arcuriouscpl2 wrote:Hello World. My husband joined this site quite a while back. He convinced me to try chastity but I didn't enjoy it. I thought I would come here now without his knowledge, just to see what the site is really up to. I remember him saying there was a "women-only" section and thought maybe I could get more information there to help me make informed decisions regarding chastity, what he wants, and what i want.
Well, that could throw him for a loop. There is certainly plenty of information here, and getting it on your own is one way of taking 'control' of the situation. I don't know how your husband might feel about it, but I would find it exciting and erotic if Mrs. Twisted were to take such initiative. I applaud you, your husband is fortunate that you care enough to investigate further, in spite of not 'enjoying' it the first time around. It would surprise me if you didn't find something that you enjoy about it, and some ways to make it work for *you* [as well as for him].
Welcome, ladies.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
Thanks so much for the welcome... and I had no idea us KH's had a special area for us... what a huge bonus!
~Lady
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I've just joined, I'm in the UK, currently in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend / mistress due to university.
I get to see her about once a month and I tend to alternate between using a device and using the honour system between visits. Currently at the end of a week of the honour system!
hi there,
I'm a 20 something sub in a long term relationship with my fiance and Domme. She controls when I'm allowed to orgasm. I wear a (fake) cb6000s in daily life, but I'm looking around for another device since I'm able to orgasm in this cage, which kind of defies the purpose for me.
Hello everyone. I am a 45 yr old m with a long standing chastity fetish. A year or so ago , I finally talked to my wife about it. She was vaguely receptive of the idea , but definitely not excited by it. I have tried to help her understand it as best I knew how. I still do not get locked up nearly as frequently as I would wish , but we are progressing , slowly but surely.
I have lurked around the forum for awhile now , but finally felt that it was time to participate. Thank you for this avenue , and I hope to learn more as I go. wannabe locked
I'm a bit of an aberration in the chastity world it seems--I'm transgendered (born female, but live as male) and super into locking up men and hanging on to the key. Chastity has been one of my longest standing interests and one of my primary sexual 'things'. I'm unreptenantly kinky but chastity and associated stuff doesn't fall under the kink umbrella for me so much as it just exists as part of how I prefer to conduct my relationships.
I'm in my 30s, live in Massachusetts, and am single and unattached. I haven't had someone locked up under my care for awhile now, but I'm not opposed to the idea at all.
I am the Key Holder for my husband, a wonderful man. We have been together for almost 30 years, of which he has been in enforced chastity (on and off) for about 8 years. It is now 24/7. We are in a major city in Australia. Other than his enforced chastity and spankings, we are not into anything to real kinky. We don't swing. But we are absolutely in a female-led marriage. He gets anywhere from one to three orgasms per month, if and when I feel like. It keeps him randy and on his toes.
I have been involved in a couple of discussion groups before, but they tended yo be more hardcore BDSM or sissy sites. We like some mild BDSM, but my man is no sissy.
I look forward meeting some of on-line.
Kisses,
Aussie_Lady
There is certainly plenty of information here, and getting it on your own is one way of taking 'control' of the situation. I don't know how your husband might feel about it, but I would find it exciting and erotic if Mrs. Twisted were to take such initiative. I applaud you, your husband is fortunate that you care enough to investigate further, in spite of not 'enjoying' it the first time around. It would surprise me if you didn't find something that you enjoy about it, and some ways to make it work for *you* [as well as for him].
