What is your arrangement?

[HerTDToy]

Thanks for all the responses. We just ended our first week of chastity play and both had a great time. The best part was that as we concluded our week, she happily informed me that she had a great time and would like to do this monthly. It's a fantasy come true.

As I mentioned in the original post, we are new to this and had a few false starts earlier in the year - so while my wife was willing to give it a try, we did need to change our approach somewhat. Just jumping into it without putting in place some bounds in place didn't really work well for us. Letting really control the duration and pace helped tremendously. Also removing the element of pressure (e.g. suggestions from me on what would be fun to try) really made a huge difference. It became less work for her (fewer expectations she had to meet), and way more fun for both of us.

I knew it was going well when about halfway through I asked her to remove the cage for a night because I was aching - she simply said "no, you're being a pussy", rolled over and went to sleep. Awesome.

Also, I highly recommend that couples getting started have their KH join the forum here. While she wouldn't disclose anything, she did say that she found a supporting community here to help her get going. This probably made the biggest difference in the experience.

[brave]

Our arrangement is quite casual and always changing. At the end of the day though it's always ultimately up to her.

Sometimes she'll lock me up for just a day or two at a time whilst others she'll keep me locked up for months at a time to point where my brain has pretty much gone to mush and I'm just a mindless worshipping slave zombie.

I like this arrangement though because it means I never really know what's around the corner

[eroslocked]

She decides on the time to have some intimate fun and what form it takes. It is not regular or very often though, but after a month without me having an orgasm I am released for a couple of days for 'maintenance'.

[MistressAmysDick]

My gf pretty much is just very possessive over my dick Or shoud I say her dick. She has insecurity issues and this keeps them at bay and she claims its a.confidence booster for her. She likes when the spikes are on my curve. If she knows I'm hard and in discomfort she seems to enjoy it. I like to think I'm suffering for my love to her. We recently got a penis extension for me to wear. I have a decent sized dick and it was the biggest she ever took inside her. Now with the extension its not. I get unlocked. Wear attachment and either get locked up or get a handjob while she uses a strap on on me and jerks my dick like its hers and cums on me. Aiming for my mouth. I'm so sexually frustrated after sex with the extension I happily will take a shot in the face for opportunity for release. Then I get locked up again.

[Urcatcher]

I am locked in a jailbird 24/7 and have been so pretty much since being first locked in at the end of April, when I received the device. I see Mistress, my KH, once a month. It is up to Mistress whether she unlocks me or not. When she sees me, so far, she has done a lot of T. & D. , has topped me, and has had me worship her. Afterwards, I am locked back up. Mistress has me in chastity indefinitely and it is up to her if and when I am unlocked as well as if and when I am "allowed" a release. The jailbird prevents me from having any erections ...... I am kept in a constant state of frustrated arousal, exactly what Mistress and I desire. Whether this arrangement will change or stay in effect is up to Mistress...... I hope that the arrangement continues!