"Hello world" thread

[newtochast57]

Welcome to all the newcomers.

I am new myself, having been a member for just two weeks (was browsing for a few months before joining)however I think all the new members will find that this site is very informative. I find the site deals with mostly with the chastity aspect and less of the other fetishes that sometimes accompany it, such as master/slave, feminization, etc.

I note that since Valentines day, 9 of the new members are key-holders and many of them indicate that they are new to this or have a "vanilla" background. Although my thoughts are to "each their own", and I have no problem with people wishing to explore other fetishes, there are other sites out there that deal with other fetishes in concert with chastity. I believe that the fact that the site deals mostly with the vanilla aspect of chastity makes it more comfortable for someone new to chastity, and/or perhaps not having been exposed to some of the other fetishes.

The information I found on this site as well as some guidance from a "couple" (key-holder and her husband) from this site was not only informative, it helped me get the courage to talk to my wife about it. Thank-you!

I am glad to say I had that conversation 3 days ago and although I was guessing as to what her reaction would be, in the end my wife agreed to give it a trial run.

The last three days have been great, however I must remind myself to take it slow "its a process, not an event and it is something you do with someone, not to them" (read that somewhere). I hope to introduce my wife to the site (she already knows it exists) when she is ready. The fact that there are several new key-holders in the same position as her as well as some that have been involved with chastity for a while should aid in her finding the answers to any questions she may have.

Good luck to all in your process.

[likingitlocked]

Hello world. While not completely new to chastity my wife and I are really just getting started again. Last year I messed up bad. No not an affair but still broke trust with my wife. Something I am truly repentant about. I will spend the rest of my life making it up to her.

Anyway we had dabbled in male chastity for a few months but it all came to a halt last September when I screwed up. Our marriage was touch and go for a while but luckily it survived. Our relationship has been strained but has been getting better. My Princess as I call her now has locked me back up for who knows how long. It has now been nine days since my last orgasm and I am locked 24/7. An orgasm achieved by masturbation. That won't happen again. I am presently in a CB6000s but we placed an order for a Jailbird yesterday. I am truly looking forward to its arrival. Hygiene is very important to us and the 6000 is just not that easy to keep clean.

She is 52 and I am 56. Although she is very new to this and really has some trouble with it I consider myself extremely blessed and lucky that she is actually going to give it a serious try. I truly hope that she finds it enjoyable and my greatest desire would be for this to become a permanent situation. No I don't want permanent orgasm denial, but I would welcome her having complete control of my erections and orgasms from now on. I get pleasure when and if it suits her. Her pleasure comes first and foremost. She does enjoy actual intercourse so I won't be denied that aspect but I will only orgasm if she allows it.

She has also registered here as a keyholder and plans to get some advice and answers from the more experienced crowd. For now her identity will remain a secret and she will be revealed as my keyholder only if she chooses to let it be known.

I'll head over to the Journey Forum and start a running blog of my thoughts and experiences. Very happy to be here and even happier to locked and loved by my beautiful and sexy Princess.

Love you Princess.

[Michele]

Welcome likingitlocked!

[ChasteforKristen]

My keyholder and I are in a long distance relationship. We have been dating for about 2 years. Here to see if my feelings are "normal" for someone in chastity. This longing after a month of no contact except for phone can really be frustrating but she loves it so.
Just want some insight of someone going through the same thing.

[melonville]

Hello everyone!

I'm a 26 year old male and have been with my partner for 3.5 years. I enjoy many things, chastity being one. Lately we have been having some issues in the bedroom. I have a tendency to pleasure myself too much, and never been in the mood to help him out. So I brought up the idea of chastity and he seemed interested. So that is why I joined, to learn as much as i can, and share what I learn.

Thanks!

[Michele]

Welcome ChasteforKristen and melonville!

[bostondan]

Hey there,

I just joined this forum and am just exploring chastity. I've been interested in various forms of kink for a while. I just got my first device and talked to my wife about chastity. She was surprisingly open minded about it. We've been married for 3.5 years now and im 39, 7 years older. We also have a toddler and live pretty busy lives. I got a cheapo imitation plastic device that was junk and am now using a inexpensive metal device but may opt for a custom one. So far its been great! Looking forward to learning more about this lifestyle.

[Michele]

Welcome Bostondan

[ChrissysProperty]

Hi I'm d and my Keyholder and wife of nearly 40 years this year is M. .......................... I'm in heaven for a 60 year old (61 shortly). So even the wrinklies can get involved !! ..............

Hi Slave d

I don't know why but I've just now received notification of your post. (Can anyone tell me why the notification was so late?)

I also notice that you didn't appear to get a welcome which is very unusual for THIS site!

Anyway ... Welcome to one of the most friendly forums on the subject and congratulations on your entry to the experience. Don't worry about age ..... I'm 62 and my Princess is a little older! Who cares? It's actually about love and respect for women that has been neglected in the distant past. And those women who try it soon realise how good it is!

Enjoy!

[owned_sissy]

Just a quick note to say hello, as I intend to post a longer message in The Journey forum. My wife and I are both 31, and while we have been into dominance and submission for about 10 years, we only started experimenting with chastity about a month ago. I joined the site with hopes of learning more about the lifestyle. I also hope my wife will create her own account, as she is constantly saying she'd love to meet like minded women to discuss and exchange ideas with. Regardless, she will certainly review my posts and the replies. Looking forward to learning new things.