Piercings...Got 'em? Love 'em?

[mellyshubby]

I'll just jump in and ask a question ... which do you feel is the better piercing for chastity play, the Prince Albert or the frenum? My wife and I have been discussing this subject lately.
Thanks

[peter_rabbit]

MellysHubby,

I don't have a frenum piercing, but do have a PA since last April. I think it works great for chastity. A frenum piercing seems too fragile to me. Also it seems there's more options for PA-secured chastity. I chose the PA for those reasons. I told my piercer I'd be going to large gauges, so he placed it just a little further up to give more skin between the piercing and the urethra. (See Elayne Angel's book) It wasn't comfortable for chastity until it was very well healed. I was pierced at 10 and healed at 8 ga. 6ga was the minimum it felt "safe"... but perhaps that was a function of how mature my piercing was.

I'm slipping in and out of 4ga now easily, and snug in an occasional 2ga. I find 4ga gauge very comfy and secure, but not too heavy. 2ga is fun to wear though.

I really like my PA after nearly a year. I'm glad I got it. Go find an APP piercer though! Have fun

[Aarkey]

I'll just jump in and ask a question ... which do you feel is the better piercing for chastity play, the Prince Albert or the frenum? My wife and I have been discussing this subject lately.
Thanks

I've have a frenum piercing for 10 years now and have used it as an anchor for a second lock for added security in chastity w/o any issue. I wear a captive bead ring through the piercing and run the second lock through that.

Though the PA can be a more secure anchor point, the idea of spraying urine holds no appeal. Plus, I simply always looked unattractive.

If you want more info, I have a few blog entries about it from years ago. http://aarkeybabble.blogspot.com/search/label/Frenum