Satisfying her during long lock ups

[freespirit]

If you do not wish to be so sensative, I have jeard of guys wearing two condoms at once. This helps them to last longer.

You might also let your gf tease you till near climaxe and step. Repeat this over and over and you might build up a resistance and last longer before orgasm.

Another fun game since she loves a real hard penis in her is to put your penis all the way in her vagina. Do not move, she then uses her vibrator on herself, she will then start moving around your penis, she will enjoy the erect penis and you will feel her movement. It is up to you two weather an orgasam on your part is allowed. If she just wants to tease you and have you not ogasm do the same as above except just put the head of your penis into her vagina. This will drive you crazy.

[Harry Haversackers]

Anbesol, a numbing cream intended for sore mouth issues, is available at the nearest grocery or drug store, and seems to work well for us. As with any numbing cream, it has to be left on until it takes effect, and then any excess removed so that her lady parts don't become numb.

We tried multiple condoms, but it turns out that Mrs. Haversackers has a bit of a latex allergy. Not good...

After anything more than a week of denial, and her incredibly arousing teasing, the Ambesol allows me to easily last long enough to satisfy her. Without it, I'm lucky to last more than a few pathetic strokes.

[celticqueens_sub]

Anbesol, a numbing cream intended for sore mouth issues, is available at the nearest grocery or drug store, and seems to work well for us. As with any numbing cream, it has to be left on until it takes effect, and then any excess removed so that her lady parts don't become numb.

We tried multiple condoms, but it turns out that Mrs. Haversackers has a bit of a latex allergy. Not good...

After anything more than a week of denial, and her incredibly arousing teasing, the Ambesol allows me to easily last long enough to satisfy her. Without it, I'm lucky to last more than a few pathetic strokes.

Try silicone condoms. CQ has the same problem with latex

[Harry Haversackers]

CQ's_sub... Thanks for the idea. I've also seen urethane condoms mentioned too, but have no idea where to find either them or the silicone.

[chaste]

Anbesol, a numbing cream intended for sore mouth issues

I have the same "problem" as the OP and I've often wondered if this approach would work. Do you stay hard for long after the numbing takes effect? In my head, I imagine if I went completely numb down there I would start to go soft before long.

Do you use a cock ring to keep you hard or is it just not a problem?

[Atone]

Do you stay hard for long after the numbing takes effect? In my head, I imagine if I went completely numb down there I would start to go soft before long.

We have only tried this once and this is what happened. I went so numb that I couldn't feel anything and quickly went soft.

I am sure we will try again someday. I will use less of the cream and probably use a cock ring as well.

[hot_toddy_dog]

Steelworxx has a possible solution for this:

http://steelworxx.de/Dildo-with-A-Ring-76p.html

Personally I would love to try that, and if my wife was interested in penetration, that would be the only thing going inside her.

[Locked4Xtine]

well the 2 strap ons we tried before were too small for her.

One was way to skinny and the other was around the same size as mine, maybe a little smaller towards the middle and bottom.
So she didn't really like them enough to want them more than my cock.

I have now ordered this bad-boy

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bigpicture.c ... 0&im=41775

its 1.8" diameter (46mm) so i'm hoping it will fill her up more than me without being so big it's not comfy.

I really hope she likes this one!

I have heard a lot of good stuff about the this dildo. Please let us know how it works for you!

Well the bad boy arrived today...feels great
she says it is the same size as the biggest cock she has ever taken and although she found him to be a bit uncomfortable, I'm hoping the super soft outer silicone along the shaft and the whole helmet will prove to be more forgiving than his huge cock. The hard inner silicone gives it a true erect cock feel as well.

The lip toward the bottom of the shaft is also very soft, bends and folds with very little push, so hopefully will be comfortable on her lips, she normally doesnt like ridges on dildos.

we are going to give it a test ride this weekend. alot of women who thought this toy is big for them have ended up loving it more than they ever hoped to, so fingers crossed for this weekend that Xtine thinks the same!


Re: numbing creams, yes we did think of that.
That will be the next option if we can never find a good strap on

Tantus make other dildos with this magic 2 layer silicone business, so if this is too big for her, I will try 1 smaller one from the same material and then give up on strap ons for a while

[celticqueens_sub]

CQ's_sub... Thanks for the idea. I've also seen urethane condoms mentioned too, but have no idea where to find either them or the silicone.

The Durex brand make them.

check this link

http://www.durex.com/en-GB/Products/con ... ltima.aspx

[celticqueens_sub]

Do you stay hard for long after the numbing takes effect? In my head, I imagine if I went completely numb down there I would start to go soft before long.

We have only tried this once and this is what happened. I went so numb that I couldn't feel anything and quickly went soft.

I am sure we will try again someday. I will use less of the cream and probably use a cock ring as well.

We have had great success with EMLA cream, used very sparingly...