"Hello world" thread

[NewbieMC]

Hi, I am NewbieMC.

I am here because of a bright idea I had one Sunday morning, three weeks ago. My partner caught me cheating. I left. Soon after, after I had spent sometime with her changing a set of bathroom taps and going for a drink, I realised I had made a big mistake.

My partner was open to the idea of trying again. We both realised we needed to make some changes if the relationship was to really work. Much more communication. Full openness. Particularly sharing more of our inner dialog to maintain an emotional connection.

I realised it might be some time before we embarked on a sexual relationship again. With my sex drive I suspected that could be a problem. MC cropped up in my mind as a potential solution, something we could do intimately that didn't involve sex, yet would help us create and maintain an intimacy. I thought agreeing to wear a device and wait indefinitely would also show my commitment to starting over.

The idea of MC certainly got us talking. Then learning more about the psychological benefits and even now to some extent experiment with FLR.

My first stint with the CB-6000 lasted nine days, which followed a week of abstinance. Unfortunately, the device has made the underside of my penis/front of scrotum quite sore where the rear edges of the cage have pressed into my flesh, despite meticulous hygiene. Now I am taking a short break to heal, after which my KH and I will be experimenting with a HT2 that arrived today. In the mean time the honour system applies. I haven't had anything but a ruined orgasm or a milking in twenty days, something of a record as I used to have a cheeky shufty in the shower everyday.

I am very lucky in how open minded and supportive my KH is, especially when reflecting on what I put her through. My goal is simply to keep making her smile. And if MC and FLR help accomplish that, it's a no brainer for me. Fingers crossed it all works out.

[FrillyFrenchMaid]

Hi there, my first post

I have developed an firm interest in CB's, to compliment my already unusual interests such as my ever growing collections of maid outfits.

I currently have: holytrainer v2 (doesn't fit..). along with three chinese chastity devices, one of which is just fantastic and I'm locked in it now. I previously had a knockoff cb6000 that didn't work out so well. I've also recently discovered a time lock website to force me into longer chastity sessions. Now that I've finally found a comfortable CB I will probably look at selling some of these others.

3 hours to go on tonight's session

[DomsToy]

Hi, quick introduction

New to chastity, using a cb6000 still getting used to it before fully handing over key, wife is KH, experimental at this stage but hoping it takes off, we are taking it easy and letting it naturally go where it goes at the moment.

Searching for ways to silence the padlock and got the rubber band trick from a thread here,
After a battle with the robot detection questions expecting me to have a crystal ball handy managed to get signed up, and now off for a snoop around the forums,

[OC_Chaste]

Hi everyone,

for years, I had labeled myself as a 95% dominant switch. Lately, I have discovered just how deep my submissive roots run and I have begun exploring chastity.

I've been locked up for a week now. I love it. I'm wearing the 4 ring "asylum" device from Extreme Restraints, but with the 4 inch sound from the 6 ring version.

I'm glad to have found this forum, hope to be able to read, learn and eventually contribute a bit as well.

[okiesub]

Chicagoan into chastity. Have tried different devices off and on over the past 10+years. Usually in a Fort, but wanting to actually leave steel for the low profile and shorter cage of a HTv2short.

[mjaus77]

Hi folks! Just wanted to introduce myself. I've been into chastity for a few months, and has been on my mind ever since I discovered it. Happily married to my wife who's embraced it as well. I'm currently in a JB, but am about to explore some cheep devices with urethral insert. Must say I'm a bit concerned about the long term wear though, and the possibility for damage "inside" whilst wearing it. So, that's it for now I guess.

[Jolie]

So, proof I am real?

I am not sure anything is real any more!

I did have an unemotional, distant, unmotivated boyfriend with a tendency for straying.

NewbieMC is a different man under lock and key! He is thoughtful, caring, emotional and emotionally intelligent, in tune with my needs and beyond loving. More than a boyfriend, a true Partner.

Initially, a trust building exercise, we are now, although new to this lifestyle, fully committed and talking about this long-term.

I have always been the submissive, albeit bratty sub in a relationship, however taking to this Mistress role like a duck to water, feeling very natural and excited by what is to come (come?! That wont be you for a while, NewbieMC!!)

Anyway, the rest will unfold deeper in the forums, I am sure

[NewbieMC]

Hello Mistress Jolie.
Your wonderful first post has left me speechless. I am very lucky and very loved.

Welcome aboard.

[wishful4]

Welcome to both of you. Always nice to welcome a new KeyHolder. Ms Jolie, you might query one of the moderators so that they may allow you access to the hidden KeyHolder section of the forum.

[Jolie]

Thank you for that info, Wishful4