[NoControlNeeded] - The Taming

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@Tongue+groove - So we did get the extender sleeve, its interesting, kinda struggled to get into it the first time. I'm pretty girthy, but yet they are not bad, second time there was lots of lube involved and yeah worked better. kinda teasing with what you can feel, not loads but at the same time you are doing the fucking with it, so pros and cons, mentally speaking. have used it twice and yeah its an addition to the play time.

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So its like week 3 of this experiment and I fell off a cliff in terms of keeping this up to date. Lots has happened, that I couldn't do justice to by trying to individually recall, but I'm going to try and abbreviate and try and keep this somewhat up to date going forward.

So the weeks have been good... The initial rush of it all has kind of worn off and from a cage perspective I have moved into a nub size cobra imitation cage. bit to get used to but easier to pee with, for the most part. I am pretty good at the day to day wearing. I have been wearing a 4/45mm curved ring base and while good, the 50mm base seems to leave less marks, perhaps doesn't fit as tight as a glove but I'm happy the have the least lesions as possible. So like last year we tried lock up for a few days a week sort of thing that had been accompanied by a bit of rough play and there was some damage, so we left it off. Now though, literally rom the first day its been all day, bar showers, though last couple of days we have left off the nights and gone with the 50mm, it maybe be 51mm I don't care if I'm missing the details there. Anyways I had insisted that I do day and night, but you know, its not easy and well with the kids we / i don't sleep much anyways so a mental for me , compromise has been agreed to lol.

So the highlights of the last few weeks have been... It gets very mental, and I have felt vulnerable.. not going to beat around the bush, I am bit strong willed and have bullish energy in me, but also a bit of a softy.. Its a trip, a journey and I have felt it for a while, a few fantasy conversations that seemed kinky and hot are going to remain fantasy and the big lines are drawn etc... and somehow we have started into a bit of a dom sub scenario.... and I have to say we are loving it... Q is loving the extra attentiveness, the her focus with regards to intimacy and just in general there is a rekindling of the love and intimacy between us. Probably mores o from me, but she feels it too.

Kind of doing our own thing with regards to the dom sub thing. I get to look after her more such as drying her off after a shower - service show of love and respect, giving her body massages after she's done long days and generally love after her. There is a lot more that occurs and will be documented hopefully in the coming days and weeks, but for now there's the general highlights, definitely forgotten some things. i.e. edging training for stamina, getting me to wear a butt plug all day when working from home, for potentially pegging.. she's not so keen, it might be an ick, but I'm curious of prostrate stimulation and the potential there... will see all to play for.

Right this has felt like a story board of ideas rather than a coherent update, so hopefully back to documenting this journey a bit better going forward.

Ciao cage friends

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So nearly to my 1st month. Tomorrow will be a month since we started, there was one day of freedom in the middle, but to be honest I haven't gone looking for excuses to be let out, at this point... Its good, I enjoy being kept I must say. Definitively what I haven't been expecting has been the phycological challenges. And at that I both love and am anxious about them. Possibly due to watching too much porn previously, and having all these fantasizes in my head which are not reality at all. The where could this go... well lets be real not like it is in porn, because that not life. So yeah bit of a roller coaster experience for me, we have been talking regularly and Q is loving the attentiveness, the foot, legs and body massages and rub downs, the more than extra bits that I do around the house and keeping things going. She is starting to add to them, I dried her off from the shower the off day and its now become a thing that I now do, little things like this are really making the experience enjoyable. Q is also doing a great job with fucking with my head in a tease and denial and inferring without ever saying anything ways that she has... Man, born for this type of thing. So subtle and yet innocent and unassuming.... Freaking love that woman. We have been thinking of taking a break tomorrow actually, just for a little bit... I told her she is doing such a great job that I'm a bit scattered at times and well, perhaps a normalization period would be welcomed.. She agreed however also would like to remain in power.. so we are thinking and looking at that. I enjoy loving and looking after her and she enjoys being served per se so we might just tailor our d/s scenario to be a more positive dynamic and not just tease and denial, but more positive encouragement and reward with challenges. Shall be interesting. Orgasm day tomorrow and she wants a thorough pounding, so I'm to blow my load and then pound her.. First to give me the ability to last for awhile.. I'm too close the way I am(a quivering mess) at present.

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. Orgasm day tomorrow and she wants a thorough pounding, so I'm to blow my load and then pound her

Two things I’ve come to appreciate.

1) scheduled orgasms create giddy anticipation and emotions.

2) a woman who wants you to pound her with every thing you’ve got. Like your trying to ram her through the floor.

Good luck and hopefully she will walk a little crooked afterwards.