"Hello world" thread

[lincolncaptive]

Stephen, I completely understand your feelings. It really is difficult to explain and put into words the thrill and emotional high one gets from handing the key to a willing Wife and knowing She will become the controlling force in your life. Thank you for sharing this truly thrilling moment.

[redjim]

Hello all. I am fairly new to the chastity scene that my wife is enforcing on me. Just wanted to look around and get some insight from others. I have been in a CB6000s for a while and just recently moved up to a MM Pet Trap. I definitely am more comfortable in steel than plastic. Well I am going to wander a little bit and will be in touch.

[Mutt_VB]

Welcome redjim and congratulations on moving up to a MM device. In my opinion they are the best.

[smokesknight]

Thank you to the moderators for kindly allowing me to join this excellent board!

Currently my key holder and myself are diligently working our way through as many previous postings as possible, both of us are finding this is an excellent way of enhancing our knowledge of male chastity. Of course I have joined this site with her permission. She intends to join the group also and hopefully both of us will be able to contribute to the discussion and of course learn a great deal about this intriguing not to mention thrilling subject.

Currently we are experimenting with a Chinese version of the CB6000S although, both of us find it exciting and thrilling for me to wear such a device, however we are still in the very early stages of implementing its fitting and the timetable of usage. We are finding it moderately successful but would very much in the fullness of time like to find something perhaps more permanent and more effective.

I have a Prince Albert piercing with a 4 mm captive ring which we might hopefully incorporate in any future device? One thing which concerns me about using the Prince Albert is that I am uncircumcised and a little worried that a locking device would cause irritation abrasion to the foreskin? Any advice or previous experiences would be greatly appreciated!

[ChastityDomme]

Hello world

I am new here and want to explore chastity with my sub partner. I don't know where to begin really I only know he cannot wear a device and I am happy that he would refrain from coming because he is a very honest person and we are together all the time. Some of the things that interest me are tie and tease, tease and denial, ruined orgasm, edging, orgasm control. I want to find out more.

I am 47 and my partner is 54 we have been together for around 5 years now. We live in the East Midlands and are very happy in our relationship. I am hoping to make new friends here and educate myself with help of your contributers,

CD x

[confinedhubby]

Hello world!

Lurker, now member. I have been interested in the lifestyle for a couple of years but finally made the plunge this summer and in involved my wife. She has embraced it and we are exploring the possibilities.

I post a blog on our experiences at [email protected]

I do have a question for the forum. I have a CB6000 and had one issue with irritation from the side vents. The frequent erections in a confined space led to chaffing on the sides of my member and I needed a break. Any suggestions?

-CH

[wannapleaser]

I had the same problem as,it seems, many others. I stopped using plastic. I tried some of the steel chinese knock offs but they would pinch, irratate, and were not secure. Ultamately ended up with a Mature metal bird cage made specifically to my personal size. I bought their personal sizing kit and used it to their directions, sent it back with my order and they made it in 6 weeks. cost aproximately 350.00 U.S. No pinching very comfortable and easy to keep myself clean without removal. I am very satisfies .It is very comfortable, effective, and secure.

[wannapleaser]

So my fiance has noticed (its hard not to) the improvement in my attitude and the way I treat her, since I started this chastity program combined with some FLR, and submissive husband influence I have been fortunate enough to obtain. I have encouraged her to talk about me to her woman friends to get input from women that are treated the way most are. She tells me She has never been treated so well by a man in her life before. We are both 60. Her friends, and aquaintences range in age from 20 to 60. I do not know for sure if she has said anything, but I know they see the way i treat her and I think they must approve, because the only things I do are good. I truely treat her like the queen of women. we have been together for a little more than 5 years, and I presented this idea to her early on. I have been gentle, continous, and progressive in this persueance. When I first introduced her to this she did not approve. but we have progressed to a point that on the weekends I am free and during the week when she is not with me, I am locked up. Lately she has been taking the key from me and hiding it in the garage, and I have been doing all the things that a good submissive husband would do, and not do. she is becomming used to being treated the way she deserves to be treated. She was married 2 times previously and just is not used to being treated the way most dominant women require their men to treat them. She is not a dom. I believe though, the only reason she is not more stronger or dominant is because this way of acting for her, and most women is suppressed in society, and they have just never been exposed to the way they should be treated. It seems, sadly, that most women expect to be treated like second class people or servants to men, and the most they are programmed to hope for, is to have a good master, and they do not know how to react to being the leader in a relationship. She is seeing the light. She still does not like to see me nude with the cage on, and does not like to feel me rub against her with it on. BUT she does ask if I want to orgasm or be locked up before she leaves for he week, and takes the key, and hides it, so if I want out I had better have a good reason. Also she is to the point of not feeling guilty if she does not want me to make love to her, because I ask her every night when we go to bed if she wants that. She used to apolagise when she was tired or just did not feel like it, but lately I have been able to convience her that the greater pleasure I get, is from giving her pleasure and pleasing her. I actually do not need to orgasm, because her's are so wonderful. And that is the way it should be.

[Bandorven]

OK, hello world. I've been a reader of Thumper's blog for some time and finally decided to peek in here.

Regularly get squeezed into a CB6K by my lovingly teasing wife when she feels it's time for that sort of play between us; I enjoy/hate every minute of it.

Oh, and the name is really bad Tolkien Sindarin for, well, perhaps those who love it can guess on their own.

-Bandorven

[gingerguy]

I've been with my partner since March, I am a 28 and she is 25. A couple of months ago I told her of my desire to be locked in chastity and denied orgasms. A fantasy I have had for about the past 5 years, but have been unable to live out with previous partners. I expected a very different response from the one she gave, which was "if that's what you want to do then lets do it."

We started out with just a week of me not being allowed an orgasm, then a break back to the normality for a few weeks. We are currently halfway through our second period of me being locked up and denied an orgasm which is going to last a couple of weeks, give or take a few days. We have spoken at length about goals and periods of denial and decided that it would be better to increase my periods in chastity gradually.

I have to say the past few months have been amazing. She's has really taken to it and is enjoying the look of frustration on my face when she tells me to stop and get back in my device. I'm so glad that I spoke to her about my desire to be locked in chastity and not keep it hidden away in my head. We've both been honest about how we feel with regards to me being denied and what it means for both of us. We're already considering a month of denial after this one is up, which could start as early as September.

I'm currently locked in a Birdlocked Neo, but we are looking into a different device and are considering the Holy Trainer. I hope to be living the lifestyle I've always craved for many a year to come (or not come, should I say).