"Hello world" thread

[VerySubmissiveSwitch]

Greetings fellow chastity enthusiasts! I have been interested and involved in male chastity for many years but never had another person as my keyholder, except for two brief periods of time. One of those was with a fried for a two week period. The other was with my wife of 44+ years, but she never truly understood the "Reason" for having me in chastity, despite our conversations. My longest time that I have remained locked in chastity is 190 days, self-imposed.

Please feel free to say hello at any time!

[TwistedMister]

Hello world
I have a question. My beautful KH has kept me locked in my chastity cage permanantly for the last 13 days straight. I have slept in my cage and I have been teased by her while locked up tight. I have had some serious morning erections that had my cage pushed out away from my body. Will the pressure build up behind my base ring cause perminate damage and possibly cause erectile disfunction that may be perminate? My KH and I are both concerned about this. She has really taken to keeping me locked and she enjoys teasing me while locked. She also loves to make love with me and does not want to do anything that may potentially cause perminate damage and effect us both for the rest of our life's.
I have done a lot of research online and have found very little information that was actually helpful. I have read that urologist say chastity is not a good idea. I have also read a lot of stories about men being locked up and teased for months at a time without any problems.
Can anyone give me some real life information that might ease our concerns?
Thanks in advance?

John- I have done 18 month stretches of being locked 24/7, with periods of up to 2 months of not being allowed out for any reason. There is no need for concern. The biggest issue that I have experienced under these conditions is that if one is not let out for a 'stretch' (full erection) every week or two, the skin of the penis can lose some elasticity, which can cause erections (when eventually allowed) to feel 'tight' and the skin easily chafed. This effect is only temporary and the skin returns to normal after a day or two or three of freedom.

So, fear not, your KH can keep you locked for months and years, even for the rest of your life, and it is unlikely that it will cause any permanent [physical] changes or 'damage'. She can tease you as much as she likes and the pressure will do no harm, because as soon as the arousal is allowed to ease, the pressure is relieved. To avoid even the [temporary] loss of elasticity, all she has to do is let you out every week or so and tease you to full erection, and then lock it back up...whether or not you get to cum at those times is up to her, and not being allowed an orgasm for a couple of months won't hurt you either.

[johnellakh]

Twisted Mister,
Thanks so much for responding to my post. Your input was greatly appreciated.
I was hoping to hear from more people. Maybe I should ask questions like that under another topic.
I can see myself being locked up continuous for long stretches of time. My KH read your post and found it very helpful. She actually just read it and said "Mmmmmmm, how bout that"
I think that means she has plans to keep me locked up tight. She even mentioned that we should invest in a steel cage. Her exact words were "if we are going to do this thing, for real, then you really need the steel cage, so you can be more comfortable". I believe I have officially become her Chaste Husband.
She admitted to me, the other day, that the control is the thing she enjoys most about my chastity.
I think it turns her on tremendously.
Thanks again for your insight into my concerns. I hope you did not think I was ignoring you.
Wearing CB-Curve, have been locked everyday for the past 20 days and have been locked 24/7 for the past 15 days with only one release break.
Very happy chaste husband, John

[TwistedMister]

Twisted Mister,
Thanks so much for responding to my post. Your input was greatly appreciated.
I was hoping to hear from more people. Maybe I should ask questions like that under another topic.

Yes, it probably should have been in a thread of its own rather than in this 'introduction' thread and that may be why there were few responses. But, I figured it wouldn't take much more effort to respond to the question than to direct you to post it elsewhere without being responsive to your request for information. You're relatively new here, so I think your improper choice of venue can be overlooked.

Once you've had the time to look around and explore the various forums more completely, you will see that there have been others with similar concerns, and a number of responses that may be helpful to you and your KH.

There was one post recently, where someone says that someone else said that he got 'shorter' after a long period of being constantly locked...but that is third-party hearsay. There are more reliable sources here- those with first-hand experience who will likely agree with my response. As long as you inspect for other medical issues regularly (chafing, sore spots, etc.) and take a break to allow them to heal should such things occur, your worst issue should be a sense of horny frustration producing a growing desire to please your KH in hopes of [eventually] being permitted an orgasm.

