Aussie_Lady wrote:It keeps him randy and on his toes.
Aussie_Lady wrote:I have been involved in a couple of discussion groups before, but they tended yo be more hardcore BDSM or sissy sites. We like some mild BDSM, but my man is no sissy.
You have come to the right place for some good old, no nonsense Male Chastity talk
By the way, feel free to exert some of your FLR on us all.
We do enjoy hearing from the Keyholders side now and then.
Happily secured since 4/2010
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
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Aussie_Lady wrote:I am the Key Holder for my husband, a wonderful man. We have been together for almost 30 years, of which he has been in enforced chastity (on and off) for about 8 years. It is now 24/7. We are in a major city in Australia. Other than his enforced chastity and spankings, we are not into anything to real kinky. We don't swing. But we are absolutely in a female-led marriage. He gets anywhere from one to three orgasms per month, if and when I feel like. It keeps him randy and on his toes.
I have been involved in a couple of discussion groups before, but they tended yo be more hardcore BDSM or sissy sites. We like some mild BDSM, but my man is no sissy.
I look forward meeting some of on-line.
Kisses,
Aussie_Lady
Welcome to the forum. Always great to have another keyholder on board. I certainly wish my spouse was interested enough to seek out advice and join in on some MC keyholder discussions. We are in a loose FLM also, but I have been unable to convince her of the potential benefits that using a chastity device could bring to our relationship. She views it as more of a game she participates in for my benefit and really doesn't see anything for herself in it, although she has admitted she loves how I dote on her and am more attentive after I've been locked for awhile. She's now on a kick where she wants me to remain chaste without a device and wants me to limit my full O's to one per month.
After a lifetime of domestic bliss (well most of the time!) 'her indoors' and me are taking first steps to add a little spice to life. Completely new to this world, let's see where it leads!
Hi all
Self locker here in a cb6000s since 6 October when I split from my wife, she was fed up with my selfish behaviour. So gots lots of time to be selfish now but its not the same. No plans to unlock anytime soon. Anyway look forward to chatting when I've been approved (I Hope)
I have had a fascination with the idea of chastity for many years but kept it to myself.
I met my wife seven years ago and came across a few old photos of her dressed as a domme! She still does not know I have seen them!
It turns out she used to visit rubber clubs with a friend for fun but only for somewhere different to go! I asked her how did she dress and she said only as a domme as she thought that way she would get less grief!
This of course raised my fantasy of chastity but I could not bring myself to mention it like so many of us!
I even bought a few devices from ebay and whenever she was not around I would pop it on and dream of her holding the key!
Fast forward to last weekend!
My Father in law died recently and she was of course very upset and low. We have gained lots of memorabilia and she was trying to find space to keep it all! I thought nothing of it when she said I need to clear out our ottoman! Apart from bedding we keep our limited sex toys in it but I had forgotten that I had hidden my device in their some months back!
About half an hour later she came into the kitchen and said she had found a metal willy cage?
I said I had bought it with the hope that she might play with me! She was a little annoyed that I had not been open with her and I said I was too shy to mention it.
Too cut a long story short that night I put it on and gave her the keys! We made love and she enjoyed it! Last night we did the same but she did say she felt sorry for my cock and that she still wants intercourse! That is fine with me but I still cannot believe she was so understanding! I have told her that I would love to wear one all the time for her and she was fine! The only issue now is that I have to find a better quality one and it must be discreet!
Thank you for reading this and I hope it is of use.
Welcome to you guys and wishingandhoping it sounds like things went pretty well! Chastity can be so much fun for us ladies and the bonus is that we get to use it anyway we like! If she is interested but still wants to have intercourse, SHE CAN! That's the great part... this whole fun exciting lifestyle can be just that, a lifestyle but also can just be an amazingly fun bedroom game! It really does enhance the sexual stuff between partners!
Good luck to you and look forward to hearing more from you all.
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Hi and thank you for such a positive and informing reply.
Well so far so good and I just wish I had been upfront sooner! She actually said she thought it was very sweet and that it means I must be devoted to her! Last night I kept it on and I 'played' with her to her satisfaction and she we cuddled and we fell asleep! Whenever that happened before she would get upset that I was not satisfied but she just fell asleep which for me was perfect!
I have mentioned that I would like to wear one everyday and she was fine but was only concerned that I might be causing harm to myself. I think now is the time to show her some of the better quality models.
Will keep you posted and may even show her this forum!
Hello all, I have had a few chastity devises in the past and have had limited luck. My wife and I are in the process of buying yet another device and had a specific picture request. But that may happen a little later.
Anyway. I hope to keep an active membership on this board we well.
Hi, I'm Jeff. I've had an interest in chastity for quite some time. I have been able to "lock" myself for no longer than a day.
Well, I finally plunged into the deep end and have registered with http://www.carlilock.com and created a session. Obviously quite a few people know about this site and I was wondering if someone would be able to help me get my requirements done.
I am happy to finally be a member of this forum. I've been following Tom Allen and thumper's blogs for years, and have been in chastity by direction of my wife on and off for almost eight years.
I have been intrigued with male chastity since I was just entering adulthood. I read in an adult stories mag about a guy whose wife locked him in a device and controlled him from there. Needless to say, I was hooked. In the ensuing years, I started to make my own devices out of PVC. Finally, after being married for a few years, I confided in my wife of my desires to submit to her and taught her about male chastity devices. She loved the idea. We bought a CB3000 device with a ksd-g2 anti-pullout insert.
We still have the same model and I have been placed in chastity a lot more in the past year. Even though I have had phases where I'm locked and phases where we have had no chastity play, it is becoming more and more of a permanent thing nowadays. I'm getting interested in the metal devices and will probably end up purchasing something that is more hygienic for long term wear.
Anyway, thanks for having me. Glad to be part of the group.
