Just here to let you know I'm for real. Been married 13 years, I've introduced my wife to the idea of male chastity (MC) about a year ago. I never thought it would take that long for 1) me to get used to my Lori 12d and 2) my wife to stop getting manipulated by me into letting me out whenever I wanted. I'm on week 5 with no relief, a personal best for me. With spring approaching, I just might go insane with all women wearing less clothes.
One good thing about MC is I've been exercising a lot more and at 45 I'm the strongest I've ever been and in the best shape of my life.
hello world lol i'm bill 30/ from nyc my wife and i have been exploring this lifestyle and the cuckolding lifestyle for almost a year...i have to say its been a ride to say the least she picks how long i'm in how long i stay out on release dates and if and when its an emergency release... that one involes no Ojust take it off simply for a metal detector and didn't have a security lock... well talk to everyone soon
LanceMurphy wrote: I never thought it would take that long for 1) me to get used to my Lori 12d and ...
Welcome to the forum. How do you like the 12d? Do you have the shield? The 12d with the shield is definitely on my "want" list. She doesn't show it with the shield on her website anymore but I asked a (long) while back and she said she would still make one.
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LanceMurphy wrote: I never thought it would take that long for 1) me to get used to my Lori 12d and ...
Welcome to the forum. How do you like the 12d? Do you have the shield? The 12d with the shield is definitely on my "want" list. She doesn't show it with the shield on her website anymore but I asked a (long) while back and she said she would still make one.
The 12d with a shield used to be called the 12e. I initially wanted that one but I knew it would be much harder to keep myself clean with the 12e. I absolutely love, love, love my 12d for that reason and for the fact that it won't pull on my balls when trying to get erect. Mind you it still is uncomfortable in that state but not unbearable. I had to completely grind down the spikes completely with a Dremel to eliminate the possibility of the sores I was getting from becoming infected. The 12d is not completely foolproof in preventing masterbation, but I don't think anything could be. But it is damn effective at keeping my attention on my beautiful island flower (wife).
Another adjustment that I had Lori make was to increase the angle between the penis ring and the larger testical ring. The pictures on her website make it look like that angle is 90 degrees. It came to me at about 70 degrees. At 7.5" erect, my penis was double bent into an S shape with a lot of stress placed on the top of the penis just behind the head when getting erect. With the angle increased its more of a U shape under the balls.
Still, with all the issues, it's the right device for me.
Just popping in to this thread to say hello. My DH started posting here recently. We are very new to the MC game. DH asked one day if he could order 'something'. I am used to him always wanting to buy sex toys so I didn't think much about it. His package arrived and off he went with it. A while later he came in and showed me this contraption. He really threw me for a loop. I certainly didn't it at first. I have slowly warmed to it all.
Hello everyone!
Glad to have finally become a member here.....I've been reading some posts over the past few years and am looking forward to entering the world of real-time chastity now with my wife who has expressed a keen interest in locking me up.
I've toyed with the idea for many years now and have gone so far as to purchase a few different devices over time but they never seem to either fit properly or remain unobtrusive without showing through clothing. Neither of which worls well for me.
I'm looking forward to getting ideas from all of you and perhaps even get rid of the two remaining items I have left.
We've come to the conclusion that perhaps the most effective means for securing a device/tube might be to go ahead and get myself a PA piercing....a question I am going to post somewhere in the proper place here...
anyway......looking forward to hearing lots of input!
LanceMurphy wrote:
The 12d with a shield used to be called the 12e.
right, I forgot, it has been a while. I am used to the steelheart so I am not too worried about keeping clean.
LanceMurphy wrote:
Another adjustment that I had Lori make was to increase the angle between the penis ring and the larger testical ring. The pictures on her website make it look like that angle is 90 degrees. It came to me at about 70 degrees. At 7.5" erect, my penis was double bent into an S shape with a lot of stress placed on the top of the penis just behind the head when getting erect. With the angle increased its more of a U shape under the balls.
Still, with all the issues, it's the right device for me.
That is interesting about the angle. I think I understand what you are saying. So it arrived at about 70 degrees and you had it modified to about 90 degrees? I will need to keep that in mind. Thanks.
Belongs to Michele (Lady M) Wearing: Steelheart & Eternity Collar
I'm new to the forum. I decided to join after reading many of the posts as it seems that most of the participants are real people who actual practice male chastity thoughtfully and want to share their experiences as opposed to many forums where the participants cannot put together a sentence.
That being said, what sent me browsing on the internet is to learn how others are actually incorporating male chastity into their daily living. I purchased a CB-3000 about a year ago and while we play with it in bed, I cannot figure out how to wear it (or any other device that I looked at over the internet) under daily work clothes (I'm in suit every day). When I try to put work or evening clothes over the device it is very noticeable. I've read comments about people not only wearing a device over the weekend but also to work and to the gym but haven't been able to figure out how they are able to make it work.
I would appreciate anyone's thoughts on their own experiences and insights.
Welcome. Your observation is correct, it's been a little slow here recently so I've been perusing another site and noticed the same thing- most of the participants on the other site would be put to shame by a second year elementary student in spelling and grammar. There appears to be a much higher level of education and intelligence here.
I have worn a CB-3000 under a variety of clothing, from jeans to suits. While it seems *very* obvious to me that something 'extra' is in my pants and I feel like it would be impossible for other people not to notice, the reality is that, apparently, no one does. Even so, I'm very self-conscious about it and tend to try to cover it up with a shirt untucked or making sure that my jacket is buttoned (when in a suit). It isn't always possible though, and that adds a little extra excitement to the situation. We have been doing this for years and I have yet to experience anyone pointing and saying "Hey! Your wife has your dick locked in a cage!"
I wouldn't know about going to a gym though, I'm active enough in daily life that it isn't necessary. And if I feel the need for an additional workout I have a set of weights at home.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted