[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[KHEmmi]

Herbi seems to be aroused a lot more lately.
The past week or so, he's leaked more and says he's hrd during the day more too.

With the Cobra his days were uneventful, no feeling, no arousal unless caused by other factors. but that seems to have changed. He's always had erections at night, waking early, unable to get back to sleep but now erections during the day too.
Something is different now.
Maybe the vacuum of space is only a passing thing when wearing the Nub?
Hope he enjoys getting some feeling back!

[Tongue+groove]

he's leaked more

I know the feeling. I tried to tell her it was crying for attention. I think that may have cost me a few days.

[KHEmmi]

Comments about how well I am doing or how I manage it made me think.
Natural keyholder? I don't know.
I am following my nose, my instincts, and listening to everyone who's offering advice. That's my method, I've decided.

Try a Cobra, someone said. A Nano or a Nub.
So I did. I chose the Nub.
What a great piece of advice. I love the Cobra Nub, love seeing it on, love what it does to Herbi.

Someone else said “If you can do 3 weeks then there's no limit.” and I think I can now agree with that having pushed Herbi to 8 weeks now (minus a few days but we'll get there).
He's done this without knowing an end date.
When we first started, he usually knew how many days it would be until his next release. Not telling him was a suggestion from someone that I took up. Maybe I will chop and change between him knowing and not knowing.
Keeping him in the dark seems to work.

I read that some keyholders don't build up to longer periods of locked, but go straight in for 2 months from day 1.
Sets the conditions and boundaries and gets everything established in one go. We didn't do that and had already started building up gradually.

3 months, said another keyholder.
The gist being that once you know what you're doing, a 3 month lockup teaches you both a lot and gets both of you into a different place.

Reading about CFnm told me that others did what I had fantasy ideas about so CFnm became a regular part of our lifestyle.

As for the rules and commands, they are mostly my own invention although not, of course unique.
I like my one word commands such as “Strip” and “kneel”. He obeys instantly of course.

What I'm saying is that I follow advice but also dream up my own methods. Does that mean a natural keyholder? Still don't know.

Just to finish, Herbi has just read about a 7 day cycle or something?
I get the idea (from him) that it's where the male is unlocked for sex (or at least to come) each week. maybe that's not quite what it means but it's my understanding at the moment.
The funny thing is that Herbi imagined that this is what chastity would be like for him.
Obviously turned out a bit different once I started reading.

Bit of a random post but I am a bit random sometimes.

[Tongue+groove]

I am a bit random sometimes.

With my limited experience, I’d say you’re a natural.

[KHEmmi]

I am a bit random sometimes.

With my limited experience, I’d say you’re a natural.

Thanks!

Another bit of advice that I forgot to mention but which turned out to be accurate was: smaller is better.

[KnownAsHerbert]

I am following my nose, my instincts, and listening to everyone who's offering advice. That's my method, I've decided.

Just to finish, Herbi has just read about a 7 day cycle or something?
I get the idea (from him) that it's where the male is unlocked for sex (or at least to come) each week. maybe that's not quite what it means but it's my understanding at the moment.
The funny thing is that Herbi imagined that this is what chastity would be like for him.
Obviously turned out a bit different once I started reading.

Bit of a random post but I am a bit random sometimes.

I must be the village idiot thinking that chastity would be a few days kept waiting for sex and then, waheyhey off we go.
No 7 day cycle for me.
You didn't tell me what your instincts would lead to, did you Miss Emmie?

And the last bit 'a bit random sometimes', I would question the word 'sometimes'.
Well done for your achievements anyway. I would never have imagined that you could be so imaginative. Or secretive!
Love the random bits, by the way.

[KHEmmi]

I must be the village idiot thinking that chastity would be a few days kept waiting for sex and then, waheyhey off we go.

No village idiot. Naively overly trusting maybe, hehehe.

[KHEmmi]

I felt a bit sorry for Herbi yesterday.
I made him tell me everything that Vikki had put in her messages to him, plus what he'd replied.
I didn't ask to see the messages. I didn't want to see the messages.
I wanted him to have to tell me out loud, to re-live the embarrassing (for him) content of them, especially when she asked him if he'd been allowed to come since she last saw him and all.
Poor Herbi. He had to admit to her that he hadn't, and then re-tell the whole thing to me.

I've messaged Vikki this morning to say well done and to thank her for showing an interest beyond her stand-in keyholder duty.
She's said she'll send him something else later on today, ask how he's going, etc.
Seems that she can get him aroused just with text messages. Hehehe. Poor old Herbs.

[Rufusstone]

Good control of Herbi Miss E - keep it up! (Not Herbi of course).

[KHEmmi]

1st Spetember.
5 months into the year's trial today.
We both already know that the trial is a success and there's no going back.

Also with Herbi going a full calendar month without an orgasm his average is officially down to 1.4 per month. Aiming for lower of course.