agreed boundaries where the 'D' player may push the 's' player in the attempt to go beyond it.
Just how far you go is completely up to you and your wife. Establish limits/guidelines before the beginning of a 'play session', which may be as long or short as desired. Establish 'time out' periods, either called by 'safeword' and/or set periods where you both take a break from 'play' to have a realistic discussion of any concerns, reactions, emotional considerations and an opportunity to expand or contract one or more areas where limits have been (or need to be) set.
Despite the fantasy fodder you may have read (or will read in the future), negotiation as to limits/boundaries/expectations often occur, even with experienced D/s players. From what little you have [so far] written, it would appear that your wife is considerate and willing to explore with you, and likely would be on board with the establishment of limits and guidelines.
Limits may be re-negotiated after review, this is not uncommon. As you explore/expand your horizons you may find a need or desire to change the way you play, in fact, it is almost certain that this will be so. Enjoy your exploration and cross each bridge as you come to it...or don't cross it. If things are going in a direction that you don't like or don't desire to go, you can stop, or alter your course.
Fear not, there are experienced and wise folks here who can answer questions and offer good advice.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello world.
Just starting with chastity. Play around with Asylum-like cage from Amazon. Too heavy and not smooth enough or fit right. Planning on getting Looker02 from Steelworxx. Just trying to get sizing right.
Just starting with chastity. Play around with Asylum-like cage from Amazon. Too heavy and not smooth enough or fit right. Planning on getting Looker02 from Steelworxx. Just trying to get sizing right.
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi all,
Well, I guess it's common story for me. Fell in love with first girl I started dating, we got married and got kids.. Life happened and seemed that we're always too busy, too tired or something...
As internet is a nice place, with lot's of "information" I started my own online fetish fantasy trip.. I've always been to D/S, fetish clothing etc. And had pretty active sex life.. Alone, with web browser... Well, having sex (often really nice) with my wife when we weren't too tired when going to sleep.
During my own trip, I came across chastity and started to dream that I'd love wearing a cage and being teased.. I even ordered CB-6000 earlier this year, so I could play alone..
But during summer we talked a bit... She wasn't thinking that I'd think her attractive in bed anymore. Well, I did. But I'd hope some my own fantasies in to our bedroom... Sadly it happened that I could start thinking about something else, or I had been masturbating just hours before. And as I'm not the young stud anymore, well you know.."Honey it felt nice..."
Well, of course during summer we also travelled with kids and some times also grand parents. So "accidentally" I was having nicely week or a bit more, without chance to surf porn and masturbate. And when we got home, had some quick sex before going to sleep... It was so great, for both.. Damn, I want that again.. Another week of going around. And same thing, she was all that I wanted...
This is when I started to remember old things I read from chastity. That's what I want to try! I love idea of pampering her, her to be a bit bossy, teasing me and her to feel that she's my goddess.. So after couple sleepless nights and fearing to tell her, I sent her a link to web article telling about chastity play.
She couldn't read it, and I told a bit to her. And oh my, she though that yes, we can try it. But sadly life got our way once more and she got stressed by the idea. I got scared, that there it goes again.. Well, one evening we got a bit wine and started discussing about her stress.. She told that she kinda likes the idea and want's to try chastity with me, but needs time to get her head straight. I was happy, because I'm happy to wait, if she feels better with that.
Well, I'd had my own celibacy for almost 2 weeks. And I gave her oily backrub.. Surprisingly my celibacy was over. Ok. Two weeks celibacy, so I can tell it wasn't the longest performance from me with my goddess. And I was quite much done before she was, and I was really disappointed... But then I saw her face and eyes, and I'd never seen her so happy. I think she realized that she was the most sexiest goddess for me just then.. And I think she now knew why..
I guess there will be our common try with chastity.. And it's quite a tease for me to wait it.. And hopefully after a while we're both enjoying it. (Even I guess I'm regretting this, when I've been teased and horny..)
(Sorry for such a long text... Well, hopefully you didn't get bored.
)
Well, I guess it's common story for me. Fell in love with first girl I started dating, we got married and got kids.. Life happened and seemed that we're always too busy, too tired or something...
As internet is a nice place, with lot's of "information" I started my own online fetish fantasy trip.. I've always been to D/S, fetish clothing etc. And had pretty active sex life.. Alone, with web browser... Well, having sex (often really nice) with my wife when we weren't too tired when going to sleep.
During my own trip, I came across chastity and started to dream that I'd love wearing a cage and being teased.. I even ordered CB-6000 earlier this year, so I could play alone..
But during summer we talked a bit... She wasn't thinking that I'd think her attractive in bed anymore. Well, I did. But I'd hope some my own fantasies in to our bedroom... Sadly it happened that I could start thinking about something else, or I had been masturbating just hours before. And as I'm not the young stud anymore, well you know.."Honey it felt nice..."
