Chastity and our wedding night

[Tom Allen]

The last thing I want to do is to turn our wedding day into a chastity themed fuck party

I'm sure that there are kink themed weddings, but your post didn't sound like that's what you were planning, and most of those folks aren't posting in this board.

No she isn't going to cuck me, nor will she ever, we love each other and we both feel that is overstepping the bounds of our relationship.

I'll concede that you did write:

... and she told me recently that I will only be allowed to have sex with her on our wedding night.

which could easily trigger someone's fantasy glands. But even so, it's not a good reason to project one's kink onto an otherwise normal question. Well, normal in the context of this group, anyhow.

Anyway, the idea of cufflinks and bracelet sounds nice and subtle.

Fuck, I don't know if swearing is allowed, but fuck,

[KittensBoyToy]

You mentioned cufflinks. I bought these off Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Kiola-Designs-Lo ... ay&sr=8-39 A search for "padlock cufflinks" brings up over 50 results.

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Check out https://www.etsy.com/shop/ToBeHis?ref=s ... =259268855. Great people that will bend over backwards to make you happy. They offer several styles of anklets in either stainless steel or sterling silver. Or search Etsy for "key anklet". I like Etsy because it is, for the most part, small home based businesses doing custom crafting.

[jfenoffti]

I thought about wearing cufflinks with her initials on, MT (Mistress Tiffany) and the morning of the wedding leaving her a gift with an ankle bracelet with a key and a lock on it.

Great! Go with that.

Variation for your consideration: (Not original, but hey) The anklet may just have the key to your cage on it, (no other lock). Nice and classy, the wedding party can see it, and may or may not "get it". But you two know.

Congratulations!

[WifeIsVanilla]

I read somewhere that wearing the key on an anklet is a cuckold symbol. Probably no one at the reception would know that, but I wouldn't take that chance.

[danj]

We were married before active chastity play. If we could do it over again, I would like to have been locked and denied several days up to, and including the wedding day with a little "ceremony" in the room with me surrendering my cock to her "officially". And then if she wanted, unlocking me for us to consummate our marriage.

We already had some sub/domme dynamics in the bedroom by our wedding day. I remember making sure I gave her a nice orgasm before penetrating her that night. I made sure her pleasure was front and center, I remember that!

[KittensBoyToy]

Went spent the last week before we were married at my mother's house in separate rooms/beds. Kitten wasn't exactly welcomed with open arms so it was almost total hands off the entire week.

Trust me...I was ready by the wedding night and couldn't wait to get to the hotel!

[Lockedchef]

Wedding night sex wasnt great honestly. Exhausted from long day, a little drunk, feet hurt from uncomfortable shoes all day, and too much wedding cake.

However the next morning made it for it drastically before even getting out of bed and then in the shower 30 minutes later.

[cuyahoga]

We tried to go a month before our wedding with all the sex, but no orgasms. She made it three weeks. I got mine between the ceremony and the reception.

[Slave Richard]

Thanks everyone for the awesome ideas. I will definitely post an update on how everything turns out