KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Tue Jul 23, 2024 11:17 amIt makes sense as your brain is finally starting to feel the actual delights of giving up control and how as males we are programmed badly into thinking that male orgasm is the high point of sex, the money shot so to speak. Truth is that the reverse is the case and that female pleasure and orgasm (they’re designed like the energiser bunny when it comes to orgasm) are the true pinnacle.LockedByBD wrote: ↑Tue Jul 23, 2024 10:17 am
Stranger still, perhaps, is that I now feel really pleased that I've done it! How can that make sense?
You are finally learning to become involved in the anticipation and heightened arousal that can come from participating in Miss Emmie’s pleasure and that gives you pleasure as your reward !!
This is a major step forward imo ! Enjoy and ensure you reward Miss Emmie for the hard work she has had to put in to bring you to this point. This is not the end but the start of your journey.
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Still having difficulty getting back into 24/7/365 chastity since covid. Very tender old man skin under the scrotum damages easily. Trying an HT Mk5 nub now. Love the fact you can’t pull out of it, hope my skin toughens up.
Still having difficulty getting back into 24/7/365 chastity since covid. Very tender old man skin under the scrotum damages easily. Trying an HT Mk5 nub now. Love the fact you can’t pull out of it, hope my skin toughens up.
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So it's taken nearly 4 months just to reach the start of our journey...

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Well particularly “your” journey, I think Miss Emmie is probably a bit further down the track !! It’s just taken this long for you to step over the line she’s been drawing for you !KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2024 2:15 amSo it's taken nearly 4 months just to reach the start of our journey...![]()
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Still having difficulty getting back into 24/7/365 chastity since covid. Very tender old man skin under the scrotum damages easily. Trying an HT Mk5 nub now. Love the fact you can’t pull out of it, hope my skin toughens up.
Still having difficulty getting back into 24/7/365 chastity since covid. Very tender old man skin under the scrotum damages easily. Trying an HT Mk5 nub now. Love the fact you can’t pull out of it, hope my skin toughens up.
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Point taken.slave d wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2024 3:29 amWell particularly “your” journey, I think Miss Emmie is probably a bit further down the track !! It’s just taken this long for you to step over the line she’s been drawing for you !KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2024 2:15 amSo it's taken nearly 4 months just to reach the start of our journey...![]()
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It does now feel like it was a big step but the right one.
As if I've finally discovered what I should be doing.
And of course you're right. Miss Emmie knew what she was doing all along. She also knows where we're heading next...
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Buckle up Herbie, MissEmmi knows best.
At least with the muggy heat in London, you will be nice and comfortable while naked around the house.
At least with the muggy heat in London, you will be nice and comfortable while naked around the house.
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Buckled up and feeling in that state of limbo where there's no information being issued in my direction. Miss Emmie does indeed know best but isn't sharing.
Into the third week since I was last let out for sex and still in the same small cage. Then there's the whole of August to get through too. She will have plenty of time to give all 3 cages a really good trial in one go this time. Wondering if it will be changed for one of the others this weekend. A change would be nice but will just have to wait and see.
The warm and humid weather continues and caused a bit of concern the other day when everything suddenly felt sort of loose and dangly. No chance of it coming off as the gap between ring and cage is far too small, but it did feel odd. Miss Emmie's unexpected solution to the problem was to put me in the shower with it turned to cold. I thought she was joking until I saw that she was holding a cane in her hand and looked like she was likely to use it if I didn't get in there. Well the cold water worked and tightened everything up super quick anyway.
Apart from that little incident everything has settled into a normal routine. Miss Emmie has the map, the compass, and a firm grip on the steering wheel for the journey. She enjoys her little moments of teasing and playfulness. And the little cage isn't too bad really.
Finished work for the week with a pleasantly warm evening ahead and no real plans. There may be plans of course, but I don't know about them yet. I will find out. Same is true for the weekend. I imagine I'll here the words "You don't need clothes today" or simply "Strip" at some point. Definitely routine procedure these days.
Into the third week since I was last let out for sex and still in the same small cage. Then there's the whole of August to get through too. She will have plenty of time to give all 3 cages a really good trial in one go this time. Wondering if it will be changed for one of the others this weekend. A change would be nice but will just have to wait and see.
The warm and humid weather continues and caused a bit of concern the other day when everything suddenly felt sort of loose and dangly. No chance of it coming off as the gap between ring and cage is far too small, but it did feel odd. Miss Emmie's unexpected solution to the problem was to put me in the shower with it turned to cold. I thought she was joking until I saw that she was holding a cane in her hand and looked like she was likely to use it if I didn't get in there. Well the cold water worked and tightened everything up super quick anyway.
Apart from that little incident everything has settled into a normal routine. Miss Emmie has the map, the compass, and a firm grip on the steering wheel for the journey. She enjoys her little moments of teasing and playfulness. And the little cage isn't too bad really.
Finished work for the week with a pleasantly warm evening ahead and no real plans. There may be plans of course, but I don't know about them yet. I will find out. Same is true for the weekend. I imagine I'll here the words "You don't need clothes today" or simply "Strip" at some point. Definitely routine procedure these days.
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My only advice is accept that unlocking isn’t happening soon, enjoy sexy time with MissEmmi and live in the moment- concentrate on getting in sync with her wants almost as your own.
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Oh I'm living in the moment.
It's just that this is the first time I've not been given an end date. I can't help just wondering. But I have accepted that it's going to be a while yet.
It's just that this is the first time I've not been given an end date. I can't help just wondering. But I have accepted that it's going to be a while yet.
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Well the next step will be not thinking about the next unlocking on a daily basis. Which clearly isn’t happening soon so at least that’s not a target to aim for.
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Sounds like you’ve got a lot of orgasms to give! Eight a day seems like a lot every day but you’ll have strong jaw muscles by the end of the year…