My name is Brian and I've been into chastity mildly for about a year and recently have gotten a lot more serious. My Mistress Amanda currently has me slowly working up to one year by extending each chastity session by one month, with one month breaks in between (two month breaks after periods of six months or more).
I'm excited to be here and learn more about the lifestyle, the devices and everyone's experiences.
Hello everyone. I just registered for the forum and it looks like a wonderful place to find information and share thoughts with others who are farther along this road than I.
My lovely wife of 38 years, Maureen, convinced me to accept being locked in a chastity device on January 5th of this year. It has been an interesting four and a half months. Maureen seems very keen on this whole chastity thing and I believe she had been giving it a great deal of thought for quite some time before we began this journey. She seems to know just where she wants to go with this and seems to be enjoying herself quite a lot.
For myself, while I'm not complaining, it is somewhat intimidating to have something one had previously taken very much for granted completely controlled by someone else and rationed out sparingly and totally at her whim. I've been able to discern no particular pattern as to when she permits me release and I find that a bit disconcerting. I had certainly never kept track of my orgasms in the past, but I am now. It seems that the orgasms she has permitted were front end loaded to get me used to my situation when first locked up. Now the waits are longer and more difficult.
I'd be curious how others deal with this difficulty. Maybe that sounds silly. There is no way to deal with the physical aspect. It's locked up and she has the key. But do others have strategies they have used that are effective for dealing with the frustration?
I love my wife dearly and I agreed to this. She wants it and I have no intention of reneging on my agreement to be kept under lock and key. But it was all theoretical when we were discussing it. Dealing with the reality is proving to be more difficult than I expected.
Perhaps this forum will be source of support to help me along the way. I'm happy to have found you and look forward to learning from others.
New to being locked me and my wife have been married for 11 great years after much thought and research it was my choice for her to lock me in a cb6000 I am still growing getting use to it but am looking forward to a long run I hope to be able to make it months maybe years in my cb6ooo. thanks for a great forum dean
Hello. I am my boyfriend's key holder... When he has his device, that is. It is currently being modified. I must say that in the months he has had his jailbird (I think that's the model), even though we are not having sex as much as we used to, he is much more affectionate and intimate.
Loving this and can definitely see this as a long term way of life, not just a passing kink.
My name is Jonathan and for the last 4 months I have been in a long distance relationship with a beautiful and dominating transwoman. I agreed to wear a chastity device for her but I'm having trouble finding one that will stay on because I'm very small when soft. So, if anyone has a suggestion, please let me know.
jonathan8739 wrote:My name is Jonathan and for the last 4 months I have been in a long distance relationship with a beautiful and dominating transwoman. I agreed to wear a chastity device for her but I'm having trouble finding one that will stay on because I'm very small when soft. So, if anyone has a suggestion, please let me know.
Maybe I am overlooking the obvious here, but how about a small one?
I think it is cool that you are in a relationship with a beautiful and dominating transwoman. Too bad it is long distance, sounds like fun.
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hello everyone
i'm an italian slave and i'm approached now to chastity by my mistress
i'm still looking for the device which best fits me, as soon as it will happen i will be placed in chastity by mistress
hope to get nice and useful advise here on how to deal with the deprivation of erection and the chastity in general
