I would not dare wake my wife /KH with such a frivolous request as I like Twisted Mister already know the answer .
I haven' had a full orgasm in so long now I have actually forgotten when it was , it's been at least 10 months .It took time getting use to it but now I honestly enjoy the fullness in my JB of trying to get hard and being so emotionally aroused feeling the restriction of my cage . All I can say is give it time if being denied is what you want enjoy the constant feeling of arousal .
Up all night; help!
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Re: Up all night; help!
For her pleasure is my reward
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Re: Up all night; help!
I think most people missed that I said it was painful that particular night. Not the normal discomfort of trying to get erect in a cage.
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Re: Up all night; help!
Now isn't that a great reason to use a metal cage vs plastic.TwistedMister wrote:(I'll let you slam your dick in a door as punishment for suggesting it.![]()
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Re: Up all night; help!
My issue is that the new guy is the new guy. And for you to chime in with the same line as She decides did with the "Your wife is doing it wrong" crap, and you're deserving a dick slam in the door, or at the very least, a heavy kick to the jibblies.TwistedMister wrote:For as long as I've been on here...
But I'll leave that up to your KH, since that's the right way to go about it!
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Come on, guys, stop slamming your dicks in doors. Winter's coming and we don't want any damage around here.Guys, I believe with all my heart that we all need to explore and find our own dynamic. To imply that what you do with your partner is right for everyone, is simply wrong. Please take a minute to think about what your relationship would be like if other people had told you that you were doing it wrong!
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Re: Up all night; help!
Don't judge us!!!Tom Allen wrote:Come on, guys, stop slamming your dicks in doors. Winter's coming and we don't want any damage around here.

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I too had ALOT of problems sleeping in the cage. I woke up constantly. Usually with a painful erection but not always. Sometimes it was just waking up every hour or 45 minutes. The body does get used to it so maybe try to start it on a weekend or on nights you won't need to get up early the next day. Also I found I was extremely horny before bed and would tease myself. Don't do this. Lol. It makes it so much worse. Once it's part of the routine the body does adjust.
However that being said I recently downsized my cage and it is great and comfortable and invisible under clothes. But I cannot sleep in it. I get erections at night that don't just hurt, they push into me and the ring seems to be too tight so the erection does not always subside. Usually by 3 am im taking it off. It sucks cuz otherwise it's the perfect cage for me. I'm looking at getting a new ring now but afraid it will be too loose again. Or I could wear one during the day and a looser one at night. But then I can't let my gf who doesn't live with me hold the key.
However that being said I recently downsized my cage and it is great and comfortable and invisible under clothes. But I cannot sleep in it. I get erections at night that don't just hurt, they push into me and the ring seems to be too tight so the erection does not always subside. Usually by 3 am im taking it off. It sucks cuz otherwise it's the perfect cage for me. I'm looking at getting a new ring now but afraid it will be too loose again. Or I could wear one during the day and a looser one at night. But then I can't let my gf who doesn't live with me hold the key.
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Re: Up all night; help!
Maybe I should have put more smilies in, for the humor impaired. I would have thought that you would know me a little better, and know that I rarely speak in absolutes, particularly when it comes to 'style' of play. There was no intention of any *serious* implication that he and his Mrs. were 'wrong'. Go have a Coke and a smile.Aarkey wrote:My issue is that the new guy is the new guy. And for you to chime in with the same line as She decides did with the "Your wife is doing it wrong" crap, and you're deserving a dick slam in the door, or at the very least, a heavy kick to the jibblies.TwistedMister wrote:For as long as I've been on here...
But I'll leave that up to your KH, since that's the right way to go about it!

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See, you're even more sarcastic than I am, so it would be an easy mistake to make.TwistedMister wrote:Maybe I should have put more smilies in, for the humor impaired. I would have thought that you would know me a little better, and know that I rarely speak in absolutes, particularly when it comes to 'style' of play. There was no intention of any *serious* implication that he and his Mrs. were 'wrong'. Go have a Coke and a smile.

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FWIW, I probably over reacted with it, but I'm thinking more about the new guy who doesn't know our quirks and when we're being silly... and who's new to all this and was told his wife is "doing it wrong."TwistedMister wrote:Maybe I should have put more smilies in, for the humor impaired. I would have thought that you would know me a little better, and know that I rarely speak in absolutes, particularly when it comes to 'style' of play. There was no intention of any *serious* implication that he and his Mrs. were 'wrong'. Go have a Coke and a smile.
Anyway, I'm not sweating it enough to need to follow up on it all more.
And no, I didn't slam my dick in a door

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