Having a great week

[danj]

Hello all,

Haven't posted much lately, as things had been pretty quiet on the chastity front. Been locked some days, mostly unlocked at night (as my wife prefers), and on the honor system other days. We had a nice session on Sunday, with both of us having great orgasms...her from me orally, and me inside of her. What has made for such a great week is the fact that she has let me go down on her 3 times this week, each time she had a nice vocal orgasm, and except Sunday has gently told me she would like me to withhold cumming. Nothing harsh, just telling me she would rather me wait then to cum. So I'm worked up (in a good way) and excited that she seems to be getting more comfortable having me wait, while she still enjoys a nice orgasm. This has been somewhat hard for her to do at times. I feel like she might be starting to actually understand that while I, of course, like to cum, I really DO want our sex life to center on her orgasm, not mine. It's been some ups and downs getting her to get on board on that, but this week, I think she might be starting to get the "your pleasure is my pleasure" theme that I want to make more central in our sex life. Time will tell, but I do think we are making some progress on that, and as you can tell, I'm excited about it! Just thought I'd share with the forum.

[Kiki]

It can be a tricky thing to wrap the brain around (voice of experience, heh). Seeing the results helps! Glad to hear it is going well for you!

[mikecb]

Awesome!

[John]

Good to hear things are going well.
Just be patience and understanding - and enjoy each step along the way.

[michaelnmelissa]

Danj,

Glad to hear it's going better nowadays!

Michael