Orgasm control training

[Tame Lion]

Mrs. Lion has suggested I learn to hold off orgasm until she gives me permission to come. The goal is to permit me to provide sexual activity without release. I've never attempted this and have no real idea how this training can take place. I know some people punish severely in the event of an "accident". Mrs. Lion is not very comfortable right now "beating it into me".

For my part, I have no real idea how to prevent release. Are there exercises I/we can do to make this possible? What is your experience with this?

[Katesboy]

While I have tried this for personal growth reasons, i found like everything it take work.... lol. Some of the principles are pc muscle training routines. Like extended holding and frequent contractions. i.e. stopping pee midstream and holding it then starting again. Only you should do it like a workout routine a few times a day. When I did it increased stamina for sure....30 minutes a day for 5 extra minutes a couple times a week lol.

Breathing techniques are taken from Taoists to not get to the edge. Other techniques are taken from Taoists such as not being goal orientated slower longer sessions. Standard positions are not available as they put to much pressure on the male. Mostly women on top and side positions.

My hang ups were the slower sessions hard to get an hour plus when you have kids. Also My sweet wife was not into low friction sex. I guess in combination with chastity it might be worth looking into again. But most of the techniques are to create a multi orgasmic experience. So it could be confusing as the signals cross. Don't ejaculate but orgasm, ejaculate but don't orgasm.

[slave d]

I'm fortunate as being a bit older I have a built in delay system lol but as I am kept for longer and longer without cumming that time shortens down. As a punishment that your KeyHolder might prefer i would suggest you get to eat whatever you leave there !! Sorry not much help otherwise ........ maybe just think of England lol.

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[Tame Lion]

LOL I have to eat it anyway.

[celticqueens_sub]

use EMLA cream sparingly and the sensation will be greatly reduced and allow you to hold off a long time, sometimes when CQ uses the cream on I cannot orgasm at all... You have to experiment to get the right amount, too much and you may noit get hard enough, I find about a 1/4 of a pea size on the frenum area and spread down the shaft really work well after about 15 mins from application you will be pretty numb....

[Tame Lion]

Excellent suggestion! I've ordered some 4% Lidocaine gel.