You didn’t really take me out of context, because it does feel to some extent like if I don’t want to “play the right way” or “discuss it the right way”, then I am looking for attention, arguments and some kind of support for “my disinterest” and should go away. I can handle being disagreed with, that’s not what bugged me about some of the contributions that really didn't appear to be meant to add to the depth discussion but more seemed to make the point the topic should be dropped for whatever reason deemed by that poster at the time.
Still boggled by how it could be missed that my initial disinterest wasn’t so much disinterest, it was absolute *banging my head on the proverbial wall* frustration and over the last week or so has turned to “okay how do I make this work for me” thinking. And I will admit I do get a bit peeved with the
“I didn’t bother to read what has been said here by everyone, it isn’t worth my time, but I am going to give you my opinion anyway” that happens often on forums (
It’s not just here, it is a rampant discourteous practice net wide.) If you can’t be bothered to read what everyone has said in the thread, why should you consider what you have to say is important enough or pertinent enough to add?
Yes, that exasperates me, LOL.
in fact I am very pleased that you are making such insightful contributions to this forum.
Thank you, I appreciate that, but I’d be in a world of hurt for making any kind of contribution if it hadn’t been for the members who have engaged in the conversation with their own “respectful to my circumstances” type input and wanted to have and be an active part of the discussion.
It really was a lot of the first part of the postings here that got my husband to step back and rethink how he was going about trying to get me on board with an idea that, in the way he wanted it, wasn’t going to work for me.
Should it have taken a forum full of strangers to do that? No, but I live in the real world and know things in life don’t always work the way they are supposed to.
Kind of like it took one of his guy pals who was here today to get me to give up the idea of putting in a hot tub where I wanted it. I thought bad dog was shining me on because he didn’t want to do the work that would be needed to be done to do it the way I wanted, once his friend who is a plumber explained what I was asking for
was doable but at a cost that was so exorbitant we’d never recoup the cost when we sold the place, I swallowed my pride and told bad dog he wasn’t such a bad dog after all and the thing I had to choke down was his friend told me the very same thing bad dog told me about why it we shouldn’t do it.
~Sigh~ but-but-but what I had in mind would have been so cool!
On another note and more on theme of the devices and why guys choose the ones they do, I saw him do the “cup grab” earlier and asked him why he was doing it. He said to get the hard-on to ease up a bit and adjust the way the spikes were poking the head, so he could walk without feeling like he had a scorpion stuck to the tip of his penis.
He said after a few days in a row of wearing the one with the “spikes” the tip is pretty dang sensitive which made me laugh evil and head for toy box and get a couple of things out for later this evening, because I know just what to use in the case of “over stimulated head” to make him beg (scream) for mercy, so at the very least the thing will enhance what I do to/with him. This one he can keep using per the rules, with my “inner sadist’s” blessing.
; he didn’t pay the much for it.