Well, of course during summer we also travelled with kids and some times also grand parents. So "accidentally" I was having nicely week or a bit more, without chance to surf porn and masturbate. And when we got home, had some quick sex before going to sleep... It was so great, for both.. Damn, I want that again.. Another week of going around. And same thing, she was all that I wanted...
This is when I started to remember old things I read from chastity. That's what I want to try! I love idea of pampering her, her to be a bit bossy, teasing me and her to feel that she's my goddess.. So after couple sleepless nights and fearing to tell her, I sent her a link to web article telling about chastity play.
She couldn't read it, and I told a bit to her. And oh my, she though that yes, we can try it. But sadly life got our way once more and she got stressed by the idea. I got scared, that there it goes again.. Well, one evening we got a bit wine and started discussing about her stress.. She told that she kinda likes the idea and want's to try chastity with me, but needs time to get her head straight. I was happy, because I'm happy to wait, if she feels better with that.
Well, I'd had my own celibacy for almost 2 weeks. And I gave her oily backrub.. Surprisingly my celibacy was over. Ok. Two weeks celibacy, so I can tell it wasn't the longest performance from me with my goddess. And I was quite much done before she was, and I was really disappointed... But then I saw her face and eyes, and I'd never seen her so happy. I think she realized that she was the most sexiest goddess for me just then.. And I think she now knew why..
I guess there will be our common try with chastity.. And it's quite a tease for me to wait it.. And hopefully after a while we're both enjoying it. (Even I guess I'm regretting this, when I've been teased and horny..)
(Sorry for such a long text... Well, hopefully you didn't get bored.
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chastityloverlook
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Re: "Hello world" thread
hi i am looking for websites or videos with a lot of girls wearing chastity belts with double or single plug and i cant find many only found chastitybabes does anyone know about any more that i can subscribe to and download videos thanks
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello there,
I'm a complete newbie experimenting on my own with chastity since the beginning of this week. I'm a student currently living in Iceland by the way. I actually registered to this forum because the first device I bought (a Holy Trainer V2 with a standard size tube and a 50 mm ring) proved to be too big for me, and now I'd like to sell it to someone who'd make better use of it.
I'm currently self-locked in a HolyTrainer with a small tube and a 45 mm ring and loving every minute of it! Cheers, IceLocked
I'm a complete newbie experimenting on my own with chastity since the beginning of this week. I'm a student currently living in Iceland by the way. I actually registered to this forum because the first device I bought (a Holy Trainer V2 with a standard size tube and a 50 mm ring) proved to be too big for me, and now I'd like to sell it to someone who'd make better use of it.
I'm currently self-locked in a HolyTrainer with a small tube and a 45 mm ring and loving every minute of it! Cheers, IceLocked
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi, the names Simon, 31 from Bedford, England. never been locked by anyone but myself and i'm seriously looking for someone to do it. I've spoken to a few guys who want to lock me but they take it too quick for my liking. within the first day of chatting they are wanting me to send them keys which i think is a bit too far for me!
Any way i own a CB6000 which i enjoy wearing. when not wearing it i wank/masturbate far too much which is why i'm looking to be locked.
Any way i own a CB6000 which i enjoy wearing. when not wearing it i wank/masturbate far too much which is why i'm looking to be locked.
gay male, 31 own a CB6000. currently unlocked.
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi,
My name is "vinylia" and i'm In a female led relationship. I have introduced a chastity cage to my wife about 2 months ago. So far everything is going well. I found this site. It looks very interesting and hope to share and learn things from it.
Thanks
My name is "vinylia" and i'm In a female led relationship. I have introduced a chastity cage to my wife about 2 months ago. So far everything is going well. I found this site. It looks very interesting and hope to share and learn things from it.
Thanks
I'm curently wearing a Metal Worx cock cage (pd2379-00).
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GracesBitch
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello there!
So, where to start... Well, I've been a long time reader of denyingthumper, and a part time lurker on chastityforums for awhile now. After a long time I am finally in a relationship where my needs as a submissive are understood and encouraged. We currently practice orgasm control and denial and are looking to include 24/7 chastity device wear. We currently own a device that does not work well for us and hope to upgrade soon. We are looking forward to being part of the community and perhaps meeting people that share our interests.
So, where to start... Well, I've been a long time reader of denyingthumper, and a part time lurker on chastityforums for awhile now. After a long time I am finally in a relationship where my needs as a submissive are understood and encouraged. We currently practice orgasm control and denial and are looking to include 24/7 chastity device wear. We currently own a device that does not work well for us and hope to upgrade soon. We are looking forward to being part of the community and perhaps meeting people that share our interests.