Hello everyone. New to the forum, and new to chastity.
I met the woman who will be my keyholder 37 years ago...I was 18, she was 16. We were both attracted to each other, but also both painfully shy. I was also dating her friend, and she stuck to the Girl Code, and wouldn't date me. When she was 18 we had a short fling that resulted in her losing her virginity to me. But she still wouldn't date me. She ended up marrying someone else and moving far away. I've had my share of women since, but she was far and away the best. And absolutely beautiful, but insecure in her looks in a way that she wasn't full of herself.
Fast forward to a few years ago. We ran into each other through a mutual friend. She got me aside and told me she had always wondered what happened to me, that she had compared any other lovers to me...just as I had with her. She felt she wasn't "good enough" for me, I assured her that was not the case. We became very close, and have decided to make a go of it. But she has things to wrap up 1300 miles away, which might take a year or more. She was concerned that women would throw themselves at me, and I might not resist. I assured her that after 2 bad marriages and tiring of dating that I was under self imposed celibacy. Still, she worried. I showed her some chastity devices I had seen in porn, sort of joking. I told her she should lock me up and keep the keys until she gets here. We both sort of hit the same conclusion at the same time. It seemed like a good idea, and fun. She confessed a bit of a Domme streak she'd never been able to express, and I have a sub fantasy that seems so out of character for me no one else believed it.
And now, here we are. Figuring out the correct device, and then mailing her the keys.
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Hello, everybody.
I'm 21 and just received my firsf chastity cage two days ago. My last two (and only) girlfriends were completely opposed to anything chastity related. With my relationship having just ended, I couldn't resist the temptation to indulge the first fetish that I can recall.
I had just ordered a cheap one on Amazon as a test, and now, despite now having a keyholder, I'm already planning my next purchase.
I'm 21 and just received my firsf chastity cage two days ago. My last two (and only) girlfriends were completely opposed to anything chastity related. With my relationship having just ended, I couldn't resist the temptation to indulge the first fetish that I can recall.
I had just ordered a cheap one on Amazon as a test, and now, despite now having a keyholder, I'm already planning my next purchase.
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Hello all,
I am 43 and have limited experience with chastity. My wife purchased a CB device about a year ago and we both have thoroughly enjoyed it. We have agreed that it is time for us to overcome the obvious limitations of the plastic devices and upgrade to metal. So, I am here to do a lot or reading and make a few inquiries before ordering.
txcuck
I am 43 and have limited experience with chastity. My wife purchased a CB device about a year ago and we both have thoroughly enjoyed it. We have agreed that it is time for us to overcome the obvious limitations of the plastic devices and upgrade to metal. So, I am here to do a lot or reading and make a few inquiries before ordering.
txcuck
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Hello Everybody!
My name is Katie and my husband is Ken.
We are not new to male chastity but have not engaged much online with other users much.
Now having an empty nest and starting to journal our experiences online has caused me to find this site.
Please forgive me if I make some kind of embarrasing blunder. This is my first time being a part of any forum, much less one with this style of content.
Hugs,
Katie
My name is Katie and my husband is Ken.
We are not new to male chastity but have not engaged much online with other users much.
Now having an empty nest and starting to journal our experiences online has caused me to find this site.
Please forgive me if I make some kind of embarrasing blunder. This is my first time being a part of any forum, much less one with this style of content.
Hugs,
Katie
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Welcome, everyone.
Katie, we have a section just for the Keyholders. If you are interested, we need to know that "chaste" will not be using your account.
We're pretty friendly, so don't worry about making any mistakes.
Katie, we have a section just for the Keyholders. If you are interested, we need to know that "chaste" will not be using your account.
We're pretty friendly, so don't worry about making any mistakes.
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Hiya everyone,
I'm a 40+ male in the Midwest, US. I've had a cb-3000 for about 5 years now, that has been used for self chastity when my Wife is out of town. My wife knows about the cb-3000, however has not embraced the key-holder role as of yet, the way that I would hope. Though as we move forward in our journey together, she has not completely dismissed sharing the idea of male chastity in our relationship.
I'm looking to find a community to share ideas and thoughts with about chastity and from what I see in the forums here, is there are mature people here that would be interesting to engage in conversation with.
I look forward to being a member of this community.
I'm a 40+ male in the Midwest, US. I've had a cb-3000 for about 5 years now, that has been used for self chastity when my Wife is out of town. My wife knows about the cb-3000, however has not embraced the key-holder role as of yet, the way that I would hope. Though as we move forward in our journey together, she has not completely dismissed sharing the idea of male chastity in our relationship.
I'm looking to find a community to share ideas and thoughts with about chastity and from what I see in the forums here, is there are mature people here that would be interesting to engage in conversation with.
I look forward to being a member of this community.
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You haven't been reading enoughJBStok wrote:... and from what I see in the forums here, is there are mature people here that would be interesting to engage in conversation with.

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Hey! Just because there are some who aren't, it doesn't mean there aren't some who are...or something like thatTom Allen wrote:You haven't been reading enoughJBStok wrote:... and from what I see in the forums here, is there are mature people here that would be interesting to engage in conversation with.

(Although I *have* told Mrs. Twisted that I'm still only 10 years old in my head.)
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
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Well, I'm a perpetual teenager, so I'm not going to argue that point.TwistedMister wrote:(Although I *have* told Mrs. Twisted that I'm still only 10 years old in my head.)
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A brief introduction..
I'm a 40-something British guy, in a stable, loving non-femdom relationship. I do identify as submissive, but that's really neither here nor there!
Anyway, as part of trying to always improve our relationship, we're trying out a general approach where I'm not to orgasm without her. No devices, no locks, no responsibility on her to 'check on' or 'control' my pleasure, just an attempt to see if increased self control keeps me focussed on my partner in the way I want to be, and if that feels positive for both of us.
I'm a 40-something British guy, in a stable, loving non-femdom relationship. I do identify as submissive, but that's really neither here nor there!
Anyway, as part of trying to always improve our relationship, we're trying out a general approach where I'm not to orgasm without her. No devices, no locks, no responsibility on her to 'check on' or 'control' my pleasure, just an attempt to see if increased self control keeps me focussed on my partner in the way I want to be, and if that feels positive for both of us.