What's your routine with your wife?

[TwistedMister]

I don't know that we have a 'routine', but I guess I'll find out. I'm back in the CB3k, recently repaired. A previous repair on the middle size ring (broken at the hinge) cracked and needed to be fixed again, and the next-to-smallest ring that I had gone to also cracked at the hinge. I used JB Weld 'SteelStik' steel reinforced epoxy this time, I'm a little concerned that the thickness of the epoxy has reduced the dimensions of the ring. I was unable to wear the smallest ring for anything more than short term and I had some difficulty getting the newly mended next-to-smallest ring on, though perhaps my arousal at her insistence had something to do with that. I'm hoping that the fact that the irritating hinge rivet has been smoothed over with epoxy will make it more comfortable- I only woke up once last night. It will be a good trial as it has been decided that we will be moving to metal at some point in the near future.

[Atone]

I'm hoping that the fact that the irritating hinge rivet has been smoothed over with epoxy will make it more comfortable- I only woke up once last night.

Back when I wore my old style CB3000 (with the hinged rings) I got a solid ring from here http://www.keptforher.com/accessories.html and it worked out much better. You might want to check in to it. They were also a great source for replacement posts / spacers / pins etc...

[TwistedMister]

Back when I wore my old style CB3000 (with the hinged rings) I got a solid ring from here http://www.keptforher.com/accessories.html and it worked out much better. You might want to check in to it. They were also a great source for replacement posts / spacers / pins etc...

Thanks, I had forgotten about that site.

[Cravingdenial]

I'm locked from the time I get home from work until I shower in the morning during the week and all weekend long. However, we have just revised our Chastity Contract to include permanent chastity with the intention of making it 24/7 when I break in my new Lori in October. I have a lot of problems finding dress pants for work that are loose enough to conceal the device especially while sitting. I hope that the Lori will conceal better than my current CB6000s. Anyway, our contract gives my wife discretion as to the length of each chastity sentence without a limit, except that it prohibits permanent denial. I have currently been chaste for 61 days. She has told me that I will be denied until at least our anniversary, which is in 17 days. She has suggested a couple of times that she may deny me until Christmas but I think she is just messing with me. She unlocks me about 4 or 5 times per week to edge me, and then locks me again. She does not milk me or give me ruined orgasms yet, but I'm hoping! She gets orgasms whenever she likes, 2 or 3 times a week normally.

[Harry Haversackers]

I suppose you'd call it a routine, though it does change from time to time.

I'm locked in my Jailbird 24/7, and let out for the occasional doctor's appointment, therapeutic massages, and whenever CH wants to play.

Lately, she's been eager to tease/edge me each night once we climb into bed, so I unlock, shower, receive a nice round of stimulation, and then re-lock.

I expect that sooner or later, we'll revert to the other routine, and that involves teasing and/or sex about twice a week. For the rest of the week, she spends a little time fondling my balls as we drift off to sleep, which is very nice, but not nearly as much fun as the nightly teasing session.

It's been just over four months since I spent a night free of the cage... We have a mini-vacation coming up, and I'm assuming that I'll be leaving the device at home. I'm not adverse to wearing it all the time, but as they say, a change is as good as a rest

[HerTDToy]

We've negotiated a minimum of one week per month - and have been doing this for about 4-5 months now. The lockup period starts and ends when she wants it to - but it has never gone beyond 10 days. Since we invested in a MM Jailbird and it's easy to keep clean, the device stays on 24 hours a day. She only lets me out to tease, or if she wants sex.

Being locked all day and all night is tricky. Sleeping takes some getting used to, and I've had to learn to conceal myself well at the gym and at work. When I get home, she usually makes it a point to rub up against me or tug on the cage through my clothes. She enjoys seeming me squirm with desire for her.

These last few lockups have been particularly fun as we've become more comfortable with the routine. She's started to actually believe that I enjoy the frustration over release, and is feeling less guilty about keeping me locked up. She's also started taking advantage of the situation more. She texts me list of chores in the morning and lets me know that she'll be pleased if I get them done. This, combined with flowers, cooking her favorite meals, and being massively proactive about housework tends to make her feel benevolent. She often drops comments like "keep this up and you'll never get out." It's amazing how motivating the veiled promise of a tease can be, especially given the fact that it just results in frustration for me.

Our teasing is pretty typical. Massages, going down on her, PIV with no release, watching her play with a vibrator, etc. She also texts me during the day to ask me how her cock is doing, which can have me hot and heavy for her in no time. A delightful distraction from the regular work grind, and one which really turns her on.

I've been wanting to push the lockup periods longer to see what it's like. This year for my birthday I've asked for a minimum of a month of lockup time (and stressed minimum) to happen sometime over the next year. It'll be whenever she wishes it to start. She's agreed and now occasionally asks me whether I'm excited about my birthday present. I don't think excited quite covers it.

[wannapleaser]

The thing about chastity is, it's not chastity until you want it not to be chastity.

[TwistedMister]

The thing about chastity is, it's not chastity until you want it not to be chastity.

We need a :Thoughtful/Rubbing Chin: smilie.

[locknload]

[sherulestherooster]

We are a bit hot and cold when it comes to orgasm denial. We are currently on a "hot" period, meaning I am being teased and denied a lot.

My wife prefers that I am on the "honor system" mainly because she enjoys feeling my erection, my desire for her. With regard to using the actual chastity device, our only thing resembling a routine is that she does prefer me to be locked if we are apart for any particular length of time.

She seems very intrigued by the notion of me being locked during business trips. I think she likes not only the knowledge that I am chaste but also the potential for me having to explain my condition to the TSA. I am pretty sure that this is going to happen.

I have finally got it through my thick skull that my wife does not want me "asking" for kinky things. I have made it clear to her that I enjoy being locked in the device but I don't particularly like being locked up at work. After I told her this, she locked me up and sent me to work. Chastity play is something she wants to initiate. She teases me about it from time to time, and she gives me a knowing smile whenever we see a key or a lock somewhere.

Having said that, she suggested that she might want to lock me "this weekend". I almost goofed and said, well, Friday is the start of the weekend, but she clearly didn't want me locked last night. So, maybe tonight.