Peaks and valleys

[Xrcrash]

Hello all,

We are still really new to this and have just decided to move from the "game" to more "life style". The question I have relates to the " high" like feeling or I have heard it put " half way to orgasm" feeling. Before when we would have a session after about 3 days the good feeling would set in and stay until I was allowed to have an o. Not more than a week at a time. Then we would take a break for a week or two and play again. This time I have been locked 24/7 for a month with release for teasing and piv. But have gone 13 days without an o. The problem is I get the high feeling for just a couple hours here and there. It doesn't stay around like it did before. Is this just because I'm used to the device now? And is it normal not to stay in that state? I really love the high. And I don't mind the life style with out it. But with it is more fun let's be honest. So I thought I would put it out there for the all knowing wise ones. Lol. Thanks!

[Tom Allen]

It's pretty typical to get very aroused by this kind of play, and without the opportunity to orgasm, the arousal continues for a while. Eventually, though, you'll burn out.

I know that one of the things that allows me to go for really long term periods is the constant simmer (what you're probably calling the "high").

[sherulestherooster]

Certainly not an all-knowing wise one, but I will chip in my $0.02.

When I am teased and denied, I definitely have a "high". It has a significant behavioral effect on me, I go into full on courtship mode, and it reminds me of when we were first dating. This high is sustained by her teasing, whether it's verbal, physical, or visual. The valley comes when real life gets in the way, she gets sick during a busy week of work, and is stressed out and wants nothing to do with me, from a romantic/sexual perspective.

I think you just have to realize that is how real life happens, and be patient. My wife hates it when I "top from the bottom" and we do have a difficult time communicating about sex. It's hard to tell because I don't know what your relationship dynamic is, but I think you just have to be very patient.

Cheers
sherulestherooster

[Xrcrash]

Thanks.
That's kind of what I figured. Is I was just settling in to my new fate and getting used to being locked.

My kh and I talk often about how we are doing. And how we are feeling. And although I let her know I'm okay she feels bad like she's not doing enough teasing. And that is just not the case. She takes good care of me. And I try my hardest to please her.
Thanks for the help.