Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wives
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peter_rabbit
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Re: Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wiv
You can practice chastity secretly without a device. Just don't masturbate. It's simple!
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WifeIsVanilla
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Re: Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wiv
Simple, yes, but not nearly as much fun. The device creates delightful sensations, kind of like constinuous low level foreplay. Fantastic!
Past Devices: Curve & CB 6000s. Both broke, were repaired; then broke beyond repair. I threw the dreaded Spiked Chamber away.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Current Devices: MM Jail Bird, Cobra, MM Watchful Mistress, Holy Trainer v3, and a new Curve.
Re: Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wiv
I completely agree with that.WifeIsVanilla wrote:Simple, yes, but not nearly as much fun. The device creates delightful sensations, kind of like constinuous low level foreplay. Fantastic!
Last orgasm: October 20, 2016. Masturbated while locked. 
Last PIV: been a while
Device used: CB6000s, Holy Trainer V2 (part time) Black Short and Clear Standard.
Currently locked part time in a Clear Holy Trainer V2 Standard, 40mm ring.
Last PIV: been a while
Device used: CB6000s, Holy Trainer V2 (part time) Black Short and Clear Standard.
Currently locked part time in a Clear Holy Trainer V2 Standard, 40mm ring.
Re: Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wiv
Sorry to have hi-jacked the thread earlier..., but a quick update if you all don't mind.
We had great sex last night. about 45 minutes of oral for her and then she teased me about not knowing where the keys were, but she wanted PIV sex. She got the keys from the hiding place and it was WOW sex for both of us. This morning the cage went back on after showering and she has the keys again.
But hiding the chastity from the partner that does not understand is erotic in ways that drive a secret chastity wearer bonkers. When I was doing that, I was always wondering what would happen if I kept it on and let her find it. Well, now I know...
And not masturbating is always an option, but just not as restrictive.
We had great sex last night. about 45 minutes of oral for her and then she teased me about not knowing where the keys were, but she wanted PIV sex. She got the keys from the hiding place and it was WOW sex for both of us. This morning the cage went back on after showering and she has the keys again.
But hiding the chastity from the partner that does not understand is erotic in ways that drive a secret chastity wearer bonkers. When I was doing that, I was always wondering what would happen if I kept it on and let her find it. Well, now I know...
And not masturbating is always an option, but just not as restrictive.
Re: Those who practice male chastity secretly from their wiv
I feel for you guys that have to be secretive about it. I can honestly say, that at least with chastity, that's the ONE area of BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle that my wife is COMPLETELY into.
A little back story on me. Some people don't see the problem with it, some do, but I have porn addictions. My wife would suffer without sex for weeks at a time because I "wasn't interested" in sex. The reason? I was masturbating to porn once, twice, sometimes three times a day without her knowledge. I'd always have an excuse as to why I couldn't have sex, but the real reason was that I just didn't have anything left for it. I'm 42, so the bullets I have in the old gun aren't nearly as many as I had when I was 22. At least for me, and my wife, this was a problem.
Chastity wasn't the direct result of that behaviour. It was an accidental discovery that solved the problem. Some months before we started doing this chastity, D/s lifestyle, I got "caught" with the porn. (Again, I know some people are just fine with this...my wife isn't, at least not when it's not a mutual thing) It caused some serious issues. I was one of those that felt like I was OK, because I wasn't physically cheating on her. She expressed that it was much the same to her and that I was abandoning her, sexually. After I was caught, I made a big, big effort to stop.
My wife has always known that I am interested in this lifestyle, and I'm a big bondage lover, too, so after some discussion and such, we decided to go do it. I brought up the idea of chastity to help her out, and then it all just clicked. Once I got it on and started wearing it, and got over some of the pain in the beginning, it became obvious that I didn't want PORN, I wanted HER...porn can't unlock me!
The chastity changes everything. I feel more submissive when I'm in it, I don't WANT to watch porn, and so forth. But, to answer this thread, I feel very lucky that I don't have to do this without my wife's knowledge. She'd prefer I wear it even if we completely stopped doing anything else related to D/s, and I'd probably oblige her.
A little back story on me. Some people don't see the problem with it, some do, but I have porn addictions. My wife would suffer without sex for weeks at a time because I "wasn't interested" in sex. The reason? I was masturbating to porn once, twice, sometimes three times a day without her knowledge. I'd always have an excuse as to why I couldn't have sex, but the real reason was that I just didn't have anything left for it. I'm 42, so the bullets I have in the old gun aren't nearly as many as I had when I was 22. At least for me, and my wife, this was a problem.
Chastity wasn't the direct result of that behaviour. It was an accidental discovery that solved the problem. Some months before we started doing this chastity, D/s lifestyle, I got "caught" with the porn. (Again, I know some people are just fine with this...my wife isn't, at least not when it's not a mutual thing) It caused some serious issues. I was one of those that felt like I was OK, because I wasn't physically cheating on her. She expressed that it was much the same to her and that I was abandoning her, sexually. After I was caught, I made a big, big effort to stop.
My wife has always known that I am interested in this lifestyle, and I'm a big bondage lover, too, so after some discussion and such, we decided to go do it. I brought up the idea of chastity to help her out, and then it all just clicked. Once I got it on and started wearing it, and got over some of the pain in the beginning, it became obvious that I didn't want PORN, I wanted HER...porn can't unlock me!
The chastity changes everything. I feel more submissive when I'm in it, I don't WANT to watch porn, and so forth. But, to answer this thread, I feel very lucky that I don't have to do this without my wife's knowledge. She'd prefer I wear it even if we completely stopped doing anything else related to D/s, and I'd probably oblige her.