Frustration

[Tame Lion]

Based on what I experience and have read here, we all seem to hit a point of maximum frustration within a week or so of our last orgasm. I get grumpy. After we get to come, we all seem to experience a let down of sorts that, in some cases provokes a decision to avoid orgasm entirely, at least for a while. I'm sure there are exceptions, but that seems to be the general theme. If a Keyholder wants to create maximum frustration, it seems the ideal course of action is to provide some serious teasing at least once a week. In my case it keeps my frustration level high.

[Rocky]

I got into this when I was spending all my free time masturbating because I did not know I was suffering from depression. I have not masturbated since November but I have had plenty of orgasms. For me, just having my wife in charge of my orgasms was enough to break my masturbation habit. I did not have to be denied for any long periods of time to do that. To me, they are separate issues and only tied together because if you are not having orgasms, you cannot masturbate. However, you can avoid masturbation and still have orgasms from only your partner.