"Hello world" thread

[danj]

Only concern is that I better get my measurements right before ordering something custom! So I'd like to wear the CB6000 for a while longer to see where my sizes settle down to.

Good idea. I've been wearing a cb-6000s for maybe 10-11 months, and I'm glad I waited almost that long to order a custom device (Steelheart), as I went down in ring size not too long ago. By waiting, I felt more confident in my measurements before sending US$400 across the pond to Steelworxx for my custom device. I won't know for sure until it arrives, but I'm pretty certain it will be a good fit.

[TwistedMister]

Finally decided to set up an account. I've been reading Dev's, jnuts' and (occasionally) Tom Allen's blogs for some time now. My wife and I started experimenting with MC some 8(?) years ago, more or less, and have been experimenting with (mostly light) BDSM/kink for more than two decades.

We began with a little bit of tie & tease and it was usually myself in the dominant role. Ex-military and with a tendency to high-risk occupations, I am generally anti-authoritarian and rebellious but tend to rise to positions of power and responsibility. And yet, I find myself strangely attracted to, and considerable eroticism in, female dominance when it comes to sex. At first I thought this was extremely odd, given my nature, until a college education in Psychology and further research into the nature of BDSM informed me that it is not uncommon for those who wield power in everyday life to have some attraction to the opposite role when it comes to sexuality. How this relates to me I'm still not completely certain, as I now recognize that even as a child I had a certain fascination for it, two notable scenes remain in my memory from an early age- Batman captured and bound by Catwoman (from the old children's TV series) and James Bond bound and held prisoner by beautiful but nefarious women.

While I used to be somewhat concerned about my sanity due to these thoughts, eventually I decided "Screw it, why not just enjoy it?"

Hiya jnuts.

[AlexGuy25]

Hello World

I've been experimenting with abstinence and chastity most of this year, after reading about the many benefits of chastity. I do really feel better, more energetic, etc. when I go a while without ejaculating. I honestly avoid ejaculating as long as I possibly can stand it. Eventually, I do find the desire to cum begins to outweigh the pleasures of chastity. And that's where the options get interesting, once I learned about edging, teasing, and denial.

For example, currently I last cum over 24 days ago--and that was only once, from a ruined orgasm, after not cumming for over a month. This did little to ease my sexual frustration, despite the huge amount of semen spurted. So now almost a month later, I've waited to build up an enormous amount of pent up sexual energy before posting here. Yes, being incredibly horny does feel good, in a way, for a while. But all good things must come to an end (pardon the pun). Been furiously horny the past week, and absolutely desperate for an ejaculation since day 19. So on day 19 I finally begged "Please let me cum. PLEASE!" for a chance to cum. I was asked if I'd like to be allowed to stroke and eagerly said yes, assuming this meant stroking leading slowly but surely all the way to ejaculation. I was assigned 2 dozen edges just shy of ejaculation, followed by slow, "guided masturbation" stroking, and finally glans massage. Because I have been able to cum from touching only the glans in the past, I was granted permission to cum ONLY if I could ejaculate from glans massage alone, or else go to sleep with blue balls. I got thisclose to orgasm, probably 98% of the way to ejaculation, but it was not quite enough to cum. My balls have an increasingly noticeable, incessant ache.

So...I'm left wondering, do I get to cum? How, exactly? When? I'm really quite desperate to cum already, and my balls have been aching for over 3 days now, but can probably handle a little more edging, teasing & denial, etc. if I'm told I WILL actually get to cum, not just "might get to cum" or "will get to have lots of fun stroking" which would probably mean stroking shy of ejaculation.

[toodlej]

Hello, my husband and I are both new to the chastity thing. He just got his first one last weekend (a steel one) and used it for a few days, then realized it pinches and "shows" when he wears certain pants or is working out. We bought another one that is silicone and he is liking it a lot better.
My husband works in another town Mon-Thurs and I "made" him keep it on while he was at work. I also haven't decided when he's going to be able to take it off!
This is all so new to us I wanted to join this forum to get some ideas on how to keep things exciting!

[jnuts]

Welcome!

[Atone]

Welcome to the forum, and to chastity.

He just got his first one last weekend (a steel one) and used it for a few days, then realized it pinches and "shows" when he wears certain pants or is working out.

The off the shelf steel devices seem to be a bit large and not always of the best construction.

My husband works in another town Mon-Thurs and I "made" him keep it on while he was at work.

Sounds like you are having fun with this, that is good.

-A

[LockedHub]

Well I'm Toodlej's husband. Interesting information here on this site and the related blogs you all have. I look forward to learning more.

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome both, it is great to have another couple join the forum. This is a great resource. Also check out the keyhold blog list (see signature), there is a list of all the blogs that are kept here and elsewhere.

Have fun!

[Lostinlife]

Hello world ( hate to use that since I wanted my first "hello world" to be a new software or something lol)

So, I am 26 married with children . I have been under lock and key on and off for year or so now.

I joined this forum because I would like to talk to like minded people without having to sift through most of the crap that is associated with a topic such as this.

[submut]

Hello. I am lucky enough to have a beautiful wife that is just getting intersted in chastity! I am here to learn and possibly share ideas that could make our play more enjoyable for both of us...mainly for her though. I am looking forward to exploring and learning more about this.