[Celinya]

Hello! I am new here and brand new to male chastity. My fiance and I started experimenting with male chastity just last night, so I am playing a bit of catch up. We are into a good amount of kink, so I am excited to dive into male chastity but have been researching like mad. I am happy to have found this forum

[Harry Van Winkle]

I'm new here, but not to the world of chastity and kink. I'm a frequent poster on FetLife. Here's a link to my profile there. https://fetlife.com/users/54245

I have yet to fill out a profile here, I just joined this morning and I'm starting to get ready to move from Albuquerque to Tucson.

Many years ago, I was locked up in a CB2K, back when it was about the only ball-capture devices available, for eight months. It was a long distance relationship, something I won't willingly enter into again.

Right now, I'm not locked at all. Not much point in it without a KH and I won't have a KH who lives too far away to see regularly. So, I might be "free" for awhile.

[gloryboy]

Hi, I just registered. I'm a 56 year old man and I've been into chastity for decades, even before I knew it had a name.

I don't hold any world records or anything. My longest denial was for 36 days.

I only started using chastity devices about 12 years ago and currently have a CB-6000.

For the last few years, I've been having a rough time doing any sort of prolonged chastity. Two weeks has been about my longest in recent years. What always defeats me is lack of sleep. There reaches a point where I just get so aroused that I barely sleep. For instance, one night last week, I barely slept at all and had to work the next day. I got through it but I knew that, even the next night, I was not going to sleep deeply enough and just couldn't risk another night with too little sleep before work.

I know some of that is the mentality. You've got to tear your mind from it and think about other things long before time to sleep. I find sometimes, long denial becomes self-defeating when it is self-denial because you can't think about the very things that make it arousing.

I will say that my most successful denial time, 36 days, was for an on-line Mistress I was really dedicated to on irc and I really wanted to keep going longer but she decided it was long enough. But that was ten years ago and I've still never been able to match that kind of time again.

At any rate, I look forward to being here and talking.

[Tom Allen]

I'm new here, but not to the world of chastity and kink. I'm a frequent poster on FetLife. Here's a link to my profile there. https://fetlife.com/users/54245

I have yet to fill out a profile here, I just joined this morning and I'm starting to get ready to move from Albuquerque to Tucson.

Hi Harry -

This is not like Fetlife, and you do not need to set up a profile. I deleted your picture because there's really no need for it.

Please be sure to look over the rules in the Sticky posts at the top of the forums. We are a bit more vanilla, but hopefully the users here will have some good information for you.

[londonsissy]

hiii, I'm a mature transexual and with other life priorities left thinking about a possible transition to womanhood a bit late, but hey ho I finally got cb6000s and have been wearing it the last few days. I'm hoping that it will teach my bits down there to stay flaccid. I'm a cute and girly and after years it got me to get separated so I have no partner now. I also don't have any Dom who would tell me things but hoping to meet somebody or a nice couple who would like a sweet and obedient friend in London UK.
Hope that is enough about me to get started here

[Joey51]

Hello world. I have been in chastity for almost a year with orgasms every so often. A few weeks ago we started a year of no full orgasms as my wife is trying to break my alpha spirit. I dominated our marriage for a long time so I turned over the reigns to her and she is growing into the position I vacated. Kind of feels good to not have to make all the decisions about so many things and simply do what she tells me to do. However, I still have a rebellious spirit that was not broken by my once a month orgasms. Hence the one year ban on full orgasms. Should be interesting but after the first few weeks I am not very horny anymore so if I stay like this it will be fine as she teases me well. I can bail out but my wife will not give me orgasms until the end of the 12 month chastity period. She told me that she wishes I do bail as she could use a vacation away from bring my KH and teasing me a few times a week.

I wear a CB6000s which is very comfortable for me but the tube cracked after 11 months and I had to get it replaced. I also own a Bon4M which I have not worn much since I like the CB6000s better since it is lighter and easier to clean after I urinate. I do not like hinged or solid rings so my choices are limited.