[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[Rufusstone]

I’ve read Herbi’s great account of last night and I’m sure we’ll all enjoy that.
But one question occurs to me and you don’t have to answer this - everyone is different after all. Herbi is orally able and he has given up his orgasms and you haven’t. But you have mostly given up PIV and my other half would struggle with that if it was less than at least once per month.
So in the long term, is that sustainable for you? Doyou see some things may change once the first year experiment is over?
Obviously, that’s in the future and your plans may change but you have suggested that you both think that chastity is something that will continue.

[KHEmmi]

I’ve read Herbi’s great account of last night and I’m sure we’ll all enjoy that.
But one question occurs to me and you don’t have to answer this - everyone is different after all. Herbi is orally able and he has given up his orgasms and you haven’t. But you have mostly given up PIV and my other half would struggle with that if it was less than at least once per month.
So in the long term, is that sustainable for you? Doyou see some things may change once the first year experiment is over?
Obviously, that’s in the future and your plans may change but you have suggested that you both think that chastity is something that will continue.

Sensible and reasonable questions.
This latest was meant to be a 3 month lockup to see what happens (a learning experience) but is probably a one-off.
So he's given up his orgasms – almost - but he still gets some. Just doesn't know when or how.
Likewise I've given up PIV - mostly – but not completely.
Last night's outcome was on the roll of the dice but in future I can demand PIV if I want. I expect I will.

I have other ways of course. Including my Lush 3 that I like a lot.
So it probably would be sustainable but also probably doesn't need to be.

I see chastity continuing after the year's trial is up. It might be different but it will carry on. Pretty sure of that.

[Rufusstone]

Thanks for answering

[KHEmmi]

Been good to do that 3 months thing but nice to have the choice to do something different now.
At least I know anythings possible now!
And the average is down again.

Herbs wasn't pleased when I said that he's only really done one full month.
"what do you mean?" he said.
I said that he'd come in July before being locked up on the 9th and he'd come in September.
So it's only August as a full calendar month that he's really done.
"yeah but.... 81 nights is nearly 3 full months!"
"don't worry about it, Herbs"

Nice to see that even after Monday's fun and orgasm he's still ready for more.
Nice to see him hard in his Cobra.
I sent him a text while he was working today.
"Been hard yet?"
"yes"
"excellent. What about right now?"
"yep I am now"
"lovely. That's how I like you to be"

[KHEmmi]

With all the fun of Monday evening, I almost overlooked the fact that 1st October was the first day into month 7 of our trial.
We're half-way through!
We both know the result already. It's a success and here to stay.

So much has happened and Herbi has done 81 nights without orgasm so there really are no limits.
The average is down to 1.33 and will be at 1.14 by 1st November (yes I know I am obsessed with numbers).

Still, “once a month is more than enough” is true and the relevant words in there are “more than” so a target of “less the 1.00” applies.
I had a thought that in 2025 I should let him come only in the months that have 31 days in them, but that is too rigid and I want to keep some flexibility, control, and mystery in there.

Herbs is ready to come again.
Every time I see him (naked) he seems to be tight in the little Cobra. A state of readyness indeed.
As usual he's ready for a change of cage too after only 4 nights. I don't mind changing from one to another if it means better hygiene, health, or comfort but it's a bit too soon just yet. Sorry Herbi but it's the Cobra for a few more nights yet.
Then I think back to the new one would be nice?

He's working from home today, which is nice for both of us.
Coffee breaks and meals together, hopefully an early finish, and a nice evening ahead.
Out to the pub for food or indoors, cook for ourselves or get a takeaway. Decision still to be made.

[KHEmmi]

I wasn't sure what to expect after Herbs orgasm on Monday following 3 month without.
It doesn't seem to have made a lot of difference to him though.
He's just as hard in the mornings and wants more.
Should I stick to the "once is all you get" rule? On balance, I think so.

I'm wondering what to do for the next month now.
Keeping him waiting but not wanting it to feel like "locked and forgotten" that I've read about.
So there'll be teasing and some edging, the edging not just yet though. It's only been five nights so far out of 32.
Cuddling up in bed though. That frustrates him.
Need to keep things interesting and varied enough until 1st November.

Still getting plenty myself of course and he enjoys providing that service.
I still like the Cobra too. Hard to pick a favourite (because they all have + and - aspects) but if we only had one and the one was the Cobra, I'd be ok with that. Wonder if he would agree?

[Rufusstone]

Milking - I don’t mean 2 pints!
If you’re looking for something different to try…

[KHEmmi]

Getting ready to go away for a few days.
Some nights in a B&B with plenty of fresh air and walks during the day, shopping, sight-seeing and eating out.
Looking forward to the final day when we drop in unannounced at my parents house to see them.
It will be a big surprise for them but a happy one I'm sure.

Couple of bags packed already for setting off in the morning.
Herbi will be changed out of the Cobra I've decided.
He can have a few days while we're away in the big cage.
It has some advantages. Easy to pee, easy to keep clean and I like it.
Also tends to arouse him a bit more. Maybe because it's heavy? I like him to know he's wearing it.
He'll enjoy that. Especially at night.

He's finishing work early today (at home) so we'll have some dinner and he can have a bath before settling down for an early night in the big one.

Going to get some fresh sea air. Bit cold for a dip in the English Channel I think though.

[Tongue+groove]

It’s been a few days since you have posted. I always enjoy reading about your journey.

Enjoy your trip.

[KHEmmi]

Thank you!

We will, I'm sure.
Everything's packed and ready for the morning.
A few things to finish off tonight including the cage changeover but then we can relax. Well I can at least. Herbs will have something else to do before we settle down for the night.