"Hello world" thread

[Tom Allen]

I think she is really embrassing the idea of both her being Domme and her control over my orgasms so minus maybe her letting me be on "TOP" for a night or weekend once in a while, it may be a looong time, if ever, before we switch back. Who knows. What I do know is that as of now i'm really enjoying our current Dynamic.

I'm always fascinated by the alternatives to what we think of as traditional ways to have control. Sounds like you're enjoying this.

[Celtic Queen]

I think the switch dynamic is more common than perhaps people think. I did a blog post on this ages ago about how entry level BDSM and the usual perception is MaleDom/FemSub because culturally, we are a bit more comfortable with the Male in charge model - hence the fact that male subs feel like they get such a bad press. My view - and this is just a view - is that as women start to mature in outlook, confidence and sexuality, taking control becomes more straightforward once they understand that actually, other people's view is less relevant to them. The assurance and self assertion that it takes to be a Domme is definately helped by being that little bit older. Perhaps the same applies as traditional blokey types mellow and stop fighting their true nature.

[Tom Allen]

CQ, I was going a bit beyond that when I responded. There used to be a Yahoo group called "Doms in chastity". It was for - naturally - dom men who enjoyed being locked up.

It had, IIRC, 12 members.

I have seen a few relationships (online) in which the sub controlled the key, while the dom controlled everything else. I can imagine some interesting times if the sub were a masochist.

[greengrass]

Hello World indeed.

I’ve been lurking here for months, just reading, finding out what you are all about.

My wife and I have been playing the chastity game for a few years. It is a game for us, if we get bored, we stop.

About a week ago, my KH wife left the little padlock on my pillow, the unsaid instruction to lock up. It came out of the blue, especially since the last time she did that was in 2008. Other problems, usually referred to as “life” normally get in the way, I won’t bore you with the details now. Anyway, I’ve been locked up since then so thought it would be a good time to stick my head above the parapet and say hi.

Just to prove to you lot that I am who I say I am, I can remember Tom Allen (Good day to you Sir) from a Yahoo Group that I used to be a member of a few years back for CB3000 users, run by someone who went by the name of Lady Jester. I got bored with it after a while and quietly left.

Incidentally, a couple of days ago I noticed that Tickleberry, the UK company that originally introduced me to chastity devices has ceased trading. A shame as they always struck me as a genuine caring company.

Not sure how many times I will post on this forum, I tend to lie low until the coast is clear. Until then, I wish you all well.

greengrass
(don't ask me why I go by that name, it's what came into my head when I was trying to think a name to go by.)

[Atone]

I’ve been lurking here for months, just reading, finding out what you are all about.

Welcome to the forum.

I'm glad you decided to delurk, even if just for an introduction. I hope you decide to participate in the discussions, I enjoy hearing about everyones experiences.

That is pretty cool that she pulled that out of the blue. Is 2008 the last time you were locked up or just the last time she initiated it?

I love it when my wife tells me to lock up. It doesn't happen too often as she doesn't unlock me too often.

-A

[Tom Allen]

Hey Greengrass!

As it happens, I'm a moderator here, and on a few new chastity related groups on Reddit.com. I'm still blogging, and once in a great while I participate on the Yahoo group, but unfortunately it hasn't been too active lately. Actually, I unsubscribed to most of the yahoo groups not long ago because of the overwhelming amount of sheer idiocy I kept running into.

I just checked the Tickleberry site - yup, they're closed. I wonder what happened? They had the hottest chastity pictorials. Lady Jester, BTW, is (was) one of the Tickleberry owners. Nice woman, I hope she goes on to better things.

Also, the weather indicates that it will be fair for quite some time, even on the coast - so there's no reason for you to lie low.

[mickster]

Hello to everybody

I am 48 year old single male.I am new to chastity and denial but have been interested in it for a while.I have a very close female friend who is wonderful.It is a platonic friendship but we do talk about everything.I wanted to lose a bit of weight and asked her to help me.She would give me an amount to lose and until I lost that weight I couldnt have an orgasm.She agreed to this (told you she is wonderful) and I did lose weight.
Anyway,like I said I have lost the weight I needed too, but I still wanted her to decide when I could orgasm (I am single so basicly she decides when I can mastubate)She agreed and has set me a target of 3 weeks for starters.(by the way she thinks am crackers but she does enjoy having this power over me and she knows it makes me happy)I cheekly asked her if I got a chastity device then would she hold the key and she said YES...omg and so excited about it.Also she is sexually active with someone,I think its a bit of an open relationship, but the reason I mention this is I find it even more exciting that a Woman who is a wonderful friend to me,but who I have never slept with and not even going out with and who has an active sex life is going to be my keyholder.Hope this all make sense .

[greengrass]

That is pretty cool that she pulled that out of the blue. Is 2008 the last time you were locked up or just the last time she initiated it?

A couple of times I have secretly locked up when alone for the day, mainly to check I'm still OK about wearing the CB.

In fact I've just remembered my wife didn't initiate the lock up back in 2008, it was me that did that, and there's a story to be told, but I won't clog up this "Hello World" thread, I will start a new one when I get a moment.

mickster, I like your story, I hope your friend's partner is as understanding if/when he finds out about your little arrangement. I also have a story related to weight loss which will have to be told at some point.

greengrass

[WendyWicke]

CQ, I was going a bit beyond that when I responded. There used to be a Yahoo group called "Doms in chastity". It was for - naturally - dom men who enjoyed being locked up.

It had, IIRC, 12 members.

I have seen a few relationships (online) in which the sub controlled the key, while the dom controlled everything else. I can imagine some interesting times if the sub were a masochist.

One of the most intense sexual experiences I've ever had was a week where I was Jake's slave, but he was locked up and not allowed to 'demand' the key from his slave.

Imagine being tied open on a bed while a 6'5", 250lb sexually frustrated man wearing a 10 in strapon dildo and a chastity cage attempts to get some satisfaction.

We both ended up getting colds and cutting the week short, which was a good thing because I'm not sure I would've been able to walk by the end of it.

[prof63]

Hi all
My first post here but long time reader of Thumper and Tom's sites and using chastity as part of marriage since about 2006. I have tried a number of different cages over the years, perhaps I should set up a museum! Anyway a couple of the early devices I tried were from Tickleberry so I was surprised to see they were closed, it's quite a professional site and they always provided good service so certainly a bit of a shock!