"Hello world" thread
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Hi all. I'm JT. s-type male. Chastity is not really one of my kinks, but I came here looking for suggestions on a chastity/orgasm control app that I've recently started working on.
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Revner has emailed me about this, and I suggested that he post here looking for suggestions. I found this part interesting:Revner wrote:Hi all. I'm JT. s-type male. Chastity is not really one of my kinks, but I came here looking for suggestions on a chastity/orgasm control app that I've recently started working on.
This could function as a virtual lockbox. I could also imagine a "randomizer" feature, in which the app picks a random time between X and XX dates.I am looking to develop a Android app to allow people/couples to track time, report violations, and such. Additional, it would allow two accounts to connect with the top/keyholder being able to set the time and be able to choose whether or not the bottom can see the end date, ect.
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Hello world! I'm a novice to the male chastity game, but my wife and I have hit the ground running. About two months ago I stumbled upon your site (I cannot remember how) and learned about male chastity for the first time. I'm married to the most wonderful woman for more than 12 years, and I always thought of myself of the highest caliber of husband. Although my wife and I manage to succeed in most aspects of our married lives (best of friends, great parents, two successful careers) there has been an unmistakeable staleness to our romance/sex life over the past several years.
Well, after reading some of the postings here and other sites, I sent my wife a random blog post from a mainstream women's advice site that discussed chastity devices -- mostly on a lark. She (as would later explain to me, in a fit of impulsiveness) told me that she'd be interested in exploration, and said she's go ahead and order me something.
Anyway, I think I should reserve the bulk of this for the journey thread. But there's some interesting stuff here. And your folks made this possible!
Once I'm approved, I'll have much to ask of you. And some to add.
Regards,
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Well, after reading some of the postings here and other sites, I sent my wife a random blog post from a mainstream women's advice site that discussed chastity devices -- mostly on a lark. She (as would later explain to me, in a fit of impulsiveness) told me that she'd be interested in exploration, and said she's go ahead and order me something.
Anyway, I think I should reserve the bulk of this for the journey thread. But there's some interesting stuff here. And your folks made this possible!
Once I'm approved, I'll have much to ask of you. And some to add.
Regards,
BS
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Welcome, and congrats. We're delighted to be of assistance and more than happy to continue to aid in your corruption.Broken Stallion wrote:...there's some interesting stuff here. And your folks made this possible! Once I'm approved, I'll have much to ask of you. And some to add.

I'd be very interested in seeing that post/blog/site. Would you be so kind as to provide a link to the post you sent to her?I sent my wife a random blog post from a mainstream women's advice site that discussed chastity devices
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Hello everyone, I'm new to chastity, new to the forum, and very much want chastity to be a major part of my life forever.
I'm a man from the south west of the UK, and currently searching for the right keyholder... couple of possibilities but this is an important decision to make.
I'm in my late twenties, tall(ish), big(ish)like to think I'm a friendly outgoing guy, who just wants to be controlled!!
Look forward to reading and posting, if you want to know anything let me know
I'm a man from the south west of the UK, and currently searching for the right keyholder... couple of possibilities but this is an important decision to make.
I'm in my late twenties, tall(ish), big(ish)like to think I'm a friendly outgoing guy, who just wants to be controlled!!
Look forward to reading and posting, if you want to know anything let me know

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Hi. I haven't started yet but am very keen to get going, just need to tell my wife! I guess we aren't too open about our fantasies, so nervous about raising it. I have thought about sending an email with a link to a site that explains the woman's side or I could try to break it her this weekend when we go away. Wish me luck!
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You could try pointing her to this forum - we have a lot of friendly and helpful peeps.GM1969 wrote:Hi. I haven't started yet but am very keen to get going, just need to tell my wife! I guess we aren't too open about our fantasies, so nervous about raising it. I have thought about sending an email with a link to a site that explains the woman's side or I could try to break it her this weekend when we go away. Wish me luck!
You might also suggest http://keyheld.blogspot.com - a list of links to various chastity blogs and resources, or
http://sheheld.blogspot.com - a list of blogs and resources about female-led relationships, many of which involve chastity and orgasm denial.
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I suggest you try to be somewhat subtle. It would also be good to check some other sites related to male chastity, also female led relationships. One in particular stands out is Ms. Sarah Jameson's website called the male chastity blog. She has allot of printed stuff that is useful in presenting this to your beloved. including a letter entitled "a letter to your beloved". and some e-books. good luck.
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If this means that you haven't done much out of the ordinary, kinkwise, then you may want to find a gentler way of easing into it. Has she displayed any dominant tendencies already?GM1969 wrote:Hi. I haven't started yet but am very keen to get going, just need to tell my wife! I guess we aren't too open about our fantasies, so nervous about raising it. I have thought about sending an email with a link to a site that explains the woman's side or I could try to break it her this weekend when we go away. Wish me luck!
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Hi all been reading with interest for a while and obviously decided to join in. I started with steel but it was very uncomfortable and Through the day I would pull out of it unintentionally.Then went onto a CB600 I have been in max 7 days up to now but the cleaning is very hard and does not seem to be very good, unless I take it off, wife not too keen to get involved with that part so left to it I am on the second ring down but reading the posts is too big as I can get my thumb in fully, tried the 3rd ring down for 3 hours this afternoon and I couldn't stand it so I have just took it off. Even with the 2nd largest ring I have to lube 3 times a day to stop the burning. I am wondering about the silicone products, has anyone any experience?