"Hello world" thread

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crobane 18
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Post by crobane 18 »

im eddie,
ive always wanted to meet a mistress and be her sub, last month my dream came true,
she is fitting my penis with a cb6000s,and i cant wait to be under lock and key.
she has told me that she will keep the key on her necklace.
i cant wait to be fitted as i masturbate alot.
Mr O
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Hello,
I am Mr O and am a submissive husband to my wife who often has me wear a CB6000s. We are from the South Coast of England and are in our late 40s. We have been together for over 20 years. We have a great marriage and my chastity has helped keep the sexual sparkle alive.

Even when I am not wearing the CB6000s my wife still controls my orgasms. It varies how often I am allowed them but it is never usually more than one a month. I try to be honest but have been known to sneak in an occasional ruined orgasm when not locked. It is bizarre I know, but having a small penis means I can push it inside me and rub myself to an orgasm as a girl would - all without getting erect. Can anyone else do this?!

Naturally most of my sexual pleasure comes from orally pleasuring my wife. I get a real high from sharing her orgasms and it gives me most of the relief I need. In our house a blow job is me using my tongue on her as I have never had the pleasure!

My wife naturally likes to be in charge so chastity was a natural progression but we are not BDSMers. It sounds strange but my wife isn't really that kinky at all. She likes to orgasm when she is in the mood and I oblige. We are now at the stage where I don't even think about reciprocation. She will roll over and I will carry on caressing.

I grew up as a cross dresser but this is something my wife doesn't like so I don't push it. She tolerates me wearing knickers and tights now and then underneath my trousers and I would like this aspect to grow but I know it won't. I may fantasise about wearing a maid's outfit in front of her but I doubt it will ever happen.

Well that a little bit about us. We have a really close relationship but I have joined the forum to see if there are any ways that I can improve or deal with issues when they arise. I do suffer from post orgasm funk. I feel embarrassed about chastity for quite a while after and wish just to be 'normal'. I am especially interested to hear the female point of view and learn from that.
locked4now
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Hello, My wife and I have started down the road to chastity. I have been lurking for some time and have learned a lot about this from here. i decided it was time I registered. All for now.
Bluecat
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Hello folks!
My wife and I have been married for 4 years and together for 15. We're both in our early 40s and live in the UK near the south coast. I introduced my wife to the idea of male chastity and she is becoming accustomed to it and certainly enjoys the 'improvement' in my general attentiveness and extra affection. We have started out with a black holytrainer v2 (small tube, 45mm then 40mm rings) and I have found this device to be pretty comfortable albeit with some problems around occasional testicular escape. Despite apparently being a big improvement on cbxxxx devices hygiene-wise I still find its not the easiest device to stay nice and clean within when worn for more than a few days. No doubt this in part due to the enclosed nature of the tube. Although the device has been fine for days at a time (longest lockup c.10 days) it has been frustrating needing to remove either for cleaning or to recapture my smaller stray left testicle, meaning I've pretty much always required to have my own key... The biggest issue however, and why I've joined the forums is that on two tubes now the bioresin at the point where the lock inserts has snapped. So....time for something else on grounds of: better fit, better hygiene and overall durability/security for long term wear I think. Currently considering something from MM or Steelworxx and hoping to benefit from the accumulated wisdom here! Very real, very genuine, howdy folks :)
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Michele
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Welcome to our newest members, look forward to hearing more from you! :)
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Samspet
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Just came across this forum last night and couldn't resist joining,my wife and I have been experimenting with different devices and really enjoying it
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maxANDsue
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Just here to say hello. New to this forum but not chastity forums. Been married 45 years to a bisexual woman who has had the same girlfriend for about 38 years of our marriage. She is the faithful and loyal sort. Needless to say, the woman were dominant in my household and that fed my sexual submissive nature. I find sexual submission to be a stress reliever from my high pressure job. Outside of my home, I am very alpha male, to a fault. Our main lifestyle was entrenched in BDSM without much of the bondage part. I like to feel that I am submitting to anything voluntarily and that is just my thing. I like mental sex play.

We have been playing with chastity for a little over 11 months now with my average denial period being about 3 weeks or a little more. I own a CB6000s but its main use is to make me feel more aroused, prevent any accidents during sex (she is the one who gets carried away) or to make my penis super sensitive prior to sex night. I never am told to wear it for any other reason but I sometimes put it on when I want to watch some porn late at night. I am disciplined enough that to remove it although I easily can remove it at any time. Our goal is to intensify the teasing and the CB is has a minor role in that.

The one thing people find odd about our marriage is that as part of my submission to my wife and her g/f, I have not been allowed to penetrate them in any manner. That is what most do not understand about my brand of sexual surrender. For me it is natural and has become my normal as it was the only adult lifestyle that I know. My wife is not longer with her g/f due to unforeseen circumstances that keep us 1500 miles apart, but says she will not take on another lover until I die and then she wants to marry a woman because after all this time, she still does not understand men. She tells me that if I was not submissive to her, she probably would have left me a long time ago because the way a man thinks is not like any women she knows.
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Atone
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maxANDsue wrote:Just here to say hello.
Welcome to the forum maxANDsue.

Your post is the 2000th post to this thread. That is a lot of new introductions.
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johnnym13
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hello world,
My name is Johnny. Currently a sophomore in college and i just found out that i have a chastity fetish. Im joining there forums too see if i can find my keyholder. I ordered my first cage this morning and im excited to start wearing one (:
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Hi there Johnny and welcome to the forums.

As you look around you will see that you'll find plenty of help with your journey along in chastity. Most members here are partnered or married and here to help those who are new.
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