Hello all,
New to forum and not a spammer.
Been married to my wife of 10 years.
I introduced chastity this last summer for a way to spend some inexpensive time together.
It has been pretty fun, and she gets into it more and more as time goes on.
Hi there I'm a 44 yr old male . I'm not entirely new to chastity , I have had a devise for about 8 yrs but very Rarely wear it . I have confessed to my wife that I have started wearing it again . She is still a bit miffed as to why I would want to do this but has not said I cant . I have explained that with out it I am likely to lack the self discipline to not pleasure myself which results in me losing interest in us . My first question is about edema. I am currently in a birdlocked pico . My foreskin is swollen in the tube . It's perfectly comfortable but I just wondered if I should remove the device to let the swelling go down , I'm interested in getting a holy trainer v2 as most reviews are positive about it being suitable for long wear quite quickly . I'm just a little concerned about the swelling . Any advice offered will be appreciated . Thanks Dan
Hello, I am a kinda new keyholder. My husband wants this, I have tried a couple of times and failed at it. I am trying to get some help here in understanding what it is he wants from this and some new ideas on how to make it work. First off, he is into bondage also and says he needs to be controlled. I have been tying him up for years, but now he wants more from our marriage. He wants me to control his needs, he is a constant toucher to himself and to me, he is very tensile intense. So I need help, to understand what this need is and how to give him the "control" he needs. Not a leather clad goddess, just a wife of almost twenty years trying to learn something new. Thanks
Welcome, MSChoice. Always nice to welcome a new Keyholder to the forum. Your hubby may be a lot like me. Whe we started this, I had trouble articulating what it was I thought I wanted and needed to my spouse face to face. Not sure if it was out of embarrassment or I was afraid what she would think of me. However, I had no problems putting my thoughts down on paper (or computer) so that's how I best communicated in the beginning. If she didn't understand, she would ask me what this or that meant. For instance, your hubby says he "needs to be controlled". Maybe you should set him down in front of his computer and direct him to explain in exact terms what that means to him and so on. As time goes along and you start to understand the dynamics of this, you will eventually figure out if there is something in this that interests you and turns you on. There has to be something in this for both of you for it to work and be fun.
Hi, I admit it, I posted and then read the sticky :")
I just wanted to say hullo woyald HUIEY! hi. I'm a real person, but KH tells me I'm actually just a thing.. but She's never called me a spamz0r so maybe take that for what it's worth.
Hope to be involved in some discussions soon, as well as posting a review of my first legit quality steel device.
Anyway, that's all, unless you want to know that i enjoy long walks on a moonlit beach.. otherwise I will be back lurking the Devices forum. Bye, and thanks for approving (in advance)
Hi I am knew, and a Mistress (well a dominant woman) I love to lock up my boyfriends and lovers -and they love it
-even if 'new' to chastity they soon see the benefits.
I don't get why more men don't love it.... more later
Although I have been only locked up on and off for the past 6 months, my KH and I have had many adventures. My desires to be locked up started young, you can read about it once they are posted. part 1 is up awaiting approuval before its on the forum. I will go on to explain the phases I went through from a young kid graduating from different levels of loss of control. ( maxi pads, diapers, restraints, handcuffs, and now a cage. )
I feel like I "need " to be locked up. I look forward to sharing my long in depth story with you, and I greatly anticiapte your feedback. Cheers !
cockislocked
Hi, my first post on here. Done loads of mitching in the background and have gained so much from this site I thought its about time I joined the forum. I plan to write a bit in the 'Journey' section because the last two months in chastity have been phenomenal for me and my KH and I don't want to forget a single moment, so please take a look and comment as you like...