Question to Keyholders concerning your own restraint.

[grubber]

I'm with Tame Lion on this. A year is a long time. A long, long time if you're not used to lengthy lockups especially with no unlocking. There are a lot of emotions involved in this and some of them may not be beneficial to your relationship.

My wife has always preferred oral over vaginal. Vaginal is sometimes uncomfortable for her so she could go the rest of her life without it and not miss it. Chastity has played well into our lives.

The first time we went 3 months without unlock I was climbing the walls. The longest has been six months and it seemed like an eternity. Now we are living with permanent orgasm denial, however I get released from time to time for some T&D. It was easier to stay locked up without stimulation in some ways but our new way is more fun with my aching and arousal for my wife growing stronger. It took several years to build up to where we are now and wouldn't change our lifestyle for anything.

Have fun with this. Don't jump in head over heels before testing the waters more. Treat it a life style that evolves over time. It will be much more rewarding this way for the both of you.

[Atone]

I'll jump in too and agree that a year is a long time to be locked up. I have gone over a year without an orgasm but the longest without unlocking for some reason is a little over 100 days. It seems like something always came up that necessitated being unlocked. I will also add that I panicked at somewhere between 45 and 60 days every time. It would pass after a few days but it was pretty intense.

Having said all that, I say go for it. Worst case you bust out

[Tame Lion]

Grubber has a good point. Fortunately for me, Mrs. Lion likes making me come. She likes making me wait just long enough to become desperate (around 9 days at this point). However, she told me that some of my waits will be twice that, just to keep it interesting. I get T&D every other day, so I never lose my urgency for orgasm.

All of this took time to work out. We have been doing this full time for over a year now. I do know from my experience, that starting slow, meaning frequent releases and orgasm and then slowly increasing waits will be more likely to bring success. But, as they say, to each his/her own.

[reeve]

how can she satisfy herself with cunilingus ? is she that flexible ?

Bad wording on my part. She borrows my tongue for that purpose.

Oke you give her head once a month I understand.
Not sure, if that's enough for her, but maybe it's best you ask her cause every woman is different.

A few other options to keep you in permanent chastity and satisfy her needs is to fuck her with a strapon or consider cuckolding. Especially the latter option gives her all the sex she wants while you get zero
I'll bet you count down the days untill you can eat her pussy again !

[aliceinbondageland]

She can always enjoy a strap-on. No need to unlock you.

[Happily caged]

how can she satisfy herself with cunilingus ? is she that flexible ?

Bad wording on my part. She borrows my tongue for that purpose.

Oke you give her head once a month I understand.
Not sure, if that's enough for her, but maybe it's best you ask her cause every woman is different.

A few other options to keep you in permanent chastity and satisfy her needs is to fuck her with a strapon or consider cuckolding. Especially the latter option gives her all the sex she wants while you get zero
I'll bet you count down the days untill you can eat her pussy again !

I'd go down on her every few days, but give her piv a few times a month but all within a couple of days. She hates condoms and distrusts the pill.

[MrCage]

I agree with what everyone else is stating except for Len51. Mrs Cage needs her PIV too. I think that maybe your KH is just teasing you mentally. You may find yourself locked for quite awhile, then she will unlock you when she is ready. That could be weeks or a month or two. If you have a great relationship,healthy and loving, that is, I don't see how she could go that long without you in her either. Mrs Cage finds it taunting to herself when we go for awhile without PIV and she is playing her own personal mental teasing. Just remember, when the lock clicks, it really is all hers !