hello world! i am a real person.
my KH (gf) and I have been playing on and off with chastity for the past year. We've played with several knock-offs from Amazon which are nice for short term, but nothing to long term. I've found a bit of modification goes along way though. I'd like to find a more comfortable fit to help with long term use and I love reading others experiences.
"Hello world" thread
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello world! Married, mid-life guy here, interest in chastity began a dozen years ago when I saw the CB series on some toy sites. My wife is flexible with some of my kinks, and once in a great while, shows a few of her own - so, life is good.
The idea of buying a $160.00 device that looked like it might never work did not appeal to me. When I realized that I could buy a cool looking metal device on Amazon for under $25.00 USD, I finally bought one last fall. It seems to be commonly called the "Chinese Jailbird."
Looking forward to sharing and learning here!
The idea of buying a $160.00 device that looked like it might never work did not appeal to me. When I realized that I could buy a cool looking metal device on Amazon for under $25.00 USD, I finally bought one last fall. It seems to be commonly called the "Chinese Jailbird."
Looking forward to sharing and learning here!
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thunderbird54321
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- Location: United Kingdom
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I have been thinking about chastity for a long time but only recently took the plunge properly with my gf. I am based in Nigeria and she is in Ghana but we lived together for a year in Ghana and eventually we will live together in Nigeria. I am 59 and she is 36.
I have a CB3000s and because of our separate locations we have started this at distance to see how it works.
So far both of us are excited and it has changed the dynamic between us in a positive way. We did try chastity briefly while we were together in ghana but my gf did not fully understand the concept and our interest withered away. This time round for various reasons she has taken to it readily.
My fears are that she is interested because she sees it as a way to stop me cheating and of course she is a beautiful young women and may well also see this as a new opportunity to have fun. This is sort of thrilling to me assuming she does it openly.
I have a CB3000s and because of our separate locations we have started this at distance to see how it works.
So far both of us are excited and it has changed the dynamic between us in a positive way. We did try chastity briefly while we were together in ghana but my gf did not fully understand the concept and our interest withered away. This time round for various reasons she has taken to it readily.
My fears are that she is interested because she sees it as a way to stop me cheating and of course she is a beautiful young women and may well also see this as a new opportunity to have fun. This is sort of thrilling to me assuming she does it openly.
I am locked and ready to cum
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Hello, after a few weeks of lurking I decided to jump into the pool. I'm a 63 year old male and have been married to my wife for almost 30 years. Yes, I'm a real person and currently wearing an Amazon device but just ordered a Jailbird today. It's been a long slow road getting my wife to become my key holder but I think we've made it to a point where she is starting to be more comfortable with the idea. Looking forward to telling my story and gaining and seeking advice.
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Hi there!
Yes I am a real person and I am interested in the concept of chastity. I've been triggerd some time ago by the beautiful chastity devices. I've tried the Bon 4, an el cheapo iron Chinese device and am currently waiting for the HT2 to arrive.
I live in Europe and I am a married man of 44 yrs. old. My wife, unfortunately, isn't very much interested in this. But that might grow over time.
I have registered here because I have been frequently nosing around on this forum to learn about chastity.
As I am a trained blacksmith, welder and know my way around a lathe and a mill, I am currently trying to make my own devices. It's a challege
Yes I am a real person and I am interested in the concept of chastity. I've been triggerd some time ago by the beautiful chastity devices. I've tried the Bon 4, an el cheapo iron Chinese device and am currently waiting for the HT2 to arrive.
I live in Europe and I am a married man of 44 yrs. old. My wife, unfortunately, isn't very much interested in this. But that might grow over time.
I have registered here because I have been frequently nosing around on this forum to learn about chastity.
As I am a trained blacksmith, welder and know my way around a lathe and a mill, I am currently trying to make my own devices. It's a challege
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Dorothysub
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- Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2015 10:11 am
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Hi everyone. I'm new here. I'm married and my wife doesn't know I'm sub. My owner is a pro domme and tomorrow she'll be locking me away for a month for the first time. Very excited. Would like to meet like minded others and compare experiences.
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TitaniumChastiTi
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- Joined: Thu Sep 18, 2014 11:25 am
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How on earth can you be locked up for a month by some one else and your wife not know, i'm more than intrigued ?Dorothysub wrote:Hi everyone. I'm new here. I'm married and my wife doesn't know I'm sub. My owner is a pro domme and tomorrow she'll be locking me away for a month for the first time. Very excited. Would like to meet like minded others and compare experiences.
