"Hello world" thread

[LostMyKey]

Hi, there. I'm currently trying to learn as much as I can about life in chastity before I buy my first device. My man and I are into D/S roleplay, and since I'll be away from him for long periods of time starting next month, I think it would really make things interesting to be locked up at his command

[Locked by LRC]

Welcome all new members.

Hi, I am an old member from a couple of years ago with a new user name. I'm glad the spam is under control!

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[wannapleaser]

I've Been interested in male chastity for about 5 or 6 years. bought a cb3000 about 5 years ago and presented myself to the woman I belong to the wrong way. I just took off my clothes in front of her. We agreed to not do that and she threw it out. It hurt me anyway. about 1 year or 2 later I bought a cb6000 and wore that for a while, and introduces her to this in a little more suttle maner. I kept that for a year or so and threw it out cause it was causing too much irratation from the ring and on my penis. I experimented with some chinese knock offs and decided steel was the way to go, but the hinges caused pinching. I now have a jailbird I got from mature metal. It is stainless steel, and I used their advice and did all the correct sizing process in their site. I am very pleased. The longest I have gone is 59 days. at this point she clearly sees the positive difference in me when I am kept chase. and is accepting it more all the time. I still put it on and take it off in the bath, or bed room where she does not watch. occasionally she sees me nude with it on but not long, usually just to show her it is on. I do at times, with her knowing, wear it when we go out, but usually I only wear it when she is not with me, during the week,since we are only together on the weekends. this past week before she left, after some discussion earlier in the day, I put it on and gave her the key to hide in my garage with the agreement that if something came up that would require me to not be wearing it, (i.e.doing something that would require me going through a metal detector) I could call her and she could tell me where it is.
Originally she was against it but I just did it on my own and allowed her to observe the obvious changes that come about to a man that is chasened. She has told me lately that nobody has ever treated her so good in her life. That is a substancial movement in the direction I hoped for.
during this past year, I have utilized hypnosis aimed at making me a better submissive husband. That has worked wonderfully. search words I used were : submissive husband hypnosis training, and added femdom, and FLR (female led relationships) to that search term. for us That was key to the progress we have experienced.

[locked4her55]

Welcome alicante1982, Joe 90, LostMyKey, wannapleaser, and welcome back Cravingdenial. We are always looking for new and interesting perspectives. Soak-up knowledge from the seasoned and share your insight with us all.

[NewlyPierced]

Here's my mandatory "hello world" post. I've recently gotten a PA piercing, and mostly registered due to seeing info on a new device, and curiosity about it. I also have experience with 3D printing, so found the concept interesting, at the least.

[wannapleaser]

Did it hurt allot ? did you bleed alot? how long did it bleed? how long did it hurt? How long till it can be used for chastity purposes? who did it?

[rebelsubhub]

Hi,

i am in the Southern US. I am not entirely sure I want to be chaste, but I have been reading a lot on this and other forums for the past several years and my wife and I have sort of role-played it. We text a lot to each other to set up playtime scenarios. We have chatted about it before and teased about it, but never moved to a belt. I am not a very satisfactory lover to her for reasons of size and stamina, so i do a lot with my mouth and toys on her already. So her giving up sex with me for any period of time isnt a huge loss for her. It is for me, however! We chat teasingly about her taking other lovers, but we do not wish to actually do that in real time. That is fantasy only.

I am hoping to read more and ask some questions to see if chastity short or long term is something we should try out.

-Rebelsubhub

[NewlyPierced]

There's a lot of information out there on PA piercings (just google it). As for use in chastity, that's months out, realistically, if not more. As to blood, minimal. Within 12 hours, bleeding was entirely gone. As to who, I'm self-pierced (I used the "proper" receiving tube method). I don't recommend self-piercing, but if you're going to do it, read up! It's quite possible to make mistakes!

[lincolncaptive]

Hello to all from Lincolncaptive. I have been locked in my cb3000 for just over 3 weeks with only 10 minutes to clean and lube every 48 hours. Right now Ms Sharon, my keyholder and wife of 34 years, is out of town until Sunday. She has hidden Her key somewhere in the house and will reveal if I ask in order to clean. I am considering seriously trying to go the full 5 days without removal, using careful showering and lubrication. I am totally caught up with the comforting feeling being caged and even find the inevitable spoiled erections at night a bit of a turn on. Our love making is fantastic but I have found I need to be careful because my amount of precum is greater than ever and can be rather messy. The euphoric feeling after successfully servicing my Wife is wonderful. My biggest regret is not having the courage to reveal my chastity desires sooner.
Tomorrow I will be picking up my order at the PO for a cb6000s. I'm wondering what the 1/2 inch shorter tube will be like compared to the 3000's 3 inch. If all continues as positively as it has, I hope to justify an MM Jailbird eventually.

[hotmetalman]

I am a married man in his fifties. I have fantasized about chastity devices and tease and denial for as long as I can remember. My wife of 8 years knows of these fantasies and has been accepting of them, but we have never really lived them out other than the occasional lovemaking sessions where she teases me and leaves me wanting. I love it when she does that, but I have always dreamed a something more, something close to 24/7 teasing.

I have tried to get Lynn interested in chastity play. She has not objected in principle, but the first couple of devices I got did not impress her and also were not comfortable for me. A couple of months ago I bought a cage from mature metal. I have experimented with wearing it for a couple of days on weekends, but I was in control of the key. That was sort of fun, but knowing that I could unlock at any time took the thrill out of it. It did establish, though, that I could probably wear this for extended periods of time.

Something exciting happened tonight. We were about to fool around, but her son came home unexpectedly. Lynn said something to the effect that we would just have to wait. I made I wisecrack to the effect that if she didn't want me jerking off, she should lock me up. Well, next thing you know I have the cage on and am handing her the key! She told me that if I am lucky, maybe we can fool around on Sunday morning and then left the room with the key.

I am thrilled (and a little scared) at this turn of events. She is acting like nothing happened, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that she is in control of my cock!

I wanted to share this with people that would understand, so here I am. I also figure that if this is not a one time thing - I really hope it is not - that I will need some advice making this work in the long run.

Stephen