[KHEmmi] Emmie's version

[Rufusstone]

Now you’re back and I can post on this thread again, I’ll finish off my suggestions from a few weeks ago. Especially this first one as the opportunity is up and coming. Ahem…
The ability to cum in his cage can be a useful motivator but he shouldn’t be encouraged to learn any “solo” techniques. Only this particular technique should be used as it can be romantic and frustrating simultaneously.
Since September is assumed by Herbi that he will be temporarily released and the new cage maybe put on, then he should have an extra hoop to jump through first i.e. before the current cage comes off, he needs to have learnt to cum whilst still in it.
He should get one chance per day until it’s achieved. He might achieve it first day or the seventh, who knows?
The technique can be performed either lying down face to face which is physically less tiring or with Herbi on top (as in missionary position). This is even more arousing but frustrating.
Let’s assume lying down first - the KH gently cups his balls with both hands, encircling the base of his penis with her thumbs but using her palms to hold the cage steady. Herbi then has to essentially “dry hump” the cage whilst his balls are caressed by her fingers. Harder to describe than do although some individual variation is required as to whatever works best. Particularly regarding the amount of pressure etc. Some slight lubrication may be required as there needs to be a little movement, a small amount of friction within the cage. That’s all the pleasure he gets.
The missionary position is even more frustrating- just like intercourse with his beloved but only humps the cage. If she likes, she can hold it against her labia which she may find pleasurable.
Just like edging but without uncaging.
I recommend he achieves it before he gets released.

[chaste-pegged-switch]

Wonder if a text message might be welcome to give him something else to think about.

I always appreciated a text or even a photo from my girl to give me something else to think about!

[chaste-pegged-switch]

The missionary position is even more frustrating- just like intercourse with his beloved but only humps the cage. If she likes, she can hold it against her labia which she may find pleasurable.

I have been able to achieve an orgasm this way once before. The only difference was to press my ball down to her labia and my cage up towards her belly. The separation and dry humping pressure was quite frustrating and took quite some time to achieve. But it was tremendous when it did happen, both mentally and physically. And she really seemed to enjoy it too.

Good luck!!

[slave d]

Would have to say (just being a contrary Mary (Janet ?) I guess) that I’m not a fan of anything that allows for an actual orgasm. That to me is the point where the male psyche throws a fit and takes days if not weeks to return its fully aroused “attentive and obedient” self. My personal feeling (and yes it is just that, mine) is that teasing and denial is fine as it increases the desire to be a “good boy” looking for more and that “proper” milking which empties out the system without any orgasm response provides the most frustrating and submissive manner of maintaining the “system” if it is thought necessary. I can’t see any benefit to the KH of the “locked one” having an orgasm beyond teaching them that it really isn’t worth getting worked up for over weeks or months and giving that feeling of “I’m better off orgasm free and continually aroused pleasing my Mistress and KH.

As ever just my 2c worth

MsM’s ld

[Rufusstone]

I understand what you mean slave d and I’m not saying it should be a regular occurrence but within the repertoire of the KH.
In this particular case, if she is going to let him out anyway in September, why not make it that little bit more difficult and potentially delayed for him?
Plus she may enjoy his efforts trying to cum. So she gets the benefit of that too. I get the impression she would.

[slave d]

Fair call I understand completely.

MsM’s ld

[KHEmmi]

Wow, I've got some catching up to do.
I can see both sides of this argument.
On the one hand I think everything is worth at least one try.
I get slave d's point though especially if it takes days or weeks to get back to fully aroused, attentive and obedient. Who wants to wait that long?!
Isn't it the same however he gets his orgasm though? Caged or not? PIV or otherwise?

The deal was that Herbi remains locked for the whole of August so he'll get to come once in September.
A little while to go yet. I haven't decided when in September...

Thanks for your inputs everyone

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[Mr Pickle]

Isn't it the same however he gets his orgasm though? Caged or not? PIV or otherwise?

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Lord No Lady Emm :O

There are orgasms, and a whole list of cuming but Not orgasms. eg caged cuming, milking, edging out, prostate play, phycology stuff, you csn let some out if you agree to..
Then there's degrading orgasms, premature ejeculation (yeah C thinks these are hilarious).

C prefers to ease some out or relieve preasure. Prostate health reasons.
Argue all you want. Its C. You wont win. She isnt willing to take chances.
So my "man system" gets a turn over without the pleasure of the orgasm. C has found no end of ways to do this.

Treat it as a game, play with it. Decide which you like. The fun is in the learning.

Actual orgasms like piv or sucked off? I've had 8 this year.

A single orgasm rarley causes a down or refractory period (Too many hormones for one Mr blobby to deal with).

[Tongue+groove]

The orgasm vs. cumming debate seems to have as many opinions as there are relationships. I will agree with Mr. Pickle that when you’re loaded up on hormones a single orgasm can almost make horniness even worse. Yup another opinion about the matter. What’s important is that you experiment and find what combo works best for you all.

Just a thought, through our journey Mrs. Groove has learned how to recognize my hormone overloads. While keeping me caged, she will focus on my other erogenous zones and can bring me to a full body shaking orgasm. She gives no attention to Mr. Wanky and he seldom forces the cage or drools through the process. I’ve even had multiples like this. In the end I’m much calmer and yet hornier and more energetic.

I find these events to be more about connecting with each other and less about sex. Just another opinion.

[KHEmmi]

Ooo, I've got so much to learn and experiment with! Thanks for all your inputs. I will be giving them all thought.
Probably too caught up on "number of days" and charts and averages really and I ought to get more... what word can I use? Playful?

Playful this evening as Vikki is coming round to return the key and have dinner with us.
Hope Herbi enjoys his evening. He knows what Vikki can be like now after all her messages to him while I was away, hehehe.
I am sure she will be playful tonight too.