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locked furry joel
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- Joined: Mon Jan 12, 2015 4:44 pm
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hello everyone im new here. im into chastity and the furry fandom. right now I'm locked up and I have a nice keyholder.
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Hi all. I'm a mid 40's husband from New Zealand, and my darling wife is a few years younger.
We stumbled across this just over a week ago when it was leading up to my birthday and she decided to "make me wait" a few days until my birthday. The effect was electric!
The game played for a couple of days, until I worked up the courage to suggest a device to lock me up. She seemed not that keen at first, but not against it either, and given the state she could see I was in she told me the day before my birthday that i could go and get one. Needless to say, I jumped in the car and raced to the local "toy" shop and bought one.
From the moment of that first 'click', I felt transformed Everything that is said about becoming a better husband...more attentive, the drive to please her, the desire to give control to her, etc is true for me.
It also enabled me to be completely honest about sexual issues with her, such as excessive masterbation (which I was hiding from her), and this seems to have opened up a whole new way for us to communicate about such issues.
She sees all this in me an seems delighted with the results.
I feel it is the beginning of a new stage in our lives and I am so looking forward to showing her how much I simply want to make her life more pleasurable, both in and out of the bedroom.
We (mostly me) have spend hours and hours reading posts on here over the past week, and now it's time for us both to register
I look forward to us talking about things on her and getting advice from you all.
nzhubby
We stumbled across this just over a week ago when it was leading up to my birthday and she decided to "make me wait" a few days until my birthday. The effect was electric!
The game played for a couple of days, until I worked up the courage to suggest a device to lock me up. She seemed not that keen at first, but not against it either, and given the state she could see I was in she told me the day before my birthday that i could go and get one. Needless to say, I jumped in the car and raced to the local "toy" shop and bought one.
From the moment of that first 'click', I felt transformed
Everything that is said about becoming a better husband...more attentive, the drive to please her, the desire to give control to her, etc is true for me. It also enabled me to be completely honest about sexual issues with her, such as excessive masterbation (which I was hiding from her), and this seems to have opened up a whole new way for us to communicate about such issues.
She sees all this in me an seems delighted with the results.
I feel it is the beginning of a new stage in our lives and I am so looking forward to showing her how much I simply want to make her life more pleasurable, both in and out of the bedroom.
We (mostly me) have spend hours and hours reading posts on here over the past week, and now it's time for us both to register
I look forward to us talking about things on her and getting advice from you all.
nzhubbyBlissfully Hers
Owned devices: CB6Ks, Jailhouse
Owned devices: CB6Ks, Jailhouse
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Hi all, My name is William and I have been interested in chastity for over 10 years now. It took me 5 years to find the guts to tell my wife and tell her about my fetish. Her reaction was surprising, she said "oh, well ok, if you want" It did not and still does not excite or interest her. We agreed she would keep me locked 2-3 days during the week. Never at the weekend because we have children and she did not want them to run into a locked father in the bathroom.. It did work for her, and I was already happy she somehow suppported my needs. Every month I was wearing a chastity cage 2-3 time for a couple of days.
In December the 3rd and last kid left the house so we decided to take it more serious. I bought a CB6000 and tested it for over a week to get the right session. yesterday she locked me and it felt great! but when I asked her how long she would keep me locked she had really no idea. So we came acrass Carlilock and decided to have the session there. We filled in together the setting and off we go! The fun thing is that she is curious too when the release dat will be: with punishments and adding votes it can increase to who knows! So I hope this will get us both a new exciting adventure.
I became member of this forum to learn more about the long time wearing, I have fantasees about it, but do not know if I can handle. Time will tell. Thanks for this great forum with great info.
Greetings Willim K.
It did work for her, and I was already happy she somehow suppported my needs. Every month I was wearing a chastity cage 2-3 time for a couple of days. In December the 3rd and last kid left the house so we decided to take it more serious. I bought a CB6000 and tested it for over a week to get the right session. yesterday she locked me and it felt great! but when I asked her how long she would keep me locked she had really no idea. So we came acrass Carlilock and decided to have the session there. We filled in together the setting and off we go! The fun thing is that she is curious too when the release dat will be: with punishments and adding votes it can increase to who knows! So I hope this will get us both a new exciting adventure.
I became member of this forum to learn more about the long time wearing, I have fantasees about it, but do not know if I can handle. Time will tell. Thanks for this great forum with great info.
Greetings Willim K.