[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

[Keeping Him]

TG- careful, you might be walking on the edge of topping from the bottom. She just told you how much she likes where you are. YOU are the one struggling with rebound. She is happy. You are trying to fix your problem with YOUR struggle. It has a whif of “you would be a better KH, and I would feel more satisfied if you set me some goals”.
Rather than suggesting she set goals (which are hers alone to set and can be changed at any time) maybe you can just simply communicate your experience. Not try and herd her into goal setting to ease your struggle.
I would bristle at the suggestion. If I had an ouchie stick I might even be tempted to use it.

[Tongue+groove]

@keeping him

Thank you for the input. I’m sure my judgement was clouded, possibly due to the return of the void. She did scold me at lunch today due to a poor choice of words on my part. She has indicated that i am about due for some reflection time with her form of an ouchie stick.

Slim piece of walnut about 4 inches by 16 with appropriate aerodynamic contours and a comfortable handle.

Thanks again.

[Tongue+groove]

Did errands today as she has still not returned to work due to weather. Had a wonderful day together. I took her to a favored restaurant. While eating I commented that I had fulfilled all my holiday obligations. With a stern look she said “I’m not an obligation “.

Oh shit! Did I really say it like that? Quick back peddling and I reframed the statement as…. I can’t remember but she was happy.

If she ever comes on board here I’m totally screwed.

She’s the type to organize a kh girls night out and do nothing but create havoc for those of us wearing hardware.

[Tongue+groove]

Sat down to a game of scrabble and leftovers for the evening. I had chicken tenders and gravy while she had a grilled polish sausage. She kept putting on a show about how difficult it was to get the sausage in her mouth.

Afterwards she asked for ice cream. The usual. Four scoops in the shape of a dick and balls. Then she says,
Two dicks in one night and you weren’t one of them.

She probably pissed about losing at scrabble again.

[Tongue+groove]

Woke up horny and frustrated. Was grinding on my knee pillow when I woke up. Problem is I currently don’t have a penis to grind with. The reality of the stubby nub is that all I now have is balls. Even morning wood has been drastically reduced.

Since it appears this is staying on for awhile I took the plunge and ordered a metal one with a pee tube. Hopefully it will be as comfortable as so many on here talk about. Also hoping she will allow me to return to metal.

She’s always been very cooperative with my comfort. Probably the reason she won’t shop and select for me.

[Mr Pickle]

I took the plunge and ordered a metal one with a pee tube. .

Which one? And if you can add anything to the thread transition to uretheral that would help.

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Many thanks.

[Tongue+groove]

@Mr.P

Which one? And if you can add anything to the thread transition to uretheral that would help.

FWIW I’ve been studying your posts on the matter since I’ve been here. I considered many options for quite some time. I almost got one from Ternence the tube had a ball on it that added a bit of inversion to it. It appeared attractive but I felt that it was a bit aggressive at the moment. Also I have one of their other products and I struggle with their split rings and the tubing seems to burn me. Much like the printed plastic ones will do. Therefore I went aftermarket to see if it would even be suitable for me.

If I’m correct you suggested steering clear of the flexible tubing. I used to have a penis plug that used flex tubing. I didn’t encounter problems but I also didn’t wear it long term either.

Another concern of mine that you may have insight to is the tube size. When I was dabbling with sounding I used a 10 mm sound. The largest tubes I see are 8 mm. I’m not sure if I will have to deal with leakage or not.

Should this test prove this to be a positive move and if Mrs. G approves then I’m sure I will eventually be making one final high quality purchase. If not then I’ll be fine with my normal nub or whatever she prefers will be just fine also.

[Mr Pickle]

The longer Ternance tube flares to 10mm at it's base but i think you might need more.
Shame there isn't a better selection with larger bores.
The flexi tube issue is the joints between tube and steel bits.
I didn't persue them. Again the bores too small.

[waki86]

I also have a urethral tube.
I also used the flexible one first.
Provided you make it the right lengte you can use it.
I soon noticed that it was still leaking, especially when I really had to.
And there is too much pressure on it.
I then bought the qhlust chasity cage on Amazon.
This included three different sizes of urethral tubes of 8,10,12 mm.
I tapped the threads with a tap set so that they fit on the cages. The 12mm works perfectly for me.
No leaks and no discomfort at all.
It is more hygienic than without and also much nicer.
You can just pee without having to clean your balls.

In the beginning you may experience a bit of a burning sensation, but that will pass quickly.
The penis quickly gets used to it.
Make sure when you insert it that it is hygienically clean.
You can do this by first boiling it out so that all bacteria are killed.

[Tongue+groove]

@ Waki86.

Thanks for the input. I’ll definitely check into it. And yes i agree boiling followed by an alcohol bath is best. This is what I did when sounding.

For me sounding is the ultimate prostate orgasm. I’ve even had multiple pissing orgasms like this. But it’s off the table at the moment since she’s in charge.

Thanks again.