Punishment experiences.

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Tom Allen wrote:
Nat wrote:My KH has expressed interest in introducing punishment as part of our chastity lifestyle. [...] My KH says I have been too good to punish ...
Mrs. Edge and I have discussed "maintenance reviews;" that is, a regular evening once a week for her to list real or imagined infractions and to dole out "funishments" (spanking, cropping, etc.) as she sees fit. The idea is that we both dislike the idea of punishment, and since I'm an awesome husband, there's nothing that really needs correcting. But Mrs. Edge enjoys the idea of being in control, and I enjoy the idea of her *being* in control, so the concept of her making up some kind of odd thing for correction became intriguing. Things like "You didn't make my cup of coffee before you left for work on Tuesday," or "You rolled your eyes when I was describing the color/pattern for the new drapes in the living room."
We're very much like you. Mrs. Lion isn't particularly into punishing me, but she knows I like the control We have "offenses" like dropping food or my napkin (damn thing always slides off my lap) that result in some paddle swats. She likes to swat my balls just for fun. But there are no real issues between us that would warrant any real punishments. We are a responsible couple and we don't get on one another's nerves much at all. She does swat me, however, when I interrupt her. I do that sometimes. :)
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Tame Lion wrote:We have "offenses" like dropping food or my napkin (damn thing always slides off my lap) that result in some paddle swats.
Crap :shock: If this were true in our house I'd have a pretty red ass. :lol:
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I'm starting to get paddle calluses.
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I'm probably going outside of the real punishment idea here bc I enjoy some pushing of boundaries & it's not really punishment, I suppose. But, some of the things we've done are likely real punishment to others. My faves include:

--her tying me down & giving me a full brazilian wax (after the 2nd time you'll stay bald for a couple weeks -- use the strips...trust me!

-- slathering my dick & balls with ben gay then quickly putting a condom on me & locking me up. You can't wash it off & it stays hot since the condom prevents it from rubbing off or evaporating. The cherry on top is when she flips me over & rubs it on my ass and slides a finger in too! (Make sure u pee first or you'll have a chastity water balloon! Lol)

-- and then, one of my faves, she padlocked my balls with a heavy master lock. She left it there for a day & went to work. Once there, she instructed me to video myself & masturbate until I came into a shot glass. In order to be told where the key was I had to pour it all in my mouth & swallow then send her the video. Was really hard to do bc I just came. Tip: make sure u do it while it's still warm -- super gross served cold! Lol. Only thing that'd make it hotter was if afterward she told me to "repeat" and THEN I'll tell u where the key is ;)

-- also, super hot water -- with a sprayer in the shower -- so hot that just a couple seconds is all u can tolerate. She uses it on my cock & balls & has me get on all fours so she can get my asshole & balls really good. I love it ! One of my favorite teases bc it lasts a while as she usually does it until the hot water runs out then locks me back up.

Those are my "punishments". Hope it helps or maybe gives yall an idea to try!!?!
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Just what prison are you being held in?
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Guantanamo Bay detention camp Tom ;-) haha
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the wife has a crop she uses for punishments, but we haven't done that in a while. it was mostly about a chance for her to know she'd gotten her say in, and for me a chance to blow off some guilt and start fresh. I like slow build up, but she just goes to 11 from the start. if she wants it to be, it can be intense.

for funishment, it's almost always tickling while i have to stay still, or ball slapping. esp. when caged, its rough, since it makes me so damn hard. denial with blue and physically achy balls? hell. and heaven.
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Thanks for all the posts so far. I'm definatley in the funishment camp. I like to think I'm a good enough husband not to need punishment but the power exchange dynamic would be fun.
Those who have read my journey post will know I recieved my first punishment last night so won't repeat myself here. It was very 'fun'.
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Have just introduced a new one. Punishment now starts with 10 spanks with the paddle and then each one after that costs £1. She isn't keen on CP so makes them as hard as possible, I'm not keen on the cost. I was down £20 this morning. :o
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My KH said today that I should remember she can make me work naked, wear a thong or butt plug when ever she wants. It did make me think that punishment can be a lot of fun! My ass has only just got over the last caning. Two very different forms of punishment.