I mean She is right.
For some reason when She allows me to ejaculate in successive fashion, I get real cranky and short not only with Her, but with the kids as well. Like my patience is much shorter. I get irritated at things that normally would just slide off my back.
When I am denied for the "8-10 day male hormonal cycle" I am much more docile and low-key. More patient and far less inclined to be irritable. I am much much more cognizant of my behaviors, to be sure.
Earlier this week in a moment of propitiousness, we discovered that using the strap-on, is not only serviceable but more than what I could do on my own.
There's a few reasons this doesn't bother me at all. Firstly, I'm the one in control of the dildo and I know "where to point that thing"
Second, i get the same intimacy, maybe moreso even then when we engage in DIP (I prefer that to PIV sorry, not sorry)
Lastly, it's majorly hot

especially uncaged. We have found that if I wear a thong, it keeps my penis "held back" and in semi-erect fashion, much like the chastity cage.
I love falling back and defaulting to whatever She wants. She is all things beautiful and lovely to me, and it's my privilege to give all of me to Her this way.
@MrsLockNkey