"Hello world" thread

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Hello!

Well, I am a newbie here as you say.
French rubber fetish guy, not very sure with my "technical english", particularly concerning chastity devices, so I hope you'll all understand what I mean.... (PS: "what device do thumber wear"? to register... I had a look at my favourite dictionnary to see what a "thumber" is: no answer... Holy sh*t! .... and then I finally understood.. )
I am a 42 yo guy, very keen on rubber fetish, wearing my complete rubber catsuit as often as I can, under my normal clothes for example to go to work, in couple with an extraordinary 31 yo woman, who wears rubber to please me.
I am very interested in putting me in complete chastity for her. She 's interested to! (She says "my guy having an hard-on only when I want... perfect!").
I once bought a Curve, but it was too narrow for me, so impossible to use it ((( ; then I bought a device which looked like the JB, but not sold by MM... it was a french shop, and I do not really know who was the manufacturer). That one was really too long (12cm!) and impossible to wear under my clothes of course! I, of course, mistook myself when I took my measures...
I am here to look for advices from experienced guys (and their KH of course!) to choose a good device that I could wear 24/7, completely invisible under my clothes.
The big problem, for me, is to measure correctly my penis. So, if you feel like helping me... would be great, guys!

I hope you understand my strange english... Please, when you answer, try not to use to many slang or familiar words (I like them, but it slows me down as I have to look into a dictionnary...).

Well, I think I've told everything. I hope you are sure now that I'm a robot

Kind regards, and thanks in advance for helping me!

[achastehusband]

Hello everyone.

I'm A from the UK. I'm married to my gorgeous wife and we currently have two children and another on the way.

I've been interested in chastity for a while but looked at it more seriously when I realised I was becoming too obsessed with porn, masturbation and looking on sites like Fetlife. I'd even started having conversations with Fetlife members about meeting for sex.

I would never go through with anything like that but it was a thrill I guess talking about it.

I broached the subject of chastity with my wife who took some convincing. She is slowly starting to come to terms with my request and we have been trialling it now for about five or six weeks.

I'm hoping that handing over control of myself to her will allow us to become even closer than we are.

I'm currently wearing a HT2 but once the baby is born we are looking at going for this long term and I'll be looking at a jailbird.

[Brothers_Keeper]

Hello all! I'm (an about to be new) KH to my dear boyfriend of two years. However, I'm far from being new to the kink world. I worked for three years as a professional Dominatrix at one of Denver's well known dungeons. I have since retired from the professional world to focus on being a lifestyle Femme Dominant and safely exploring MY desires with the one I trust.

I learned much during my apprenticeship and with the many I played with during said time, but I didn't have a space to truly explore my deepest desires. In the last year, specifically, of self exploration and play with my boy I've learned that I love a variety of play, mainly: incest play, age play and play around shame/humiliation. However, I've never had the right space to explore my interest in male chastity. Sure, during work sessions, I would lock someone into a chastity device, but that felt like child's play compared to what I really desired.

After months of on and off again talk on the subject, my SO and I have decided we are at a good point in our relationship, communication and trust to begin keeping him in chastity. As the one leading, I believe it to be my personally responsibility to search out and educate myself as to the best device and practical applicational of chastity within our lives. I'll likely be asking many questions to those of you with experience. It will likely be a month or so before I find the right device and put him in it, as I aim to be prepared above overly eager.

Ultimately, chastity is not something I see as just "play". I see it as a commitment of trust, giving ones self over physically and mentally, and to be upheld for all it's beauty, as well as sheer sexiness.

We are both fairly young, 26, but were lucky to be exposed to many well informed mentors along the way. I hope to learn more from you all, as him and I move forward in our D/s dynamic.

[TwistedMister]

Hello all! I'm (an about to be new) KH to my dear boyfriend of two years...I believe it to be my personally responsibility to search out and educate myself as to the best device and practical applicational of chastity within our lives. I'll likely be asking many questions to those of you with experience. It will likely be a month or so before I find the right device and put him in it, as I aim to be prepared above overly eager.

Welcome, you've come to the right place, plenty of education and practical experience here...and the first bit- it might be more than a month or so before you find the right device.

However, I'm far from being new to the kink world. I worked for three years as a professional Dominatrix at one of Denver's well known dungeons. I have since retired from the professional world to focus on being a lifestyle Femme Dominant and safely exploring MY desires with the one I trust.

I learned much during my apprenticeship and with the many I played with during said time, but I didn't have a space to truly explore my deepest desires. In the last year, specifically, of self exploration and play with my boy I've learned that I love a variety of play, mainly: incest play, age play and play around shame/humiliation.

There are some here who would be very interested in what *you* have to contribute as well.

However, I've never had the right space to explore my interest in male chastity. Sure, during work sessions, I would lock someone into a chastity device, but that felt like child's play compared to what I really desired.

After months of on and off again talk on the subject, my SO and I have decided we are at a good point in our relationship, communication and trust to begin keeping him in chastity. As the one leading...

Lucky fella.

Ultimately, chastity is not something I see as just "play". I see it as a commitment of trust, giving ones self over physically and mentally, and to be upheld for all it's beauty, as well as sheer sexiness.

We are both fairly young, 26, but were lucky to be exposed to many well informed mentors along the way. I hope to learn more from you all, as him and I move forward in our D/s dynamic.

I think you'll find that it can produce some very interesting results, properly applied...

[Brothers_Keeper]

@TwistedMister: Thank you for the welcome! I'm fairly confident I've come to the right place. I lurked for days and really appreciated the mature, respectful conversations I saw on the matter. I'm in no rush, as I want to find the right device and be properly aware of my every intent before hand. And, why rush forever, right? I'm happy to have been suggested a forum where adults with self awareness congregate and am happy to share my views.

Thank you again.

-BK

[NotsoHarry]

Hey Everyone

I'm a young professional, living in Western Canada. I've recently gotten engaged to my lovely girlfriend of many years.

I've always had "Kinks" (heavily into BDSM) with a distinct interest in Chastity. Recently I opened up about my interests and my fiance has responded better than I could have ever hoped for. Going so far as to asking me if I wanted to use a CB like device.

As such I've been trolling all the sites I can, to learn how to make my (our) fantasy a reality.

[locked4her55]

Welcome NotsoHarry and congrats on your engagement.

Isn't it nice when your future wife embraces some of the things you suggest and in your case, chastity.

Hopefully this will be a rewarding journey for you both.

[KinKey]

Hello, this is my introduction thread. I'm the key holder of JetMirage, we've been married for 7 years and been working into the chastity lifestyle for about 3 years. Really understanding and respecting this choice has been very important to me and I'm really excited to continue learning and expanding my knowledge in this area. Let the fun begin!

[tugman3461]

Hello world tugman3461 here, doing lots of research hoping to come up with a plan and the right answers. thanks for having me.

[locked4her55]

Welcome tugman3461, good place for research.

Welcome KinKey, "Let the fun begin"? Well hopefully after 3 years you've found a little already.