New to chastity, need help/advice

[gaggedsissy]

Ok, so there are probably a ton of these posts on here and if so, I'd be glad to be directed to one. But I am new to this whole thing. I'm not very knowledgeable about any of it except for some things I've read. A little background, I currently am single, so no keyholder in place, and probably would just be doing this solo as me as the keyholder. Next thing, I do have a device. It is a cheap version of the BON-4 silicone device. Here's wher I need help. I can get this thing on and will be fine with the medium ring (comes with large, medium, and small). It fits pretty well. But after about 20 minutes or so, my balls shrink and the device slides right off like nothing. Why are my balls shrinking? I can't seem to get the small ring on at all. Is it just this device being cheaply made that is causing a problem or am I not doing something right? I've always thought my balls were weird (I don't know?) and very small. It just looks like one blob, can't even differentiate the two balls. Would getting a CB3000 or 6000 help me? Or suggestion of a different device? Basically I can't figure anything else out from the internet, so please help me!! Thanks!

[Michele]

My best guess would be that you have the ring size correct but the gap seems like it could be too big if you're slipping... does that device allow you to tighten the gap?

[gaggedsissy]

Definitely is some room there. I'm pretty small flaccid and I have about 3-4 inches of room probably in the device when locked on. I guess that could be the problem.

[Locked by LRC]

There has be others here that have discussed problems like yours, just can't remember where. The problem you're describing with the Bon-4 is one I've read about before. The slipping, not fitting right, etc.

You were saying you're considering a CB series device next. With your description of being small when flaccid I would recommend the CB6000s. The "S" signifies it's the short version. Depending on how short you are, this is the tube may still be too big. At least it's a starting point to learn what you may need in a custom device if that's the way you go.

The CB will allow you to adjust the gap and base ring. A correct combination of theses two should help with your testicle issue. The CB series has five different base rings and four spacers.

Another thought; if you do decide on a CB series device don't go cheap and get a knock-off. Buy a genuine CB. The knock-off are notorious for burs, ridges, and breaking. The genuine ones will break but at least they have a one year warranty.

Don't get discouraged. When first starting fits and comfort is hard to find. There isn't to many guys, if any, that put on their first device and said "Awesome, perfect fit!"

[Tame Lion]

When I reviewed the Bon 4, the tube was way too long for me. That didn't cause any ball slip, but absolutely ruins the purpose of the device. Keep this in mind:

1. You have to be completely flaccid when you decide what base ring to use. You want a ring that is large enough to get your cock and ball in without cutting off circulation. But not so big that it is easy to insert your cock after you get your balls in.

2. This particular device was a big pain for me to get on. The silicone ring stuck to my skin and that belt to fasten the tube to the ring is a pain too.

If you really want to try this, consider getting a device better suited to the size of your penis. There are a lot of Chinese devices on dhgate.com that cost under $50. My penis is only 1 1/2" flaccid and I even found a fairly good fit online. I have a page on my site about fitting. You might want to take a look at it. The site's url is in my signature.

Don't give up on chastity because your device isn't right.

[gaggedsissy]

Thanks for the input guys! Definitely some good info here. I'm definitely thinking about the CB series. I'm not too picky on design or material, just that it fits and does its job. I'll definitely check out that site as well! Again, thanks for the help and info! Much appreciated. Definitely not giving up!