Appreciate the advice and comments, thank you. And having re-read HandyRandy's suggestion it would work. (I could definitely do with losing some weight myself!)
I guess we (probably I) was overthinking it. She had brought up the re-caging in the same conversation as losing weight and stopping masturbating - I see the flaw in the original concept, but the input here is helping formulate it into something better - thank you!
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Betterthansmith
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I would recommend anyone wanting to lose weight to check out the movie/documentary called fat, sick, and nearly dead. Its on netflix or you can probably find to watch online somewhere. Very motivational and has worked for me.
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I'm sorry, I still can't see how this works. I mean, if you want to be locked up until *you* lose 10 pounds, I get that. But trying to tie your own orgasms into your partner's weight loss is missing a motivational factor on her end.
That said, I'd highly recommend that the guys start hitting the gym. Since our demographic puts most of us on the north side of 40 years old, we're all in the range in which we would be tending to, umm, round out a little bit.
That said, I'd highly recommend that the guys start hitting the gym. Since our demographic puts most of us on the north side of 40 years old, we're all in the range in which we would be tending to, umm, round out a little bit.
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Tom - I agree and since my original post we've had a couple of chats...
Originally we had a conversation and it was her that suggested that I be locked up to stop the masturbating, and she would only unlock me for an O every time she lost 7lbs. You're right it doesn't work, but at this was the first time that she initiated the conversation, the lockup, etc etc so I have to look at that as a positive.
For now the 'rules' seem to have been dropped. I stay locked up to stop me masturbating. We went away for a night and she had an evening and morning of being 'looked after' without any pressure to reciprocate, and she loved it.
We are 2 years in since I introduced the idea and its the same as a lot of posts on this forum - don't talk about it all the time, don't force it, be patient, etc.. She has acknowledged the change in me and the benefits as well. It takes time, and I suppose my OP was one more step in the process...
Originally we had a conversation and it was her that suggested that I be locked up to stop the masturbating, and she would only unlock me for an O every time she lost 7lbs. You're right it doesn't work, but at this was the first time that she initiated the conversation, the lockup, etc etc so I have to look at that as a positive.
For now the 'rules' seem to have been dropped. I stay locked up to stop me masturbating. We went away for a night and she had an evening and morning of being 'looked after' without any pressure to reciprocate, and she loved it.
We are 2 years in since I introduced the idea and its the same as a lot of posts on this forum - don't talk about it all the time, don't force it, be patient, etc.. She has acknowledged the change in me and the benefits as well. It takes time, and I suppose my OP was one more step in the process...